I need some serious advice from parents,teens,and people who have some sence?

Im 15


and I have a really good friend whos a girl and shes 15 also


We are VERY close friends


but over the last 9 months she has been going out wtih this guy


Hes 17


Shes 15


Rememebr that.


So about 5 months ago he broke up with her because he said she was annoying


But all of a sudden he is in love with her again


She says they date but they are not labled as boyfriend girlfriend? Last night she sent me a txt saying that she has been going';all out'; with him


they have been haveing S** and shes only 15!!!!


She said all he asks for now are b***jobs and s**


He is using her and she dosen't see it


Her parents don't know about it all but don't really like him


Please I need some adivce on what to say to her and what to do


because I can't let this ruin are friendship


it make me this really bad feeling and I don't like it


I need some answers from parents


Teens


People who have this happen


ANYONE!


Please no dumba** answers


only real helpful ones


Thank youI need some serious advice from parents,teens,and people who have some sence?
You need to remind your friends how close you are and how you always want wut is best for her. Sit down and have a very long needed talk tell her she shouldnt be with a guy who only wants those things from her and she shouldn't even be doing them if they are NOT even going out. Tell her to test him tell her to ask him if he really cares for her...if she tells him she wont give him nething for a while see what he says he will most likely leave and then she will really see. It's hard to get a girl to see things when she is blinded by lust..and you may NOT be able to get your friend to see it. But just be there constantly telling her she shouldn't be doing that and that she should just leave him alone..because eventually he is gonna find someone else who can provide and she will be left in pieces. Tell her how dangerous it is he could have other girls doing the same thing..can you say sexually and orally transmitted illnesses..let her know about those how it can ruin her life if he is a cheaterI need some serious advice from parents,teens,and people who have some sence?
First thing, you friend is going to do whatever she wants to do whether she is 15 or not. If she can't see what some guy is doing to her then she won't listen to you. I know that you want to help your friend but that might upset her that you don't think that she is smart enough be with some guy. I think that you should approach her in a calm way and explain to her that not all guys are like that. Some guys actually want to get to know girls before getting sex or head! Be honest in a sincere way.
I can see your problem dude, Tell her what you feel, Coz if you're very close friends just like you said she would be a, Excuse me but a bit*h to not understand you. I'd bet she do understand you, there should't be any probs if you just tell her, share your thought's with her, there is nothing wrong with that.





Good luck =)
if you were really a friend, you would do what is right for your friend, she is way too young to be doing some sh*t like that. maybe you should save her from being stup*d..her bf has being brainwashing her...he is taking advantage of her because he knows that she is sprung over him. if that was my sister, id slap the sh*t out of that boy...talk to her parents, if you cant talk to her parents, talk to your parents to talk to hers about it. i think it would be easier for your parents and you to talk to her, than you going there yourself. save her from being pregnant and getting a disease. or getting herself in a depression. eventually. if she gets mad at you, then she will understand 10 years from now, why you did it. is because you are being the best friend you are. good luck and stay smart.
I know you are her friend and are concerned for her, and that makes sense. however if you start telling her that he is using her that will ruin your friendship, even though you are doing what you thought was right. i've been thru a couple of things like this, i've told my friend that he was using her and we haven't spoken since and that was over 15 years ago. however what you can do is be there for her, cuz her heart will be broken eventually. and what you can tell her is to be safe, use a condom every time even when she gives him a bj. it will be tough on you to watch her, but you also need to tell her that even though she ';loves'; him, she can get pregnant and / or an STD...
if you can give her some evidence to proof that the guy is just using her for sex that would be great, such as he has another gf and he had a bad reputation and sort of investigation about this blok would be helpful. GL.
you need to be gentle but firm. let her read this question, it might make her see the dangers of everything she's doing and how much trouble she could get into
ok my this happened to my friend about a yr ago.. she was 15 to.. so young i know! she thought he really loved her.. nd didnt see he was just using her for sex.. just like your friend..


it really sucked seeing her like this, and when he broke up wif her she started cutting herself!


sweety u must do something about it quik! make her realise he's just using her! he sounds like a complete jerk!


and also my aunty got pregnant when she was onli 15! this could happen 2 her 2.. think about it!


wow this must really suk 4 u.. just be a good friend.. thats all you can really do for now.. dont tell on her because you'll lose her friendship


trust me! just be there for her


gud luk!! =) nd hope i helped
Well you could talk about how she feels about doing that stuff. Maybe she'll come around to seeing that he's really not the guy for her. If it were me I'll tell her to dump him asap, but she might rebel against it. It's always better to let the other person come around to new realizations rather than just telling them something flat out. But it depends, if she respects what you say, maybe you CAN tell her flat out.





Here's another suggestion. Try suggesting to her that she tell him she has something like AIDS that he might catch if he doesn't cut this sex crap out. That might work to at least stop that stuff from going on.
talk to your friend. tell her that this guy doesn't make you feel comfortable. tell her the conaequences of having s** with this guy. What if she got pregnant?? would this guy stay with her and help her?? prob. not if he is only want to have s** with her and her give him b***jobs. if she is a really good friend of your then she should believe you and appriciate that you're trying to look out for you. you're a good friend :)
Don't talk to her about it - you know what she's going to say. A person that thinks they are in love will ignore any advice that tells them to do anything other than what they want to do.





Tell her dad. I know what her dad will say / do to that young man.





You need to find some way to let her parents know - right now! Minister? School teacher maybe?





Think about your relationship if she gets pregnant, or worse, gets any number of the hundreds of sexually transmitted diseases out there - most of which have no cure.





If your friend was about to drink from a glass that had poison in it, would you worry about the relationship, or knock the glass out of her hand before damage could be done?





Bottom line - you know - you don't do and you're as good as going along with it!