I am researching London for a book, and I want to know where to find cheaper middle class housing for a single young adult. I would like it to be a small 2 story probably, apartment, that is less urban but still a bit crowded and cozy. I might even be interested in suburbs outside of London. I just basicly want a nice smallish cozy apartment that might be a bit old ( nothing modern or within the last 10 yrs) that a single woman would live in (vines and flowers and such =) that would be cheap and cozy and moderatly quiet. nothing urban; sry im so specific, but it's important to me. your input would be very helpfull!
Thank you! =)To any local London people!!!! please give your advice?
lol i live near central london, upin the north of london, there are houses like that in the borough of enfield, like in southgate, edmonton, enfeild town, oakwood, winchmore, around there, in edmonton there are small 2-3 bedroom houses that where built in the victorian times, cute little gardens, and reasonably cheap most of tthe roads are small corner roads anyway, in places like southgate and winchmore the houses are usaully bigger, like 3,4+ bedrooms with double the size gardens and a bit more money, they afre also old houses
hope this helped
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Do you ever just want to yell at people when they give you advice?
Did you know that I'm depressed. I was told that one today.
Duh!!!!!
My mother pasted away a month ago today. I didn't
sleep again last night. Wouldn't you be a little bit depressed when this is the first you have ever been on your own.
Duh!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry, need to vent a little. Having another rough day.
Weekends are the worst. Too much time to think.Do you ever just want to yell at people when they give you advice?
It's been 3 years since Mom passed away. And it still hurts. And yes, weekends are the worst, we always talked on Sunday...always.
It will ease with time, but it will never go away. If you ever want to vent...feel free.
Thank you Gem for leading me here. Nymph..we don't know each other..but I am here if you need a friendly ear.Do you ever just want to yell at people when they give you advice?
I'm blushing. That's not easy to do. And I mean every word.
:)
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I know it sounds lame, but hang in there. It will get better with time. I know from experience. And yell all you want to. Amazingly, it does help.
hi i no how u feel and feel free to vent at me any time some people just don't understand Hugs
Sweetie....You know you can vent to me any time you choose to do so.....I really know what you are going through....and you will make it to the other side....My Gramma died a year ago this month...and it hurts....like crazy....and about this time last year a ';friend'; called me and told me I needed to snap out of it...She was better off now......I screamed at her....and yelled and told her off in a big way...and guess what I felt better getting that out of my system....Mind you she and I are not as close as we once were.....but that is okay with me....
Peace.
I know how you feel. I lost my dad about 12 years ago. I was five. It is really annoying, and sadly it never ends. I still hear it. I'll meet someone new, after awhile they'll hear about it somehow, and they'll say their sorry. I can't stand that. Why are they sorry after 12 years, it's not like it's their fault. (okay that was my vent there) Even though you don't want to hear it, you've probably heard it about 100000 times, it does get better. It'll always be hard, but you'll come to peace with it after awhile.
I've felt that way at times but I know they were only trying to help me in their way and I didn't want to drive my friends away I needed them around me for support or advice.
My best friend didn't know what to say to me and stood back a bit for a while and I missed her so much I had to go around and tell her how I felt and she was a great help to me when I needed her..most
Duh!!!!!
My mother pasted away a month ago today. I didn't
sleep again last night. Wouldn't you be a little bit depressed when this is the first you have ever been on your own.
Duh!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry, need to vent a little. Having another rough day.
Weekends are the worst. Too much time to think.Do you ever just want to yell at people when they give you advice?
It's been 3 years since Mom passed away. And it still hurts. And yes, weekends are the worst, we always talked on Sunday...always.
It will ease with time, but it will never go away. If you ever want to vent...feel free.
Thank you Gem for leading me here. Nymph..we don't know each other..but I am here if you need a friendly ear.Do you ever just want to yell at people when they give you advice?
I'm blushing. That's not easy to do. And I mean every word.
:)
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I am sorry to hear of your loss. I know it sounds lame, but hang in there. It will get better with time. I know from experience. And yell all you want to. Amazingly, it does help.
hi i no how u feel and feel free to vent at me any time some people just don't understand Hugs
Sweetie....You know you can vent to me any time you choose to do so.....I really know what you are going through....and you will make it to the other side....My Gramma died a year ago this month...and it hurts....like crazy....and about this time last year a ';friend'; called me and told me I needed to snap out of it...She was better off now......I screamed at her....and yelled and told her off in a big way...and guess what I felt better getting that out of my system....Mind you she and I are not as close as we once were.....but that is okay with me....
Peace.
I know how you feel. I lost my dad about 12 years ago. I was five. It is really annoying, and sadly it never ends. I still hear it. I'll meet someone new, after awhile they'll hear about it somehow, and they'll say their sorry. I can't stand that. Why are they sorry after 12 years, it's not like it's their fault. (okay that was my vent there) Even though you don't want to hear it, you've probably heard it about 100000 times, it does get better. It'll always be hard, but you'll come to peace with it after awhile.
I've felt that way at times but I know they were only trying to help me in their way and I didn't want to drive my friends away I needed them around me for support or advice.
My best friend didn't know what to say to me and stood back a bit for a while and I missed her so much I had to go around and tell her how I felt and she was a great help to me when I needed her..most
Need advice, support, decisions on illness, care, people not believing me.?
Long term illness, late diagnosis, people don't read me accurately. In spite of diagnosises like lupus, multi organ illness, pre cancer, etc people act like I'm not the very truthful person I am and have been. After 6 years of bleeding, I finally got tested for uterine cancer and have pre cancer. It's complicated by my other conditions so I can't get doctors. Some doctors don't believe me or think I'm crazy and I'm not. I've suffered more than anyone knows. My medical care is often botched up due to sincere error or intentionally done actions from disbelief of my story. I haven't sent records many places and unsure where to aim for. People keep acting like I'm doing something else. Prior attempts to see counsellors or clergy were disasterous and miscommunication is common. I meet other health patients who got their screening tests late from skeptical doctors and wonder why some are so well recieved and other honest patients are brushed off or rejected by doctors or in social settingsNeed advice, support, decisions on illness, care, people not believing me.?
I am sorry you are having so much trouble with doctors. While I don't understand anything about the conditions your refer to, please get as many records together as you can and go to a community clinic to see a doctor.If that doesn't go well, to to a university health center. Then to the regular doctor I assume you have. If all else fails, go to a social service agency and ask them for help, or someone who can lead you through the system to successfully get the dianoses and treatments you need.
I am sorry you are having so much trouble with doctors. While I don't understand anything about the conditions your refer to, please get as many records together as you can and go to a community clinic to see a doctor.If that doesn't go well, to to a university health center. Then to the regular doctor I assume you have. If all else fails, go to a social service agency and ask them for help, or someone who can lead you through the system to successfully get the dianoses and treatments you need.
How do you handle people giving you parenting advice?
I have been receiving parenting advice from my sister who has no kids. I have been a nanny for the last 4 years and now have an 11 month old of my own. I have read books/articles and talked to other mom's. My husband and I try to stick to a schedule to meet her needs for sleep and meals. Now my sister who is married with no kids says she doesn't agree with my parenting style??? How do I handle this? I really want to tell her that I don't care what she thinks but I don't want to cause a huge fight. HELP!How do you handle people giving you parenting advice?
you tell her that you don't care what she thinks!!!!!!!!!.......
the best way to handle a situation like this is to simply tell her ...
'listen i am not trying to hurt your feelings but the fact is that you NEVER know what being a parent is REALLY like until you have children of your own. i appreciate that you have your own thoughts and opinions but this is MY child and i will do as i see fit. if you don't agree that's fine but please keep it to yourself.';
no matter what you say or how nice you say it you will more then likely make her mad. but the fact of the matter is that it's really easy to hand out parenting advice when you don't have any kids of your own. everyone has an IDEA of what raising a kid is like.......until they have one of their own and realize everything they thought they knew before has now been blown out of the water. so even though you don't want to start a fight you simply have to be upfront with her or it will never stop.
good luckHow do you handle people giving you parenting advice?
Tell her 'thank you for your advice' and change the subject. Then do whatever you want to do. You never know. One day your sister may actually have some bit of advice you can use.
It is NO DIFFERENT if you have certain health conditions. People will keep giving you advice (even vehemently repeating advice because they think you don't get it). Alas, they can't accept that their solutions don't work. Rather than arguing, I just change the subject.
you respectfully tell her when she has children she can give you all the advice she wants! my younger brother does this too - I have 3 kids and he has none and he always wants to tell me tricks to do with them. I just tell him thanks for the advice but I have tried all that and it doesn't work - you will find out when you have kids.
My husband is more blunt and says, ';here you raise my kids then';
i hate it. but you know what im the kind of person that i dont care what ppl say so my fam dont even bother on telling me what to do plus they say i do a good job. but at first i did have everyone trying to tell me and you know what its better to be rude for a min than be annoy a life time so tell your sister than every one has different views and that you respect hers but it dont mean you agree and ask her to respect your cause the baby is your not hers.
your sister means no harm maybe she envoys you abit try talking to her about clamly about it . if you trust her ask her if she would like to look after your baby for the day .all babies are different just like wise parents ;she should wait till she has a baby of her owen before she starts giving out advice
i am sure you dont argee with her either
just tell her flat out
i had to do this with my mom
she butts in when i try to tell my 2 yr old not to do something
i tell her to stop
if its your family you should be able to speak to them honestly without offending them after all she is not bothered about your feelings when she is telling you she doesnt agree, just tell her when she has children then she can advise you.
Let it go in one ear and right out the other.
there is no use arguing with her and it will just upset you.
Smile, nod and forget it.
Hmmm... i would tell her ';i really appreciate the advice your giving me sis but the way iv been running my things for a while has been working for me....';
you can tell her sumthing like that... lol i would
1) smile
2) nod
3) say think you
4) move on
It ain't worth the fight.
People are perfect parents...until they have a baby of their own. Point that out to your sister.
This seems to happen a lot between new parents, or parents in general, and their childless (or even with children) friends give advice.
Have you considered that there is any truth to what she is saying? Many parents become defense and less objective when someone is criticizing their parenting. Maybe step back for a min, and just see if there is?
Remember that she has never been a parent. Clearly, there are many things in life you dont understand until its you going through it. I never had a strong opinion about assisted suicide until I became a cancer patient, and have lived through that hell. Everyone who talked to me meant well, but always said or did something wrong. I had to fight myself to not be upset with some of the things that happened or was said (and still do) because I know they dont understand.
If this is a case like that, where she just doesnt understand... the only thing you can do is help her walk a mile in your shoes. Maybe try to explain it to her, or try to show her. Im sure you feel like you shouldnt have to, and maybe your right. But if it can facilitate some sort of understanding between the two of you about this advice, it might just be worth doing it even though you shouldnt have to. I shouldnt have to worry about my stuff being stolen at my brother in laws, but I still dont leave my purse laying out.
At the same time, you should try to understand that she probably doesnt mean it to be or even understand why it upsets you or why you dont like it. Keep in mind that in the end, her intentions are probably good, just misplaced.
there seem to be alot of people that think they know better then you i know. my mum spent 3 days telling me my milk was no good because my son kept crying (he had wind) and as i was only 7 days after giving birth it was ripping me up thinking i wasnt good enough for him. but he was gaining more then enough weight so it never was that. my mum would have continued to critisise my milk if i didnt very forcefully tell her that i dont agree with that and this is what im going to do.
i think u need to do that with your sister, be forcefull but still polite, explain to her when she has kids she can parent them the way she wants, your parenting this way and it would be really nice if she would accept that.
ppl need to learn that they can inform you of something but the decision is up to you so y do they push it? its annoying i know but you do need to be forcefull when explaining to her how she is making u feel and stuff. but try to avoide a fight thats the last thing u need.eye shadow
you tell her that you don't care what she thinks!!!!!!!!!.......
the best way to handle a situation like this is to simply tell her ...
'listen i am not trying to hurt your feelings but the fact is that you NEVER know what being a parent is REALLY like until you have children of your own. i appreciate that you have your own thoughts and opinions but this is MY child and i will do as i see fit. if you don't agree that's fine but please keep it to yourself.';
no matter what you say or how nice you say it you will more then likely make her mad. but the fact of the matter is that it's really easy to hand out parenting advice when you don't have any kids of your own. everyone has an IDEA of what raising a kid is like.......until they have one of their own and realize everything they thought they knew before has now been blown out of the water. so even though you don't want to start a fight you simply have to be upfront with her or it will never stop.
good luckHow do you handle people giving you parenting advice?
Tell her 'thank you for your advice' and change the subject. Then do whatever you want to do. You never know. One day your sister may actually have some bit of advice you can use.
It is NO DIFFERENT if you have certain health conditions. People will keep giving you advice (even vehemently repeating advice because they think you don't get it). Alas, they can't accept that their solutions don't work. Rather than arguing, I just change the subject.
you respectfully tell her when she has children she can give you all the advice she wants! my younger brother does this too - I have 3 kids and he has none and he always wants to tell me tricks to do with them. I just tell him thanks for the advice but I have tried all that and it doesn't work - you will find out when you have kids.
My husband is more blunt and says, ';here you raise my kids then';
i hate it. but you know what im the kind of person that i dont care what ppl say so my fam dont even bother on telling me what to do plus they say i do a good job. but at first i did have everyone trying to tell me and you know what its better to be rude for a min than be annoy a life time so tell your sister than every one has different views and that you respect hers but it dont mean you agree and ask her to respect your cause the baby is your not hers.
your sister means no harm maybe she envoys you abit try talking to her about clamly about it . if you trust her ask her if she would like to look after your baby for the day .all babies are different just like wise parents ;she should wait till she has a baby of her owen before she starts giving out advice
i am sure you dont argee with her either
just tell her flat out
i had to do this with my mom
she butts in when i try to tell my 2 yr old not to do something
i tell her to stop
if its your family you should be able to speak to them honestly without offending them after all she is not bothered about your feelings when she is telling you she doesnt agree, just tell her when she has children then she can advise you.
Let it go in one ear and right out the other.
there is no use arguing with her and it will just upset you.
Smile, nod and forget it.
Hmmm... i would tell her ';i really appreciate the advice your giving me sis but the way iv been running my things for a while has been working for me....';
you can tell her sumthing like that... lol i would
1) smile
2) nod
3) say think you
4) move on
It ain't worth the fight.
People are perfect parents...until they have a baby of their own. Point that out to your sister.
This seems to happen a lot between new parents, or parents in general, and their childless (or even with children) friends give advice.
Have you considered that there is any truth to what she is saying? Many parents become defense and less objective when someone is criticizing their parenting. Maybe step back for a min, and just see if there is?
Remember that she has never been a parent. Clearly, there are many things in life you dont understand until its you going through it. I never had a strong opinion about assisted suicide until I became a cancer patient, and have lived through that hell. Everyone who talked to me meant well, but always said or did something wrong. I had to fight myself to not be upset with some of the things that happened or was said (and still do) because I know they dont understand.
If this is a case like that, where she just doesnt understand... the only thing you can do is help her walk a mile in your shoes. Maybe try to explain it to her, or try to show her. Im sure you feel like you shouldnt have to, and maybe your right. But if it can facilitate some sort of understanding between the two of you about this advice, it might just be worth doing it even though you shouldnt have to. I shouldnt have to worry about my stuff being stolen at my brother in laws, but I still dont leave my purse laying out.
At the same time, you should try to understand that she probably doesnt mean it to be or even understand why it upsets you or why you dont like it. Keep in mind that in the end, her intentions are probably good, just misplaced.
there seem to be alot of people that think they know better then you i know. my mum spent 3 days telling me my milk was no good because my son kept crying (he had wind) and as i was only 7 days after giving birth it was ripping me up thinking i wasnt good enough for him. but he was gaining more then enough weight so it never was that. my mum would have continued to critisise my milk if i didnt very forcefully tell her that i dont agree with that and this is what im going to do.
i think u need to do that with your sister, be forcefull but still polite, explain to her when she has kids she can parent them the way she wants, your parenting this way and it would be really nice if she would accept that.
ppl need to learn that they can inform you of something but the decision is up to you so y do they push it? its annoying i know but you do need to be forcefull when explaining to her how she is making u feel and stuff. but try to avoide a fight thats the last thing u need.
Do you think many people act on the advice given to them by 'psychics'?
They had a 'psychic' on a phone in radio show the other day. A woman called in and said she had job and relationship problems and what should she do. The charlatan told her that she should keep her job and ditch her husband.
Do you think many people would take advice like that seriously and do as he suggested?
Does it make you angry that someone's life could be ruined by some joker that makes stuff up as he goes along for the entertainment of radio listeners?Do you think many people act on the advice given to them by 'psychics'?
I don't know the numbers of how many people would follow the advice of psychics or fortune tellers.
I sincerely hope NONE of them are acting on the advice of these people!
They are at best 20% accurate, most of them are using cold reading techniques or facial clue reading. And a few are getting their information from demonic sources.
Lives can be ruined by it such as ';He's not the man for you'; - a ';psychic'; telling some gullible girl to dump her boyfriend. That made me angry to see that on TV. This girl falling for a cold reading technique. Do you think many people act on the advice given to them by 'psychics'?
I think a great many people take the advice of psychics/mediums seriously. They gain the confidence of a partial believer with generalities like 'You're a creative person' and 'Your relationship with your parents could have been better.' Most people answer Yes to these questions. If somebody's predisposed to believe, it's a short step from gaining credibility to advising over major life issues.
It makes me angry that some people are predators and parasites. They are quick to say that it's the client's choice whether to act on their advice. This is true, but they also know they have psychologically manipulated the person. If faced with someone's life being ruined, they would abdicate responsibility and place it firmly on the clients shoulders. I can't relate to or accept people without a conscience or morals.
I think most people evaluate any advice they get, whether from a psychic, an ';expert,'; or even from just someone butting in with unsolicited advice.
Being open minded about the possibility of getting information from less than traditional sources does not necessarily make a person gullible.
There was once a fortune teller at a friend's party, but what she told me just did not feel right. And when I looked at her with a skeptical look, she said, ';Well, maybe not.';
Another person who claimed to be psychic told me about a supposed past life, but I also thought what she told me was bogus. It just did not feel right.
We need to rely on our own intellectual and intuitive abilities even when listening to advice.
I'm a professional medium and clairvoyant, and I'm always encouraging people to regain control of their own lives. What I offer is ';probable'; or ';likely'; outcomes based on what I'm receiving. The future is hardly set in stone.
I think that the ';psychic'; you heard on the radio was full of crap. Yes, I do become upset when I hear something like this. It's reckless, and potentially harmful, but hopefully the woman who got the advice was smart enough to know that, ultimately, her life is in her own hands.
Unfortunately, many people do take their advice, especially if they've paid a lot for it. You've probably seen this site http://www.stopsylvia.com but it's full of stories like this one - http://www.stopsylvia.com/articles/email鈥?/a> - where advice from 'psychic' Sylvia Browne tore a family apart. It really, really bothers me that they get away with doing this. People often turn to psychics when they are most vulnerable - grieving, lost their job, family problems - and these charlatans are exploiting their pain and suffering. It makes me sick.
Usually,their advice is too general to act on..The good ones are able to read a person and give advice that seems relevant to them but could be for anyone.Like I see a child in your future.(Very few of us don't have someone we know with a child).Or you will have stress at work(who doesn't) and it will be resolved(most of it is)..
The only psychics that would give direct advice are those that don't need or care to have returning customers.For most working psychics they must consider business.Since much of their advice will turn out badly,they'd have to answer for it.The chumps err I mean customers would move on to the next mystic.After all it is all about the money.
No I know that they don't act on it. My boyfriend is psychic and he counsels a lot of people. He will warn the person of an upcoming trouble, even try to help them with solutions but they still sit like a bump on a log waiting for whatever negative situation to arise. Sometimes people listen but most of the time not. Then they come back and say oh you really did know what you were talking about and THEN they listen to him when in many cases its too late.
Well, it was ultimately the woman's decision. Nobody twisted her arm or held a gun to her head. Free will and all that. I've had friends tell me the same thing, doesn't mean I'm going to actually DO it, because I have the ability to think for myself.
But I do get your point, that's not very responsible of someone with a gift to push their opinions on others. I believe that it's not the psychic's job to tell people what to do and I've told people as much when giving readings. When it comes to things like that, there have been times I've had to hold back information from someone, because it might influence the decision they were currently making, I was told very strongly by my guides not to give out that specific information. And I tell them that, that I can only tell them so much because it's not my job to influence their decision.
As harsh as it sounds, if you're dumb enough to follow their advice, you probably deserve whatever comes with that.
Well yeah the disabled are an exception. I would ban psychics from ';practice'; but if a normal person buys into it, it's nobody's fault but his or her's
I would not! I would wait it out and see why she said that. I would keep husband and job, and if something bad happens, like he cheats, then ditch him. but why would i listen to a ';so called phsycic?'; i certainly wouldnt
would u??
well answer mine? please?? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
thank u! * ^ looks long but its not, and i need help plz!
Some people actually do listen to psychic's, I would not recommend it.
nopes
98 percent of psychics aren't real so yes. People like Edgar Casey was real.
I feel the same way..and if their so psychic why don't they call you HUH?
I wouldn't.
no, not really
people who do that stuff get what they deserve
I don't think anyone would.
Jonquill, you are really rude sometimes. That's like someone constantly calling you ';that *blank*'; all the time, just because you're a skeptic.
Annnyways. If a person doesn't have the ability to choose for themselves, then they have more to worry about than what some psychic has to tell them.
No woman leaves her husband on a psychics advice alone. She leaves him because it was already on her mind to begin with. She just needed clarity, or an outside source to confirm for her to do so.
We are all responsible for our own lives. I think that you're giving too little credit to people in general.
Also, (I know that this is going to go way over your head) but many times, relationships are saved by the fear of losing the person or by the permission to leave them. When someone frees your mind from worry, by simply saying ';Go ahead and do it.'; It clears the way for you to really feel what is in your heart.
And btw, I have been giving readings for over 8 years...I have never had a disabled person ask me for a reading. And if you are talking about bi-polar or manic depressive types, I have known a lot of people with that problem and they were fully capable of making up their own mind about things.
I often have doubts about psychics who say that anyone can just ask them a question and they will know the answer. I'm not saying that some people don't have this kind of power but from my own experiences and from others I know with psychic gifts, it is not that easy to control what you see. I know that people have taken advice I have given them, but I have never been able to see the answer to any specific question. Usually I will be shown something in a dream or vision or get a feeling about something but I have no control over when it happens.
To answer your question in reference to kinds of psychics you are talking about, I think a lot of people probably do act on this advice whether it is in their best interests or not. People are gullible. I don't think they should though. However, if a friend tells you that he/she has been shown something about a situation or has a feeling about something, it probably is best to heed that advice. Also, anyone who charges for their psychic services, in my opinion, is less than ethical. If you are given information and you do not share it without compensation and something bad happens to that person because you did not tell them it's just wrong and will probably drum up much bad karma. You don't really need a psychic to tell you what to do when it comes to your own life though - listen to your intuition. Everyone has it.
Do you think many people would take advice like that seriously and do as he suggested?
Does it make you angry that someone's life could be ruined by some joker that makes stuff up as he goes along for the entertainment of radio listeners?Do you think many people act on the advice given to them by 'psychics'?
I don't know the numbers of how many people would follow the advice of psychics or fortune tellers.
I sincerely hope NONE of them are acting on the advice of these people!
They are at best 20% accurate, most of them are using cold reading techniques or facial clue reading. And a few are getting their information from demonic sources.
Lives can be ruined by it such as ';He's not the man for you'; - a ';psychic'; telling some gullible girl to dump her boyfriend. That made me angry to see that on TV. This girl falling for a cold reading technique. Do you think many people act on the advice given to them by 'psychics'?
I think a great many people take the advice of psychics/mediums seriously. They gain the confidence of a partial believer with generalities like 'You're a creative person' and 'Your relationship with your parents could have been better.' Most people answer Yes to these questions. If somebody's predisposed to believe, it's a short step from gaining credibility to advising over major life issues.
It makes me angry that some people are predators and parasites. They are quick to say that it's the client's choice whether to act on their advice. This is true, but they also know they have psychologically manipulated the person. If faced with someone's life being ruined, they would abdicate responsibility and place it firmly on the clients shoulders. I can't relate to or accept people without a conscience or morals.
I think most people evaluate any advice they get, whether from a psychic, an ';expert,'; or even from just someone butting in with unsolicited advice.
Being open minded about the possibility of getting information from less than traditional sources does not necessarily make a person gullible.
There was once a fortune teller at a friend's party, but what she told me just did not feel right. And when I looked at her with a skeptical look, she said, ';Well, maybe not.';
Another person who claimed to be psychic told me about a supposed past life, but I also thought what she told me was bogus. It just did not feel right.
We need to rely on our own intellectual and intuitive abilities even when listening to advice.
I'm a professional medium and clairvoyant, and I'm always encouraging people to regain control of their own lives. What I offer is ';probable'; or ';likely'; outcomes based on what I'm receiving. The future is hardly set in stone.
I think that the ';psychic'; you heard on the radio was full of crap. Yes, I do become upset when I hear something like this. It's reckless, and potentially harmful, but hopefully the woman who got the advice was smart enough to know that, ultimately, her life is in her own hands.
Unfortunately, many people do take their advice, especially if they've paid a lot for it. You've probably seen this site http://www.stopsylvia.com but it's full of stories like this one - http://www.stopsylvia.com/articles/email鈥?/a> - where advice from 'psychic' Sylvia Browne tore a family apart. It really, really bothers me that they get away with doing this. People often turn to psychics when they are most vulnerable - grieving, lost their job, family problems - and these charlatans are exploiting their pain and suffering. It makes me sick.
Usually,their advice is too general to act on..The good ones are able to read a person and give advice that seems relevant to them but could be for anyone.Like I see a child in your future.(Very few of us don't have someone we know with a child).Or you will have stress at work(who doesn't) and it will be resolved(most of it is)..
The only psychics that would give direct advice are those that don't need or care to have returning customers.For most working psychics they must consider business.Since much of their advice will turn out badly,they'd have to answer for it.The chumps err I mean customers would move on to the next mystic.After all it is all about the money.
No I know that they don't act on it. My boyfriend is psychic and he counsels a lot of people. He will warn the person of an upcoming trouble, even try to help them with solutions but they still sit like a bump on a log waiting for whatever negative situation to arise. Sometimes people listen but most of the time not. Then they come back and say oh you really did know what you were talking about and THEN they listen to him when in many cases its too late.
Well, it was ultimately the woman's decision. Nobody twisted her arm or held a gun to her head. Free will and all that. I've had friends tell me the same thing, doesn't mean I'm going to actually DO it, because I have the ability to think for myself.
But I do get your point, that's not very responsible of someone with a gift to push their opinions on others. I believe that it's not the psychic's job to tell people what to do and I've told people as much when giving readings. When it comes to things like that, there have been times I've had to hold back information from someone, because it might influence the decision they were currently making, I was told very strongly by my guides not to give out that specific information. And I tell them that, that I can only tell them so much because it's not my job to influence their decision.
As harsh as it sounds, if you're dumb enough to follow their advice, you probably deserve whatever comes with that.
Well yeah the disabled are an exception. I would ban psychics from ';practice'; but if a normal person buys into it, it's nobody's fault but his or her's
I would not! I would wait it out and see why she said that. I would keep husband and job, and if something bad happens, like he cheats, then ditch him. but why would i listen to a ';so called phsycic?'; i certainly wouldnt
would u??
well answer mine? please?? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
thank u! * ^ looks long but its not, and i need help plz!
Some people actually do listen to psychic's, I would not recommend it.
nopes
98 percent of psychics aren't real so yes. People like Edgar Casey was real.
I feel the same way..and if their so psychic why don't they call you HUH?
I wouldn't.
no, not really
people who do that stuff get what they deserve
I don't think anyone would.
Jonquill, you are really rude sometimes. That's like someone constantly calling you ';that *blank*'; all the time, just because you're a skeptic.
Annnyways. If a person doesn't have the ability to choose for themselves, then they have more to worry about than what some psychic has to tell them.
No woman leaves her husband on a psychics advice alone. She leaves him because it was already on her mind to begin with. She just needed clarity, or an outside source to confirm for her to do so.
We are all responsible for our own lives. I think that you're giving too little credit to people in general.
Also, (I know that this is going to go way over your head) but many times, relationships are saved by the fear of losing the person or by the permission to leave them. When someone frees your mind from worry, by simply saying ';Go ahead and do it.'; It clears the way for you to really feel what is in your heart.
And btw, I have been giving readings for over 8 years...I have never had a disabled person ask me for a reading. And if you are talking about bi-polar or manic depressive types, I have known a lot of people with that problem and they were fully capable of making up their own mind about things.
I often have doubts about psychics who say that anyone can just ask them a question and they will know the answer. I'm not saying that some people don't have this kind of power but from my own experiences and from others I know with psychic gifts, it is not that easy to control what you see. I know that people have taken advice I have given them, but I have never been able to see the answer to any specific question. Usually I will be shown something in a dream or vision or get a feeling about something but I have no control over when it happens.
To answer your question in reference to kinds of psychics you are talking about, I think a lot of people probably do act on this advice whether it is in their best interests or not. People are gullible. I don't think they should though. However, if a friend tells you that he/she has been shown something about a situation or has a feeling about something, it probably is best to heed that advice. Also, anyone who charges for their psychic services, in my opinion, is less than ethical. If you are given information and you do not share it without compensation and something bad happens to that person because you did not tell them it's just wrong and will probably drum up much bad karma. You don't really need a psychic to tell you what to do when it comes to your own life though - listen to your intuition. Everyone has it.
Question for people over 25, i need your advice?
How can a woman tell if a man is serious or not?sometimes people say that it depends on the way he treats you.But i know that some guys can treat a woman like a queen but still not loving her.is there any signs?thanks for your answersQuestion for people over 25, i need your advice?
Tricky! You are so right in some cases. I don't know if we will ever have this answer down to an exact answer. The real ? is even if our man loves us will this one cheat? I know a few of my guy friends that are married (love their wives), but cheat and don't think twice. They will get in bed with them. All three give signs of cheating or a need to be unfaithful. All 3 go out drinking and won't come home @ times. The 1 feels that if he only gets a bj that is not cheating. Honestly I think I'd rather hear that my man only a bj than actual sex or doing things with her. That is is I had to. It makes me sick thinking about my man ever being with anyone else. I would have to say to an extent you have to think back to your ex's. This has always helped me a little with the next relationship. I know men are different in alot of ways, but the same in so many other ways. You just have to learn to trust him. Every relationship is different. I feel that you have to be honest, communicate, give some space, appreciate each other, %26amp; have fun together. Pay attention if he is flirty and likes to go out alot without you %26amp; just seems unhappy with you (warning), If he hangs with his ex's (especially crazy ones that interfere) %26amp; refuses to give up friendships for you and you are real serious (warning). The thing is there are guys out there that are good %26amp; have the right intention. This doesn't mean they are horrible. Alot of r problems %26amp; thoughts come from our insecurities and bad past experiences. Every guy is different. You just have to learn about your man %26amp; who he is. I wish I can give you more of a direct answer, but there isn't one. I really hope this will help you. I wish you the best of luck! Stay strong %26amp; let him know you are interested in him. Let him know he still turns you on. Men are like women in a sense they 2 want to be loved. They want to feel like they are the only one for you.Question for people over 25, i need your advice?
Your probably going to get a wide variety of answers, but I'll throw one out there..
He's willing to do something with you he doesn't want to do or wouldn't usually do (like go shopping, or see a chick flick, or go to an Opera) even IF you give him the option to not go, because he wants to spend time with you rather then have you go out alone %26amp; not spending time with you. even if he knows it'll be more fun for him if he didn't go, like watching a game, ect.
It really depends on the man. We are all different in a similar kind of way. Have you tried asking him and judging his responses based on eye contact and body language. You should get a feel for his level of honesty from his response. If you've already asked him, you have to trust his answer because if you don't you'll just end up torturing yourself.
Good luck with that one. Hope it works out for you.
Be honest with her about your feelings...True Love shows in so many ways,In your Eyes,In your Face.The way you look at your partner..The way in which you speak to each other.The way you look after each other,treat one and other.In Oh-So-Many-Ways..It can be just a simple touch of the head or the hand....And you do these things,not because you have to,but because you want too.Its the special little things that mean so much.
the bast way is to ask - and to make him aware that you yourself are serious - if he looks scared when you tell him you know his answer. you need to be honest with him and he will or should be honest back. if you tell him your serious then you will know how he feels with his reaction. just ask
Nows the time you sit down for a little chat and ask where he see the relationship going. Most couples do this, especially if they want to spend a future together. The only reason he would not want to do this is because he does not see a future in your type of relationship.
If he's not interested he certainly wouldn't be treating you like a queen, it might not be love but there's definetly something there...
Go with it and see where it takes you, if its not enough then walk away, I know its easier said than done but you will do it....
well actually it depends...
in my country if a man is serious to make a relationship with a woman than he will go to the womans parent house to introducing him self. but bcoz maybe ur not live in my country than maybe he will ask you to go to the next level...
Time will tell.If he's nice to you/If he put's you first sometime's/And like's spending time with you.Go with your guts...TRUST.....Is a hard think to do sometimes but you have to do it just to no what's going on in love.Give it a go....good luck....
it sounds really stuped but its in the kiss, when he kisses you does it feel like he's giving you his heart? Does he hold your hand in a crowd just to know you're beside him? You know already, you dont need us to tell you. :-)
every man is different... trial and error is your only way...
Sounds like you have been hurt before... We all know guys that promise the world and are sneaky and nasty but you'll know in your gut if he is a good one - go with it
Not really us men are usrs and very sneaky.
As a man, you will never know what's in our hearts.
Go with your gut.
ask him! but if u feel you cant then is he really the one u want 2 be with? good luck x
Use your instinct....it works very well.
Tricky! You are so right in some cases. I don't know if we will ever have this answer down to an exact answer. The real ? is even if our man loves us will this one cheat? I know a few of my guy friends that are married (love their wives), but cheat and don't think twice. They will get in bed with them. All three give signs of cheating or a need to be unfaithful. All 3 go out drinking and won't come home @ times. The 1 feels that if he only gets a bj that is not cheating. Honestly I think I'd rather hear that my man only a bj than actual sex or doing things with her. That is is I had to. It makes me sick thinking about my man ever being with anyone else. I would have to say to an extent you have to think back to your ex's. This has always helped me a little with the next relationship. I know men are different in alot of ways, but the same in so many other ways. You just have to learn to trust him. Every relationship is different. I feel that you have to be honest, communicate, give some space, appreciate each other, %26amp; have fun together. Pay attention if he is flirty and likes to go out alot without you %26amp; just seems unhappy with you (warning), If he hangs with his ex's (especially crazy ones that interfere) %26amp; refuses to give up friendships for you and you are real serious (warning). The thing is there are guys out there that are good %26amp; have the right intention. This doesn't mean they are horrible. Alot of r problems %26amp; thoughts come from our insecurities and bad past experiences. Every guy is different. You just have to learn about your man %26amp; who he is. I wish I can give you more of a direct answer, but there isn't one. I really hope this will help you. I wish you the best of luck! Stay strong %26amp; let him know you are interested in him. Let him know he still turns you on. Men are like women in a sense they 2 want to be loved. They want to feel like they are the only one for you.Question for people over 25, i need your advice?
Your probably going to get a wide variety of answers, but I'll throw one out there..
He's willing to do something with you he doesn't want to do or wouldn't usually do (like go shopping, or see a chick flick, or go to an Opera) even IF you give him the option to not go, because he wants to spend time with you rather then have you go out alone %26amp; not spending time with you. even if he knows it'll be more fun for him if he didn't go, like watching a game, ect.
It really depends on the man. We are all different in a similar kind of way. Have you tried asking him and judging his responses based on eye contact and body language. You should get a feel for his level of honesty from his response. If you've already asked him, you have to trust his answer because if you don't you'll just end up torturing yourself.
Good luck with that one. Hope it works out for you.
Be honest with her about your feelings...True Love shows in so many ways,In your Eyes,In your Face.The way you look at your partner..The way in which you speak to each other.The way you look after each other,treat one and other.In Oh-So-Many-Ways..It can be just a simple touch of the head or the hand....And you do these things,not because you have to,but because you want too.Its the special little things that mean so much.
the bast way is to ask - and to make him aware that you yourself are serious - if he looks scared when you tell him you know his answer. you need to be honest with him and he will or should be honest back. if you tell him your serious then you will know how he feels with his reaction. just ask
Nows the time you sit down for a little chat and ask where he see the relationship going. Most couples do this, especially if they want to spend a future together. The only reason he would not want to do this is because he does not see a future in your type of relationship.
If he's not interested he certainly wouldn't be treating you like a queen, it might not be love but there's definetly something there...
Go with it and see where it takes you, if its not enough then walk away, I know its easier said than done but you will do it....
well actually it depends...
in my country if a man is serious to make a relationship with a woman than he will go to the womans parent house to introducing him self. but bcoz maybe ur not live in my country than maybe he will ask you to go to the next level...
Time will tell.If he's nice to you/If he put's you first sometime's/And like's spending time with you.Go with your guts...TRUST.....Is a hard think to do sometimes but you have to do it just to no what's going on in love.Give it a go....good luck....
it sounds really stuped but its in the kiss, when he kisses you does it feel like he's giving you his heart? Does he hold your hand in a crowd just to know you're beside him? You know already, you dont need us to tell you. :-)
every man is different... trial and error is your only way...
Sounds like you have been hurt before... We all know guys that promise the world and are sneaky and nasty but you'll know in your gut if he is a good one - go with it
Not really us men are usrs and very sneaky.
As a man, you will never know what's in our hearts.
Go with your gut.
ask him! but if u feel you cant then is he really the one u want 2 be with? good luck x
Use your instinct....it works very well.
Please Help! Your advice is needed! Why are people so resistant of being converted to the Christian Faith?
Don't people know that Christ is the right way. So many non-believers are like the sheeps in Plato's Allegory of a Cave. They walk through life in chains of lustful sexually intense desires and greedy need to succeed. It is only the brilliant soul who frees himself from the chains of Satan that sees the light of Christ.
Pres. George Bush is a good example. When he was young he was deceived by the devils that are the non-believers. They coaxed him into believing sex, drugs and rock n roll was the religion.
They made him snort coke and heroine. He enjoyed intense sexual intercourse with both men and women. All he thought about was sex, giving and recieving, penetration and being penetrated (fact).
Only now has he seen Christ and in many ways resemble Christ in his actions to save the Christian American race from the tyranny of the barbarians who are the non-believers. HIs activism to create a better America makes us all proud to say 'We are Americans', God Bless AmericaPlease Help! Your advice is needed! Why are people so resistant of being converted to the Christian Faith?
yah. and how come cute baby angels are always white?,and how come angels cake is white,and devil cake is black. and how come jesus looked so ripped on the crossed,was he on trim-spa?Please Help! Your advice is needed! Why are people so resistant of being converted to the Christian Faith?
And I thought brainwashing died with Hitler.
People are resistant to being converted to the Christian religion because not everyone wants to become a brainwashed lemming.
cause its a crock
Because a lot of Christians are hypocrits. Do as I say, not as I do.
what in the world kinda question is this??
praise the Lord he gave men and women FREE WILL bucko
praise the almighty DIRTY S** ACTS, G W Bush is a man and nothing more... you do know there is a religion section in here right???
hehehehe
wow i won't even dignify that with a response
It's people like u who scare others away from Christ!!
Grow up and start acting like a normal Christian not a half c*cked religious nut!
';...because people are afraid to walk by faith, as they only know how to deal with what's in sight.'; The worldly people need material things and since our GOD is not of this world, how could they possibly believe in what they can not SEE. Tangible items, supremacy and dictatorship seem more important to those who feel that they are their own god. Guess what? They are the ones who will not be taken up on that glorious day! In the interim, let's pray for them... ALL OF THEM!
It's the only religion that forces itself onto others.
Because it's force.!
YOU READ WAY TO MUCH AND THE SAD THING IS YOU ARE INFLUENCED BY IT
People are being decieved by the ways of the world. Just look around. People are trying to take God out of everything. Just read the book of revolations, and it talks all about how people forsake God and his ordenances.
People have a right to their own beliefs,whether you agree or not.
read the bible and you will know...
On top of that, Jesus is supposed to love everyone even non-believers. It sounds to me like you are a racist, but Jesus still loves you even though you are the one with the problem. And according to Jesus everyone is going to hell, reread your bible! By the way I'm American and I'm not Christian. Jesus would have told Bush to turn the other Cheek. Oh and if you are such a good Christian, can I have a million dollars? In the bible it says that if your brother asks something of you you should give unto them more than they ask of you in return.
Because of people like you.
Pres. George Bush is a good example. When he was young he was deceived by the devils that are the non-believers. They coaxed him into believing sex, drugs and rock n roll was the religion.
They made him snort coke and heroine. He enjoyed intense sexual intercourse with both men and women. All he thought about was sex, giving and recieving, penetration and being penetrated (fact).
Only now has he seen Christ and in many ways resemble Christ in his actions to save the Christian American race from the tyranny of the barbarians who are the non-believers. HIs activism to create a better America makes us all proud to say 'We are Americans', God Bless AmericaPlease Help! Your advice is needed! Why are people so resistant of being converted to the Christian Faith?
yah. and how come cute baby angels are always white?,and how come angels cake is white,and devil cake is black. and how come jesus looked so ripped on the crossed,was he on trim-spa?Please Help! Your advice is needed! Why are people so resistant of being converted to the Christian Faith?
And I thought brainwashing died with Hitler.
People are resistant to being converted to the Christian religion because not everyone wants to become a brainwashed lemming.
cause its a crock
Because a lot of Christians are hypocrits. Do as I say, not as I do.
what in the world kinda question is this??
praise the Lord he gave men and women FREE WILL bucko
praise the almighty DIRTY S** ACTS, G W Bush is a man and nothing more... you do know there is a religion section in here right???
hehehehe
wow i won't even dignify that with a response
It's people like u who scare others away from Christ!!
Grow up and start acting like a normal Christian not a half c*cked religious nut!
';...because people are afraid to walk by faith, as they only know how to deal with what's in sight.'; The worldly people need material things and since our GOD is not of this world, how could they possibly believe in what they can not SEE. Tangible items, supremacy and dictatorship seem more important to those who feel that they are their own god. Guess what? They are the ones who will not be taken up on that glorious day! In the interim, let's pray for them... ALL OF THEM!
It's the only religion that forces itself onto others.
Because it's force.!
YOU READ WAY TO MUCH AND THE SAD THING IS YOU ARE INFLUENCED BY IT
People are being decieved by the ways of the world. Just look around. People are trying to take God out of everything. Just read the book of revolations, and it talks all about how people forsake God and his ordenances.
People have a right to their own beliefs,whether you agree or not.
read the bible and you will know...
On top of that, Jesus is supposed to love everyone even non-believers. It sounds to me like you are a racist, but Jesus still loves you even though you are the one with the problem. And according to Jesus everyone is going to hell, reread your bible! By the way I'm American and I'm not Christian. Jesus would have told Bush to turn the other Cheek. Oh and if you are such a good Christian, can I have a million dollars? In the bible it says that if your brother asks something of you you should give unto them more than they ask of you in return.
Because of people like you.
Why do people at my job give me advice like there saints?
Why do people at my job give me advice like there saints?
They try giving me advice on my boyfriend telling me not to move in with him till i get married , telling me not to have sex till im married, which i already have done before. But i would say 80% of the women in my job are divorsed at least 2 times . And there trying to give me advice?
I can understand if they are still married that means they did somthing right but these women are giving me advice that probebly caused them to get divorsed
And i asked them if they did what there telling me to do and they say yesWhy do people at my job give me advice like there saints?
Because their life is crap and they have nothin better to do but to get all in yo buisness.Why do people at my job give me advice like there saints?
They are giving you advice because they have been there and done that. Yes it is your life but these people just want you to avoid the mistakes they made. I have 3 younger sisters, there is a 22 year age difference between me and my youngest sister. I have learned some painful lessons in life and I would give anything to see my sisters avoid some of things I've been through. So, while I'm not saying you should follow everything they tell you, I am saying that you might hear something worthwhile if you'll listen.
When you discuss your personal life at work, you are going to hear advice.
Want another piece of advice? ';Don't S**t where you eat';
If you weren't telling them your business, they wouldn't be giving you advice.
Tell them you appreciate their concern but you have everything under control.
It's the old ';do as I say,not as I do'; cliche. People tend to give advice that they wouldn't follow if they were in your shoes.
The only thing you can do is decide whats best for you regardless of what the people at work have to say.It's your life ;do it your way!
They try giving me advice on my boyfriend telling me not to move in with him till i get married , telling me not to have sex till im married, which i already have done before. But i would say 80% of the women in my job are divorsed at least 2 times . And there trying to give me advice?
I can understand if they are still married that means they did somthing right but these women are giving me advice that probebly caused them to get divorsed
And i asked them if they did what there telling me to do and they say yesWhy do people at my job give me advice like there saints?
Because their life is crap and they have nothin better to do but to get all in yo buisness.Why do people at my job give me advice like there saints?
They are giving you advice because they have been there and done that. Yes it is your life but these people just want you to avoid the mistakes they made. I have 3 younger sisters, there is a 22 year age difference between me and my youngest sister. I have learned some painful lessons in life and I would give anything to see my sisters avoid some of things I've been through. So, while I'm not saying you should follow everything they tell you, I am saying that you might hear something worthwhile if you'll listen.
When you discuss your personal life at work, you are going to hear advice.
Want another piece of advice? ';Don't S**t where you eat';
If you weren't telling them your business, they wouldn't be giving you advice.
Tell them you appreciate their concern but you have everything under control.
It's the old ';do as I say,not as I do'; cliche. People tend to give advice that they wouldn't follow if they were in your shoes.
The only thing you can do is decide whats best for you regardless of what the people at work have to say.It's your life ;do it your way!
Why do people insist on giving me crappy marital advice?
All I asked for in my last question was simple advice on getting married in two weeks. I love my soon to be wife and I want her next to me until the day she lowers me into my grave. Why do people think that because I ask for advice that I am doubting my intentions of marriage? All I want are simple answers, so maybe it's my fault and I wasn't clear enough. I will rephrase. PLEASE OFFER ME SOME TIPS ON BEING MARRIED. I KNOW IT ISN'T EASY AND I WANT TO GET AS MANY IDEAS AS I CAN TO BE THE BEST PERSON I CAN BE FOR MY WIFE. Now if you want to be a freaking Freud about it, screw. If you have something from your personal experience irregardless of spiritual or social backgroung that you would like to share please answer. And from all the fellas...I already know the smart *** answers, but keep them coming it eases my nerves a little. ';Hello Wisconsin!!!';Why do people insist on giving me crappy marital advice?
Congrats, first of all!
#1: GIve the same consideration (or better) to your wife than you would your friend/coworker/stranger. So many times we are quick to jump on our spouses for something small that we'd say ';no problem'; to someone else.
#2: If they do something wrong, remember something they do right...very right.
#3: There might be an adjustment period after the wedding. Kind of like the day after your birthday...you partied, got presents and were the center of attention and the then next day it's business as usual. LOL.
#4: When other guy friends are talking trash about their wives, don't chime in just to keep up. Expect the same from your wife.
#5: Even when life gets busy, don't forget to look her in the eyes when you talk. Sometimes a whole day can go by and you realize you haven't even looked into each other's eyes.
#5: When she impresses you, tell her. I can't tell you what it means for my husband to just pop up with ';I can't believe you can just do that...I never could and you amaze me';. I was high on that comment forever.
Remember, life is a journey and so is marriage. You can make it harder than it has to be...but there's no reason. Laugh, love and enjoy.Why do people insist on giving me crappy marital advice?
the one thing i think is important is,,,,,,,treat you spouse with the same respect and dignity that you want from them.......
You are asking a big question in a small space. That is, marriage is not something you can give advice on within the confines of such a forum as Yahoo! Answers. My advice is to get to a library and find a book on marriage, a good one that offers real advice to someone who honestly wants advice, not a popular how-to book and what to do and not do your first night together--although that's not bad information to have. Other than that, all I can say is if you have the attitude you show in your current question about how you feel about your soon-to-be bride, you'll not go wrong in the end.
Cuz you ask for it?
Give her space and take some for yourself
trust in her and expect trust from her
work toward mutual goals and make sure you dont take each other for granted. Keep working at it and talk a lot.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
Be honest with each other, talk things out when you get into a fight, give her your everything to show her you're dedicated to the marriage, be yourself, compliment your upcoming wife if she looks good or hot, help around the house like doing the laundry and dishes, do things with her that she likes, and love her!
Don't get into a routine always give one another compliments..don't let yourself go and always take time to go out with each other at least once a month.
always keep communication open and be honest and open with everything with her. Be a good listner and surprise her with something once a week like a bunch of flowers one day or taking her to dinner the other or doing cleaning around the house just little things that will make her happy.
You dont need any tips on being married cause it will be no different to the relationship you are now... Just be yourself cause thats who she fell in love with and who she will stay in love with. Good luck with it all to both of you.
Congrats, first of all!
#1: GIve the same consideration (or better) to your wife than you would your friend/coworker/stranger. So many times we are quick to jump on our spouses for something small that we'd say ';no problem'; to someone else.
#2: If they do something wrong, remember something they do right...very right.
#3: There might be an adjustment period after the wedding. Kind of like the day after your birthday...you partied, got presents and were the center of attention and the then next day it's business as usual. LOL.
#4: When other guy friends are talking trash about their wives, don't chime in just to keep up. Expect the same from your wife.
#5: Even when life gets busy, don't forget to look her in the eyes when you talk. Sometimes a whole day can go by and you realize you haven't even looked into each other's eyes.
#5: When she impresses you, tell her. I can't tell you what it means for my husband to just pop up with ';I can't believe you can just do that...I never could and you amaze me';. I was high on that comment forever.
Remember, life is a journey and so is marriage. You can make it harder than it has to be...but there's no reason. Laugh, love and enjoy.Why do people insist on giving me crappy marital advice?
the one thing i think is important is,,,,,,,treat you spouse with the same respect and dignity that you want from them.......
You are asking a big question in a small space. That is, marriage is not something you can give advice on within the confines of such a forum as Yahoo! Answers. My advice is to get to a library and find a book on marriage, a good one that offers real advice to someone who honestly wants advice, not a popular how-to book and what to do and not do your first night together--although that's not bad information to have. Other than that, all I can say is if you have the attitude you show in your current question about how you feel about your soon-to-be bride, you'll not go wrong in the end.
Cuz you ask for it?
Give her space and take some for yourself
trust in her and expect trust from her
work toward mutual goals and make sure you dont take each other for granted. Keep working at it and talk a lot.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
Be honest with each other, talk things out when you get into a fight, give her your everything to show her you're dedicated to the marriage, be yourself, compliment your upcoming wife if she looks good or hot, help around the house like doing the laundry and dishes, do things with her that she likes, and love her!
Don't get into a routine always give one another compliments..don't let yourself go and always take time to go out with each other at least once a month.
always keep communication open and be honest and open with everything with her. Be a good listner and surprise her with something once a week like a bunch of flowers one day or taking her to dinner the other or doing cleaning around the house just little things that will make her happy.
You dont need any tips on being married cause it will be no different to the relationship you are now... Just be yourself cause thats who she fell in love with and who she will stay in love with. Good luck with it all to both of you.
I am looking for people who have experience and advice on being a webcam model.?
I am a girl, so girls please share any experiences with me-I do not want to see pics of you! LOL. And guys, I know some of you do it too, and your opinion also counts:) I am just interested in whether or not this would be a fun hobby that would entertain me, increase my sex drive and also pay well. I don't have to work, and the thought of it turns my husband on so he is totally backing me. I am very good looking and have done some bikini modeling, television jobs on FX and several other stints for Tostitos and stuff. So what I am wondering is if there are any people who could give me any advice. I am purely doing this for fun, my sex life and of course I would not mind the money. And to all the people who will say that I am a slut-shutup. I have only been with one man and I was never a stripper and never worked at Hooters or anything. I am just a hot open minded girl. So, if you are insecure then find another question to answer:)I am looking for people who have experience and advice on being a webcam model.?
well, if you are gonna charge then you should have something new and interesting, cos there are girls around the world who charge less money for more fun...
but if you wanna practice, i'm always open to help out... ;) got plenty of experience of wecamming and cybersex... :DI am looking for people who have experience and advice on being a webcam model.?
could be fun for you and your fella by the sounds of it.
you are a slut though.
FFS, some bad miffs on this site, get on with it girl, and will everyone else grow up. it's not prostitution (not like there is much wrong with that) and it is hardly an ewwww situation.
GOOD LUCK.
hell you go for it. don't let people talk down on you **** all of them!
u can not ignore ur husband's idea about ur job. think more about it.
i dont think they are called ';webcam models'; its just an online form of prostituting
eww!!! that's stange. why do you want to do this? get a life!eye shadow
well, if you are gonna charge then you should have something new and interesting, cos there are girls around the world who charge less money for more fun...
but if you wanna practice, i'm always open to help out... ;) got plenty of experience of wecamming and cybersex... :DI am looking for people who have experience and advice on being a webcam model.?
could be fun for you and your fella by the sounds of it.
you are a slut though.
FFS, some bad miffs on this site, get on with it girl, and will everyone else grow up. it's not prostitution (not like there is much wrong with that) and it is hardly an ewwww situation.
GOOD LUCK.
hell you go for it. don't let people talk down on you **** all of them!
u can not ignore ur husband's idea about ur job. think more about it.
i dont think they are called ';webcam models'; its just an online form of prostituting
eww!!! that's stange. why do you want to do this? get a life!
Okay I really need answers please! People who are good at relationship advice...read!!!!?
How do I get this girl to like me? Also, how do I flirt around with her? Finally, how should I act around this girl that I like? Last crush, I got too nervous and ignored her and I definately know that that is not the way to go. So please help me!Okay I really need answers please! People who are good at relationship advice...read!!!!?
have Faith in yourself, take a look at yourself in the mirror find three things that are great about you. then believe them.then go for it nerves will always be there ,but look what happened last time.you will miss out on all the girls you like all your life and that is a waste of life..dude you could be dead tomorrow so live it..plez just live it.flirting is in your heart and soul, it will come naturally to you as you feel more comfortable.if som,eon was to tell you how to flirt you will more than likely come off looking g like a dingbat, so be true to yourself and go with the flow, it will come back to you.good luckOkay I really need answers please! People who are good at relationship advice...read!!!!?
I don't know the girl or her likes/dislikes. But for me, when a guy seems shy and looks my way and maybe says ';hi'; to me in a shy way and likes to hang around me, I get the impression he likes me. If she likes music, talk to her about music. Same with movies, sports or video games. Try to find out what she likes. If she has a favorite music, you could give her a CD. If she is ionto manga, get her latest magazine or such. You could offer to go to a movie with her.You seem sweet. This is good. I know sweet guys are much better than macho guys who act so superior.
Best of luck with her. I hope she likes you too!
first and foremost talk to her, find out what she likes, let her know that you are interested in her by talking to her just simple stuff at first ask her for help with something... ectra. as for how to act around her be your self other wise she might like who your pretending to be more then who you really are. finally its OK to be nervous, most girls have a need to be supportive if she likes you too she will respond if she does not then you can at least know that you tried. women are complicated you have to adapt to what type of person they are... but that's another class all together...
you do not need to act like a dip shi.t or something your not just go up and ask her out ans when your out tell her alittle about yourself and let her tell alittle about herself to if she wants to but do not talk her leg off. remember there is no one better to help you then you. your the only one that can make thing happen for you on this one. half the battle is being yourself in front of the girl you want to be with or ask out. A fool is a person that lets something slip through his/her fingers and that person sits back and doess nothing
but a winner is one that trys and if he fails he still is a winner but who knows she might say yes too
Pray for that!
I was always attracted to boys who were interested in the same things as me. If you see her carrying (for instance) a book, check out the same book, read a little of it, and you will have a great conversation starter. Show her you are interested or she will never have the oportunity to see if she likes you too.
Just be yourself. talk to her. Don't be afraid the worst that could happen is she says she only wants to be friends. everyone could use more friends. Being shy is a turn off to most girls. But so is being a macho *** like some of the people who answered your question. So be yourself and go talk to her. Good luck.
Start a conversation with her. Just be yourself. You should also be nice to her, and compliment her. Offer to help her whenever you can. Once you become friends, talk about yourself more; just don't brag about yourself. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then she's not the right girl for you.
Put a smile on your face and be a gentleman and that will definitely make her notice. Offer some help when you see a lot of books with her. A friendly nod or a little hi when you see her goes a long way, my friend! It all starts with a simple simple gesture!
The only thing that will make a girl not notice you is to not let her know that you like her. Flirt with her just as you would flirt with anyone else but don't be annoying. You shouldn't act like anything either cuz girls hate acts. If she likes you then lucky you if not then look for someone who does. The best thing is to make her your friend first and then you can build on it cuz if you can't get along as friends you'll never get along as lovers.
the best way to make a person like you is to be just yourself.
no matter what the situation is, you'll be able to handle it well when you're being yourself.
be confident with yourself and don't try to act like you're someone else...
it would do the trick... Goodluck!
Don't ignore her. I had the same problem except with my boyfriend. I would see him in the hallway and he would try to kiss me but I'd move away or pretend i didn't see him. It didn't turn out good but what you should do is this.
-Become her bestfriend, talk with her if possible sit at a table near her at lunch. Ask her to borrow her notes in school. If you see her in the mall and your comfortable with her and are basically best friends when you see her around give her a hug.
-Flirt with her:: smile at her in class, tickle her, complement her shirt,hair %26amp; whatever
get to know her better and plan your moves also try to find out if she has someone else in mind.Follow your heart
Just be URself, If ur Gonna act a Different person Something will Go wrong.. Just to be On the safe side.. be uself, Respect her feelings,watch wat ur words %26amp; gesture... Give her, her space... Act like an gentlemen.. Girls Like guys who respect Them for who they r.. When u see her Give a casual comment on How sweet she Looks N stuffs.. DOn't over do it or she might think ur a Jerk Just trying to get to her..
you should try and talk to her and see if there's signs of her liking you. if not, you can't make her like you. she either does or she doesn't. and if you pretend to be someone else just so that she likes you she'll discover the truth soon and dump you. so just be yourself and talk to her :).
Just be yourself. Don't try to show off, to impress. We can spot a phoney. Just give sincere compliments, but be consistent. Mixed signals are a turn off for anybody.
1. Does she know you're alive?
if she doesnt, make sure she DOES! and show her some signs tht you like her like smiling whenever you see her, or eye contact..
2. Ask her about her favorite bands, what she likes to do, and if she likes the funny type, which most girls like me do, tell her jokes tht'll make her laugh! I love guys tht can make me laugh! to me, the definition of flirting is just talking to someone you like.. lol idk
3. ACT NORMAL!!! if you get all nervous and wierd, ppl dont feel comfortable! and dont ask if shes ';ok'; every 5 seconds because tht just makes it look like YOU are insecure about something.. you just have to be confident and thts all you'll need!
4. if you dont think you can make it through a date without completely falling apart, make it a group date!!! those gaurantee fun, and friends tht will help you during the date...
5. GOOD LUCK!!!! and i hope you get the GF of your dreams!
be honest with her. Honesty will make u feel better. you are throwing your cards on the table and are not ignoring her.
What a panzy! Grow up, or r u really a homo?
when u pass by her , give her a smile , do everything above ppl told u to but remember not to make her fun . usually a boy who like a girl ends up making her fun , which goes wromg . dont dare irritate her.
girls like a guy that can be cool calm and collected. you have to be yourself. if a guy is too shy, then it turns a girl away. it can be hard to work up the nerve, but it is better if you ask her yourself, don't send a friend to do it or a note. start by asking if she would like to hang out or catch a movie or even do homework together. go from there. don't be rude like some guys. and if she accepts, then find out if she has a boyfriend, if not then ask her if she would like to date you. tell her she is pretty or that she lloks nice, smells good, she is smart, those kinds of things. don't tell her she has a cute butt or stare at her chest, girls hate that kind of thing.
first be friends with her
find out what she likes to do..mmm blah blah
be there for her anytime
show her respect ';ALWAYS';
just be coo wit her....
Just be yourself, don't change who you are or how you act for anyone, it won't be worth it. You should try to get to know her, and what might make her happy. ALWAYS treat her with respect, be nice to her, it goes a long way.
stop flirting .and approach her 4 d marriage if u r really serious 4 her,other wise 4get it
you just need to be nice and talk to her. Compliment her sometimes, how she looks. ';you have beautiful eyes';, ';you changed your hair, I love it';, ';That piece of clothing looks great on you'; somethings girls love to hear. Also be yourself, its better to be hated for who you are then loved for who you are not.
well, just be yourself. show your girl that you care %26amp; respect her. try having friendly conversations (first) and then ask her out: go to a movie, picnic at the park, walk on the beach, etc. don't try to flirt around her but rather compliment her (clothings/smile/purse/shoes/etc).. be honest that means don't lie to her, cuz a small lies can hurt her feeling. just be yourself %26amp; have some confident in winning her love. good luck!!
Ok, here is the sure-fire way to handle this type of situation.
From this day forward forget sex, intimacy and love in connection with her. Erase it from your mind. When you slip up erase it again.
From this day forward she is a new aquaintance and you are building a friendship--just like with a dude. Treat every meeting just like that.
Be her friend. Be her friend. Be her friend.
Then one day she is going to have this realization that she can have the best of both worlds freindship and sex. You winner you.
Later the whole thing is going to hell, but don't think about that right now.
Just be her friend. No sex thoughts at all.
This works everytime. So, please make sure you want it. It is based on the mechanics of energy flows, dispersals, and ridges.
Thank me later.
Just calm down. This girl is human to you know. You can flirt around with her by saying ';You look nice today '; or '; Whats that lovely smell is it you';. Don't ignore her but you can play hard to get as well. Pls don't trie to be a show of girls don't like that! Just be yourself. Then you would know that if she likes you back she really likes you for you and not the person you are tried to be.
Good luck!!
DO NOt flirt with her it will just turn her off.!!! just tell her normally im sure it will work !!
You sound like a nice guy . . . so, just be yourself. Talk to her and find out what you have in common (music, books, movies, whatever). Become friends first, then let the relationship progress naturally. You'll feel less nervous when you're around her and you certainly won't ignore her because she'll be your friend. Good luck!
just be yourself. if your not comfortable around the person then they are not right for you. just talk to her, pay attention to her, spend extra time with her, its the little things that will let her know you like her.
have Faith in yourself, take a look at yourself in the mirror find three things that are great about you. then believe them.then go for it nerves will always be there ,but look what happened last time.you will miss out on all the girls you like all your life and that is a waste of life..dude you could be dead tomorrow so live it..plez just live it.flirting is in your heart and soul, it will come naturally to you as you feel more comfortable.if som,eon was to tell you how to flirt you will more than likely come off looking g like a dingbat, so be true to yourself and go with the flow, it will come back to you.good luckOkay I really need answers please! People who are good at relationship advice...read!!!!?
I don't know the girl or her likes/dislikes. But for me, when a guy seems shy and looks my way and maybe says ';hi'; to me in a shy way and likes to hang around me, I get the impression he likes me. If she likes music, talk to her about music. Same with movies, sports or video games. Try to find out what she likes. If she has a favorite music, you could give her a CD. If she is ionto manga, get her latest magazine or such. You could offer to go to a movie with her.You seem sweet. This is good. I know sweet guys are much better than macho guys who act so superior.
Best of luck with her. I hope she likes you too!
first and foremost talk to her, find out what she likes, let her know that you are interested in her by talking to her just simple stuff at first ask her for help with something... ectra. as for how to act around her be your self other wise she might like who your pretending to be more then who you really are. finally its OK to be nervous, most girls have a need to be supportive if she likes you too she will respond if she does not then you can at least know that you tried. women are complicated you have to adapt to what type of person they are... but that's another class all together...
you do not need to act like a dip shi.t or something your not just go up and ask her out ans when your out tell her alittle about yourself and let her tell alittle about herself to if she wants to but do not talk her leg off. remember there is no one better to help you then you. your the only one that can make thing happen for you on this one. half the battle is being yourself in front of the girl you want to be with or ask out. A fool is a person that lets something slip through his/her fingers and that person sits back and doess nothing
but a winner is one that trys and if he fails he still is a winner but who knows she might say yes too
Pray for that!
I was always attracted to boys who were interested in the same things as me. If you see her carrying (for instance) a book, check out the same book, read a little of it, and you will have a great conversation starter. Show her you are interested or she will never have the oportunity to see if she likes you too.
Just be yourself. talk to her. Don't be afraid the worst that could happen is she says she only wants to be friends. everyone could use more friends. Being shy is a turn off to most girls. But so is being a macho *** like some of the people who answered your question. So be yourself and go talk to her. Good luck.
Start a conversation with her. Just be yourself. You should also be nice to her, and compliment her. Offer to help her whenever you can. Once you become friends, talk about yourself more; just don't brag about yourself. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then she's not the right girl for you.
Put a smile on your face and be a gentleman and that will definitely make her notice. Offer some help when you see a lot of books with her. A friendly nod or a little hi when you see her goes a long way, my friend! It all starts with a simple simple gesture!
The only thing that will make a girl not notice you is to not let her know that you like her. Flirt with her just as you would flirt with anyone else but don't be annoying. You shouldn't act like anything either cuz girls hate acts. If she likes you then lucky you if not then look for someone who does. The best thing is to make her your friend first and then you can build on it cuz if you can't get along as friends you'll never get along as lovers.
the best way to make a person like you is to be just yourself.
no matter what the situation is, you'll be able to handle it well when you're being yourself.
be confident with yourself and don't try to act like you're someone else...
it would do the trick... Goodluck!
Don't ignore her. I had the same problem except with my boyfriend. I would see him in the hallway and he would try to kiss me but I'd move away or pretend i didn't see him. It didn't turn out good but what you should do is this.
-Become her bestfriend, talk with her if possible sit at a table near her at lunch. Ask her to borrow her notes in school. If you see her in the mall and your comfortable with her and are basically best friends when you see her around give her a hug.
-Flirt with her:: smile at her in class, tickle her, complement her shirt,hair %26amp; whatever
get to know her better and plan your moves also try to find out if she has someone else in mind.Follow your heart
Just be URself, If ur Gonna act a Different person Something will Go wrong.. Just to be On the safe side.. be uself, Respect her feelings,watch wat ur words %26amp; gesture... Give her, her space... Act like an gentlemen.. Girls Like guys who respect Them for who they r.. When u see her Give a casual comment on How sweet she Looks N stuffs.. DOn't over do it or she might think ur a Jerk Just trying to get to her..
you should try and talk to her and see if there's signs of her liking you. if not, you can't make her like you. she either does or she doesn't. and if you pretend to be someone else just so that she likes you she'll discover the truth soon and dump you. so just be yourself and talk to her :).
Just be yourself. Don't try to show off, to impress. We can spot a phoney. Just give sincere compliments, but be consistent. Mixed signals are a turn off for anybody.
1. Does she know you're alive?
if she doesnt, make sure she DOES! and show her some signs tht you like her like smiling whenever you see her, or eye contact..
2. Ask her about her favorite bands, what she likes to do, and if she likes the funny type, which most girls like me do, tell her jokes tht'll make her laugh! I love guys tht can make me laugh! to me, the definition of flirting is just talking to someone you like.. lol idk
3. ACT NORMAL!!! if you get all nervous and wierd, ppl dont feel comfortable! and dont ask if shes ';ok'; every 5 seconds because tht just makes it look like YOU are insecure about something.. you just have to be confident and thts all you'll need!
4. if you dont think you can make it through a date without completely falling apart, make it a group date!!! those gaurantee fun, and friends tht will help you during the date...
5. GOOD LUCK!!!! and i hope you get the GF of your dreams!
be honest with her. Honesty will make u feel better. you are throwing your cards on the table and are not ignoring her.
What a panzy! Grow up, or r u really a homo?
when u pass by her , give her a smile , do everything above ppl told u to but remember not to make her fun . usually a boy who like a girl ends up making her fun , which goes wromg . dont dare irritate her.
girls like a guy that can be cool calm and collected. you have to be yourself. if a guy is too shy, then it turns a girl away. it can be hard to work up the nerve, but it is better if you ask her yourself, don't send a friend to do it or a note. start by asking if she would like to hang out or catch a movie or even do homework together. go from there. don't be rude like some guys. and if she accepts, then find out if she has a boyfriend, if not then ask her if she would like to date you. tell her she is pretty or that she lloks nice, smells good, she is smart, those kinds of things. don't tell her she has a cute butt or stare at her chest, girls hate that kind of thing.
first be friends with her
find out what she likes to do..mmm blah blah
be there for her anytime
show her respect ';ALWAYS';
just be coo wit her....
Just be yourself, don't change who you are or how you act for anyone, it won't be worth it. You should try to get to know her, and what might make her happy. ALWAYS treat her with respect, be nice to her, it goes a long way.
stop flirting .and approach her 4 d marriage if u r really serious 4 her,other wise 4get it
you just need to be nice and talk to her. Compliment her sometimes, how she looks. ';you have beautiful eyes';, ';you changed your hair, I love it';, ';That piece of clothing looks great on you'; somethings girls love to hear. Also be yourself, its better to be hated for who you are then loved for who you are not.
well, just be yourself. show your girl that you care %26amp; respect her. try having friendly conversations (first) and then ask her out: go to a movie, picnic at the park, walk on the beach, etc. don't try to flirt around her but rather compliment her (clothings/smile/purse/shoes/etc).. be honest that means don't lie to her, cuz a small lies can hurt her feeling. just be yourself %26amp; have some confident in winning her love. good luck!!
Ok, here is the sure-fire way to handle this type of situation.
From this day forward forget sex, intimacy and love in connection with her. Erase it from your mind. When you slip up erase it again.
From this day forward she is a new aquaintance and you are building a friendship--just like with a dude. Treat every meeting just like that.
Be her friend. Be her friend. Be her friend.
Then one day she is going to have this realization that she can have the best of both worlds freindship and sex. You winner you.
Later the whole thing is going to hell, but don't think about that right now.
Just be her friend. No sex thoughts at all.
This works everytime. So, please make sure you want it. It is based on the mechanics of energy flows, dispersals, and ridges.
Thank me later.
Just calm down. This girl is human to you know. You can flirt around with her by saying ';You look nice today '; or '; Whats that lovely smell is it you';. Don't ignore her but you can play hard to get as well. Pls don't trie to be a show of girls don't like that! Just be yourself. Then you would know that if she likes you back she really likes you for you and not the person you are tried to be.
Good luck!!
DO NOt flirt with her it will just turn her off.!!! just tell her normally im sure it will work !!
You sound like a nice guy . . . so, just be yourself. Talk to her and find out what you have in common (music, books, movies, whatever). Become friends first, then let the relationship progress naturally. You'll feel less nervous when you're around her and you certainly won't ignore her because she'll be your friend. Good luck!
just be yourself. if your not comfortable around the person then they are not right for you. just talk to her, pay attention to her, spend extra time with her, its the little things that will let her know you like her.
People always tell me I look tired and vexed...any advice?
I realised that people have been telling me I look tired or vexed, Just the other day I meet some old friends, they were going about how good I look, but why I look so tired?, the thing is I didnt, sometimes people look at me and say wow she pissed and I dont feel angry really and its bothering me because countless people have been telling me this when I dont feel any of these things, I mean at first I thought it was because I never use to wear my glasses so you know, your constantly straining to see so it gives you that angry look, but I have been wearing contacts for a long time now, and I am wondering if it is something else, maybe now its more pronounced because I am going through a difficult time in my life but at the same time, when I feel ok, why is it I still look like that?People always tell me I look tired and vexed...any advice?
Look within, it usually starts with things going on in your life that need to be addressed. I realized once I started to clean me out I could function and not be harassed about it anymore. I also get more sleep, but most of it had to do with my ungrateful attutude toward things and putting things into perspective. Everything is going to be o.k. I believe everything does happen for a reason, and that God is in control, I just have to let Him be in control of MY life.People always tell me I look tired and vexed...any advice?
I hear this all of the time too. My curiosity about these kind of comments is not that it may be true that I look tired, but why do people feel the need to TELL me that. I think it is not very nice, unless it is someone who really cares.
I've been told that myself from time to time; usually it's because I have a lot on my mind and it's showing on my face. You might also want to get your contact prescription checked; you may need different contacts or glasses.
The answer is exercise. I鈥檓 65 years old and dance for 2.5 hours a night two times a week. I have to exercise to keep doing this. Walking is the best.
Try wearing Make up and clothes that go good with your skin tone
maybe you're not getting enough sleep, try some vitamins or energy drinks
Look within, it usually starts with things going on in your life that need to be addressed. I realized once I started to clean me out I could function and not be harassed about it anymore. I also get more sleep, but most of it had to do with my ungrateful attutude toward things and putting things into perspective. Everything is going to be o.k. I believe everything does happen for a reason, and that God is in control, I just have to let Him be in control of MY life.People always tell me I look tired and vexed...any advice?
I hear this all of the time too. My curiosity about these kind of comments is not that it may be true that I look tired, but why do people feel the need to TELL me that. I think it is not very nice, unless it is someone who really cares.
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I've been told that myself from time to time; usually it's because I have a lot on my mind and it's showing on my face. You might also want to get your contact prescription checked; you may need different contacts or glasses.
The answer is exercise. I鈥檓 65 years old and dance for 2.5 hours a night two times a week. I have to exercise to keep doing this. Walking is the best.
Try wearing Make up and clothes that go good with your skin tone
maybe you're not getting enough sleep, try some vitamins or energy drinks
So, as many people, I need some GOOD advice on losing my tummy :3?
So Ive come to realize that I have NO sort of talent or hobby at all and not a THING to do with my free time, so I started lifting a few dumbells, but then realized, if I'm gonna have decent muscles, I should have a semi nice body to go with it to bring it all together, and figured, hey, Ill make this my hobby. The thing that is erking me, is ive tried doing crunches every night, or doing jumping jacks outside every night, and attempting to get a pattern... and I CAN NOT stay up with it... But now i am VERY convinced... I have a picture that Ill add in the additional information after i post the question, I know I'm not OBESE, but I'm about 6'2 and weight around 210, which is a bit too much for me considering that the only way for the slightest bit of self conscious is to suck it in, which starts to hurt lol :3 so any sort of tips or hints, I was considering consulting my doctor for advice, but I dont want to bring it up to my mom, she'll just be like Rah rah rah, your fine... But its my own choice? thank you guys for any sort of advice, Its greatly appreciated.So, as many people, I need some GOOD advice on losing my tummy :3?
My belly use to fat. It actually kind of looked like yours... lol
But, I wasn't able to get rid of it until I cleaned up my diet. So take a hard look at your diet first.
Next, you need to get on a fat burning/muscle-building workout routine. Pilates and strength training really worked well for me.
Check out this site I found with great diet and workout tips to tone your abs. It helped me by pointing out the mistakes I've been making. Check out these links to get started:
Burn Stomach Fat - http://www.best-abs-exercises.com/burn-s鈥?/a>
Abs Diet Plan - http://www.best-abs-exercises.com/abs-di鈥?/a>
Strength Training Tips - http://www.best-abs-exercises.com/how-to鈥?/a>
Good luck.So, as many people, I need some GOOD advice on losing my tummy :3?
Start with something really easy and basic before you go near crunches - for a whole week whenever you are standing pull your tummy in and imagine you are trying to pull it right back to your spine.
Hold for as long as you can - remember to breathe normally - once you have achieved this then begin to firstly imagine pulling up to your nose - then back to your spine this will improve the whole core of your torso - great to do lying down too!!
Good luck
Interval training works really well to get rid of body fat - google it. You can't spot reduce with crunches etc, it will just tone the muscles underneath the fat. Eat healthy, cut back on fatty foods, and don't eat too much salt, as it will make you bloated. Drink lots of water
I always thought that crunches worked well.
lol its true -- moms say that haha
you should do more back and ab workouts then -- like lower back exercises and situps on an incline
(if you go 2 a gym it'll motivate you to do more activity)
do more sets of ur ab exercises - like 3 or 4 sets of leg lifts, same number of sets of situps on an incline ... then u should be dead
if ur not ... take a medicine ball and try doing situps with that (crunnches don't work well with a medicine ball tho b/c the range of motion is so small)
Well your right to wanna look and feel your best. Honestly the best thing you can do it proper diet and exercise, First eliminate or severly limit all refined sugars, and start eating protien and carbs in that order. and start wieght training. Make sure you set realistic goals and track your progress make exercise a scheduled part of your day (THE SAME TIME EVERY DAY) and if you fall off the horse get back on. Try putting up a picture of a good looking person next to your chart. Now remember to do a cardiovascular workout for 30-45 minutes everyday if that means jogging around your neighborhood or getting on an exercise bike then do it. But keep up the good work and good luck
My belly use to fat. It actually kind of looked like yours... lol
But, I wasn't able to get rid of it until I cleaned up my diet. So take a hard look at your diet first.
Next, you need to get on a fat burning/muscle-building workout routine. Pilates and strength training really worked well for me.
Check out this site I found with great diet and workout tips to tone your abs. It helped me by pointing out the mistakes I've been making. Check out these links to get started:
Burn Stomach Fat - http://www.best-abs-exercises.com/burn-s鈥?/a>
Abs Diet Plan - http://www.best-abs-exercises.com/abs-di鈥?/a>
Strength Training Tips - http://www.best-abs-exercises.com/how-to鈥?/a>
Good luck.So, as many people, I need some GOOD advice on losing my tummy :3?
Start with something really easy and basic before you go near crunches - for a whole week whenever you are standing pull your tummy in and imagine you are trying to pull it right back to your spine.
Hold for as long as you can - remember to breathe normally - once you have achieved this then begin to firstly imagine pulling up to your nose - then back to your spine this will improve the whole core of your torso - great to do lying down too!!
Good luck
Interval training works really well to get rid of body fat - google it. You can't spot reduce with crunches etc, it will just tone the muscles underneath the fat. Eat healthy, cut back on fatty foods, and don't eat too much salt, as it will make you bloated. Drink lots of water
I always thought that crunches worked well.
lol its true -- moms say that haha
you should do more back and ab workouts then -- like lower back exercises and situps on an incline
(if you go 2 a gym it'll motivate you to do more activity)
do more sets of ur ab exercises - like 3 or 4 sets of leg lifts, same number of sets of situps on an incline ... then u should be dead
if ur not ... take a medicine ball and try doing situps with that (crunnches don't work well with a medicine ball tho b/c the range of motion is so small)
Well your right to wanna look and feel your best. Honestly the best thing you can do it proper diet and exercise, First eliminate or severly limit all refined sugars, and start eating protien and carbs in that order. and start wieght training. Make sure you set realistic goals and track your progress make exercise a scheduled part of your day (THE SAME TIME EVERY DAY) and if you fall off the horse get back on. Try putting up a picture of a good looking person next to your chart. Now remember to do a cardiovascular workout for 30-45 minutes everyday if that means jogging around your neighborhood or getting on an exercise bike then do it. But keep up the good work and good luck
Dou you know people who love giving out advice on stuff they really know nothing about?
another question: easy pts: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…Dou you know people who love giving out advice on stuff they really know nothing about?
i know a ton of ppl like that, when they tell me that stuff i just nod %26amp; say '; i know, huh? '; but i really dont beleive themDou you know people who love giving out advice on stuff they really know nothing about?
yep
probably me haha. i have no idea what im talking about 3/4 of the time
i know a ton of ppl like that, when they tell me that stuff i just nod %26amp; say '; i know, huh? '; but i really dont beleive themDou you know people who love giving out advice on stuff they really know nothing about?
yep
probably me haha. i have no idea what im talking about 3/4 of the time
My bf choose people online over me!!! HELP ADVICE NEEDED ESP GUYS!!?
ok so i met my bf online on this site called imvu lol .. we talked on the phone cam and computer for about 6 months. i decided to go meet him. i had the best time of my life. then i went back home and then 2 months later i went to go see him again well something wound up happening and i moved in with him. we have been living together for the past 6 months. we have been together over a year. and i love him with all my heart. HE knows every single thing about me he has all my passwords. i gave him my virginity i cook and clean for him i shower with him we even pee together lol. i have stolen things for him ive done so much stuff for him . i treat him like a king , well he plays world of warcraft we moved back in at my moms house in louisiana. he met this girl and guy on there and talked to them for 3 months. they told him they had a room open and theres 2 other guys who live in the house including them. they live 30 minutes away from me and my bf use to be the most jelous guy ever. he would get mad if i said a guy was hot. and i am jelous too. we only spent time with each other. if he wanted to have fun he brought me and i got use to that after 6 months of livng wiht him. he decides one day he wants to move in with these people he never met in real life. so we go to meet them one day. he tells me he doenst give a **** what i say or do b/ut hes moving in with them. i never thought this would happen . my bf was also adicted to methadone for the last year and ever since he got off he has been veryyyyyyy different.. he isnt even jelous anymore. we dont have sex anymore and he wanted to move with those people. so he moved in with the people and he wants me to stay where i am. he use to call me everyday now he calls me like for 5 minutes every 3 days. He spends a lot of time with these people and its only been a week. they arleady got drunk together and went many other places that he doesnt even take me.. now he is going to new orleans which is like 20 min away from my house , staying in a hotel with them and going to blue bayou the next day. ALL WITHOUT ME.. HE DIDNT EVEN OFFER TO TAKE ME and thats 20 minutes or less away form me!!! wtf!!! i dont know what to do. i cant get over him i love him so much i have done everything for him .. he has done a lot for me too but ever since he got off methadone he has changed. is this normal? i mean wtf do i do plz someone omg someone help me!! talk to me tell me what to do !! anyone!!! i need advice!!!!!!
and i will not take to just leave him..but i dont want him with these poeople b/c hes going to go to strip clubs and partying.. which is stupid if he wants to see a stripper hello he has me.. if he wants to party he can take me ..he doenst even try to call me i mean i know u prob think he just wants to give up and leave me..but hes the kinda guy that would have done it by now.. i dontw anna throw our rel. to waste after EVERY SINGLE thing we have been through.. it is a lotSO IS THIS FREAKING NORMAL WTFFF!! HELP ME! also another thing we got in an arguement because every single time i try to talk to him he gets upset and says im trying to pick a fight with him but im not im just trying to understand wtf went wrong and why he changed. but he says he hasnt but we use to have sex every single day now its been a month and no sex at all... if he didnt care at all about me he just wouldnt call me at all and forget all about me b/c he can do what he wants over there. i understand that now he has freedom and crap over there but i feel like its ruining him and hes taking advantage of things and use to he would listen to me and now he says i cant make him do things and he can do what he wants. is this something from that dam medicine like did it change him? i mean i wish i could tell u how he use to be its crazy... idk what to say to him or do i cant get mad b/c then he will just get pissed and not call me but wtf i cant be ok with all this **** and btw im 18 and hes 21 but ever since he was 15 he has drank and partied he promised me he was done with that and he wanted to start a family but ever since he met these people he has been different and another thing like i mentioned he use to be jelous well this guy and girl that are a couple that he lives with...like they have a good realtionshiop no jelousy like she can sit on other guyhs laps and stuff and her bf doesnt care and he can say he wants to **** another girl adn she doenst get mad. and my bf told me he wished i was like that and wished i didnt care as much about stupid ****. but the fact is hes changed not me!! and now he wants me to change he wants me to be ok with him doing anythign with a girl but ******* b/c he sees how they are but im not them!!! we are our own relationship what should i say do or idk i have too much ******* drama
SOMEONE HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!My bf choose people online over me!!! HELP ADVICE NEEDED ESP GUYS!!?
.You can guarantee this couple have no sexual hang ups. So he's getting plenty.He seems quite happy living a life of debauchery and that will be dificult to turn around.You have to either join them or forget himeye shadow
and i will not take to just leave him..but i dont want him with these poeople b/c hes going to go to strip clubs and partying.. which is stupid if he wants to see a stripper hello he has me.. if he wants to party he can take me ..he doenst even try to call me i mean i know u prob think he just wants to give up and leave me..but hes the kinda guy that would have done it by now.. i dontw anna throw our rel. to waste after EVERY SINGLE thing we have been through.. it is a lotSO IS THIS FREAKING NORMAL WTFFF!! HELP ME! also another thing we got in an arguement because every single time i try to talk to him he gets upset and says im trying to pick a fight with him but im not im just trying to understand wtf went wrong and why he changed. but he says he hasnt but we use to have sex every single day now its been a month and no sex at all... if he didnt care at all about me he just wouldnt call me at all and forget all about me b/c he can do what he wants over there. i understand that now he has freedom and crap over there but i feel like its ruining him and hes taking advantage of things and use to he would listen to me and now he says i cant make him do things and he can do what he wants. is this something from that dam medicine like did it change him? i mean i wish i could tell u how he use to be its crazy... idk what to say to him or do i cant get mad b/c then he will just get pissed and not call me but wtf i cant be ok with all this **** and btw im 18 and hes 21 but ever since he was 15 he has drank and partied he promised me he was done with that and he wanted to start a family but ever since he met these people he has been different and another thing like i mentioned he use to be jelous well this guy and girl that are a couple that he lives with...like they have a good realtionshiop no jelousy like she can sit on other guyhs laps and stuff and her bf doesnt care and he can say he wants to **** another girl adn she doenst get mad. and my bf told me he wished i was like that and wished i didnt care as much about stupid ****. but the fact is hes changed not me!! and now he wants me to change he wants me to be ok with him doing anythign with a girl but ******* b/c he sees how they are but im not them!!! we are our own relationship what should i say do or idk i have too much ******* drama
SOMEONE HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!My bf choose people online over me!!! HELP ADVICE NEEDED ESP GUYS!!?
.You can guarantee this couple have no sexual hang ups. So he's getting plenty.He seems quite happy living a life of debauchery and that will be dificult to turn around.You have to either join them or forget him
Why are people who know nothing about investing telling people its Illegal to give advice in the investment?
category?
Firstly they are full of it. It is legal to give advice, it's not legal act as a broker and take their money and invest it. Why do ignorants who know NOTHING of the subject plague the forum with their idiotic insistence that people see brokers for any information to do with good stocks? When brokers have a terrible record as a group, and don't really look out for their clients? Just try to milk money out of them like the bunch parasites they really are? Now, any GOOD stock broker will agree with me, there are good ones, and usually the parasites disgust them.Why are people who know nothing about investing telling people its Illegal to give advice in the investment?
meh, it's a public/yahoo forum.
you get what you pay for.
if you want real conversations, go to a board that's made up of people in the industry. of course, you won't get stock tips there, though. lol.
most people haven't got a clue what finance professionals do for a living, and at the moment, the economy is being blamed on bankers, rather than deadbeat homeowners.
it is what it is.Why are people who know nothing about investing telling people its Illegal to give advice in the investment?
Brokers are pretty good at telling you what to buy. Even Cramer is great at that.
The problem is that they never tell you to sell unless it is to buy something else. There are reasons for that, but those reasons are for the benefit of the broker or brokerage, not the client.
It not illegal to give public opinion but it is illegal to represent that as professional advice unless you are registered. And then you should know more about the person you are advising than what we can learn here.
A good stock broker? What a strange concept. Next you'll be talking about honest used car salesmen, or ethical lawyers.
Firstly they are full of it. It is legal to give advice, it's not legal act as a broker and take their money and invest it. Why do ignorants who know NOTHING of the subject plague the forum with their idiotic insistence that people see brokers for any information to do with good stocks? When brokers have a terrible record as a group, and don't really look out for their clients? Just try to milk money out of them like the bunch parasites they really are? Now, any GOOD stock broker will agree with me, there are good ones, and usually the parasites disgust them.Why are people who know nothing about investing telling people its Illegal to give advice in the investment?
meh, it's a public/yahoo forum.
you get what you pay for.
if you want real conversations, go to a board that's made up of people in the industry. of course, you won't get stock tips there, though. lol.
most people haven't got a clue what finance professionals do for a living, and at the moment, the economy is being blamed on bankers, rather than deadbeat homeowners.
it is what it is.Why are people who know nothing about investing telling people its Illegal to give advice in the investment?
Brokers are pretty good at telling you what to buy. Even Cramer is great at that.
The problem is that they never tell you to sell unless it is to buy something else. There are reasons for that, but those reasons are for the benefit of the broker or brokerage, not the client.
It not illegal to give public opinion but it is illegal to represent that as professional advice unless you are registered. And then you should know more about the person you are advising than what we can learn here.
A good stock broker? What a strange concept. Next you'll be talking about honest used car salesmen, or ethical lawyers.
Women or healthcare people please please give me advice, im scared.?
I just had a pap smear test done when i was on my period a month ago. My doctor told me that he will try to do the test even though I am on the Period. My test results came back and they were normal, however I am kinda scared because I just read a book that said ';women should not be on their period when they have a pap smear done.'; The lab said that everything was normal but for some reason I am still a little scare. Am I going over board with this? My doctor told me that if the lab couldn't read it then they would send me back which they didn't but is there still a chance that my period could have messed something up, or are labs usually correct? PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR ADVICEWomen or healthcare people please please give me advice, im scared.?
I am wondering why you are so scared? If you have reason to think you may have HPV or other STD, get a full VDRL screen done. The PAP is actually to test for cervical cancer cells, if you test on your monthly cycle, you can actually get a false result saying you have precancerous cells. If you have a 'clean' PAP while menstruating, that is very much an indicator that you do not have problems.
Deep Breath, relax.Women or healthcare people please please give me advice, im scared.?
If they could not get adequate cells to test - they would have marked it as ';inconclusive'; or tainted sample - so I wouldn't worry about it. Next time - remember to cancel if you are on your period. And reschedule for a couple of weeks later - it's done all the time.
You can ask your doctor for a re-test. You may be charged for it outside of your insurance, but at least you'll have peace of mind.
Labs are usually correct but if you need comfort go to another Doctor and get labs done at another place and put all your fears to rest.
The only reason they tell you not to go on your period for a PAP is because it can give a false ';abnormal'; reading. Relax! If it came back fine, you're fine =)
Take a deeep breath. I'd take the doc's word for it. If he couldn't read the test, he'd have redone it.
Your doctor feels confident in the results so I wouldn't worry about it. If there was any doubt, they would re-screen you.
I am wondering why you are so scared? If you have reason to think you may have HPV or other STD, get a full VDRL screen done. The PAP is actually to test for cervical cancer cells, if you test on your monthly cycle, you can actually get a false result saying you have precancerous cells. If you have a 'clean' PAP while menstruating, that is very much an indicator that you do not have problems.
Deep Breath, relax.Women or healthcare people please please give me advice, im scared.?
If they could not get adequate cells to test - they would have marked it as ';inconclusive'; or tainted sample - so I wouldn't worry about it. Next time - remember to cancel if you are on your period. And reschedule for a couple of weeks later - it's done all the time.
You can ask your doctor for a re-test. You may be charged for it outside of your insurance, but at least you'll have peace of mind.
Labs are usually correct but if you need comfort go to another Doctor and get labs done at another place and put all your fears to rest.
The only reason they tell you not to go on your period for a PAP is because it can give a false ';abnormal'; reading. Relax! If it came back fine, you're fine =)
Take a deeep breath. I'd take the doc's word for it. If he couldn't read the test, he'd have redone it.
Your doctor feels confident in the results so I wouldn't worry about it. If there was any doubt, they would re-screen you.
Please alot of people answer!!! I need guy advice PLEASE?
Ok. I have been hanging out with this one guy for months. Everything has been cool and I love hanging out with him. then I got the impression that he might be just taking to me because he wants me for my body. When I asked him about it he thought I was calling him a pig and simple. He said that he liked me and it wasnt the case.I asked him if he is going to stop being friends with e because of this and he said we still going to be friends. But he went to bed mad and now im not so sure he still wants to be my friend. It's been a day now and no sign from him.
What should I do???? I was planning on explaining why i asked the question, but im scared to message him ( I know that I should talk to him in person but for the summer im living in a diffrent state than him so we text)
Help......?Please alot of people answer!!! I need guy advice PLEASE?
Be honest. Tell him why you asked the question and say that you're sorry. If he's a good friend, he'll forgive you.Please alot of people answer!!! I need guy advice PLEASE?
ok you NEED to message him...and you need to apologize!!!you hurt not only his feelings but his ego also!!!!and if he lives in another state there would prolly not be that oh he only likes me for my body...he wouldnt make such a big effort to keep up with a girl in another state that has a nice body...do ya get what i am sayin?he would have just let you go!!!!!!APOLOGIZE!!!!he is hurt..he must rele like you!!!!!good luck!
I think you should call him and talk to him instead of texting him, because you could say something and he could like take it as something totally different.
What should I do???? I was planning on explaining why i asked the question, but im scared to message him ( I know that I should talk to him in person but for the summer im living in a diffrent state than him so we text)
Help......?Please alot of people answer!!! I need guy advice PLEASE?
Be honest. Tell him why you asked the question and say that you're sorry. If he's a good friend, he'll forgive you.Please alot of people answer!!! I need guy advice PLEASE?
ok you NEED to message him...and you need to apologize!!!you hurt not only his feelings but his ego also!!!!and if he lives in another state there would prolly not be that oh he only likes me for my body...he wouldnt make such a big effort to keep up with a girl in another state that has a nice body...do ya get what i am sayin?he would have just let you go!!!!!!APOLOGIZE!!!!he is hurt..he must rele like you!!!!!good luck!
I think you should call him and talk to him instead of texting him, because you could say something and he could like take it as something totally different.
Who are these people that write these advice books for teachers?
And who are the teachers that actually think these methods work?
I was reading another question from a guy that started substitute teaching. He said he read a book by Harry Wong and thought he was all set to go, only to find out he was wrong. He said he basically had to teach himself the basics, and was still struggling. I hear a lot of fruity advice from people, such as ';Don't yell, it's a weakness,'; ';have work ready for the kids to do all hour,'; ';treat them fairly.';
Have these people ever been in a classroom, especially a ghetto one? They don't even listen! They're animals! No disrespect, they are, and they don't want to be there! Their parents don't want to accept the fact their kids are hooligans!
I remember where I came from as a kid. We got beaten by our teachers. I didn't like it, but our classes were always quiet and well-behaved. It helped that the older kids were prefects that reported on the younger kids for the teachers. It's very effective, believe it or not.
America needs to get their education system in order. I think liberals shoulder a big part of the blame for the failure of them here. It's disgusting.Who are these people that write these advice books for teachers?
A lot of those books are written by people who are more interested in social experimentation than education.Who are these people that write these advice books for teachers?
You blame liberals?
Hahaha most blame should be directed at the parents who fail to provide children with incentive or manners.
Further, I blame the fiscally-minded folks who killed neighborhood schools in favor of mega-schools with exceptional football programs...
The United Nations
Like everybody else that writes books promising solutions for everything ';in 10 steps'; or whatever they are the literary equivalent of door-to-door salesmen.
i agree with you.
i'd probably not apply there if i was a teacher, that's sad because the kids that need the help most won't get it.
PROBABLY ALL LIBERALS AND SOCIALISTS
Teachers write them.
I was reading another question from a guy that started substitute teaching. He said he read a book by Harry Wong and thought he was all set to go, only to find out he was wrong. He said he basically had to teach himself the basics, and was still struggling. I hear a lot of fruity advice from people, such as ';Don't yell, it's a weakness,'; ';have work ready for the kids to do all hour,'; ';treat them fairly.';
Have these people ever been in a classroom, especially a ghetto one? They don't even listen! They're animals! No disrespect, they are, and they don't want to be there! Their parents don't want to accept the fact their kids are hooligans!
I remember where I came from as a kid. We got beaten by our teachers. I didn't like it, but our classes were always quiet and well-behaved. It helped that the older kids were prefects that reported on the younger kids for the teachers. It's very effective, believe it or not.
America needs to get their education system in order. I think liberals shoulder a big part of the blame for the failure of them here. It's disgusting.Who are these people that write these advice books for teachers?
A lot of those books are written by people who are more interested in social experimentation than education.Who are these people that write these advice books for teachers?
You blame liberals?
Hahaha most blame should be directed at the parents who fail to provide children with incentive or manners.
Further, I blame the fiscally-minded folks who killed neighborhood schools in favor of mega-schools with exceptional football programs...
The United Nations
Like everybody else that writes books promising solutions for everything ';in 10 steps'; or whatever they are the literary equivalent of door-to-door salesmen.
i agree with you.
i'd probably not apply there if i was a teacher, that's sad because the kids that need the help most won't get it.
PROBABLY ALL LIBERALS AND SOCIALISTS
Teachers write them.
Why do some people give the worst advice about getting action with the opposite sex?
Some of these idiot losers actually say say you can't try too hard, it'll happen when it'll happen, don't try to catch a butterfly(what do you think a butterfly net is for, idiot whoever said that?), you can't hurry love you just to wait, fools rush in, the best things come to those who wait, you just have to let it happen.
THose are the worst pieces of sh#t advice I've ever heard in my life about getting that mate of the opposite sex!
What those idiots don't tell you is the truth, and the truth is is that you have to come on strong, you have to be pushy, you have to go for it, you have to force yourself upon them because if you wait and nothing happens, then you need to change and be more aggresive, simple as that.
So why do those losers give such poor advice then?Why do some people give the worst advice about getting action with the opposite sex?
Calm down, grab a ice cold drink, you know you can't catch a butterfly.Why do some people give the worst advice about getting action with the opposite sex?
You actually have to walk a fine line in between passive and aggressive.You can't do nothing, because nothing will happen then, but you can't be too pushy, either. That will more than likely push them away.
Listen to Hold On Loosely by .38 Special.
The so called ';Losers'; happen to be right. Heed their advice.
your looking at the wrong place for advice...
talk to people that know you best
You sound very dominating. I guess you know best though, since you are so old and all.
You see this is what makes the world a beautiful place, our differences and the ability to make our own minds up
There are many that would say you are the loser idiot for thinking you know it all at 29 because age does not a wise person make
Good luck with your anger management classes
no offesnse dude, but that forcing stuff makes you sound like a rapist. if you're just in it for the sex, than yeah, that's bad advice, but if you're looking for love tis good advice.
well that's how u feel and how u want to be, but not everyone is like you, i have been aggressive and up front with women and got turned down because of it, everyone is different and wants different things
no idea, i usually suggest getting ice cream and walking on the beach at night
Being too aggressive like that doesn't always work either! It blew up in my face a few times.
cause they wanna seem all ';good advicey'; even though their really not..its just corny.i think.
THose are the worst pieces of sh#t advice I've ever heard in my life about getting that mate of the opposite sex!
What those idiots don't tell you is the truth, and the truth is is that you have to come on strong, you have to be pushy, you have to go for it, you have to force yourself upon them because if you wait and nothing happens, then you need to change and be more aggresive, simple as that.
So why do those losers give such poor advice then?Why do some people give the worst advice about getting action with the opposite sex?
Calm down, grab a ice cold drink, you know you can't catch a butterfly.Why do some people give the worst advice about getting action with the opposite sex?
You actually have to walk a fine line in between passive and aggressive.You can't do nothing, because nothing will happen then, but you can't be too pushy, either. That will more than likely push them away.
Listen to Hold On Loosely by .38 Special.
The so called ';Losers'; happen to be right. Heed their advice.
your looking at the wrong place for advice...
talk to people that know you best
You sound very dominating. I guess you know best though, since you are so old and all.
You see this is what makes the world a beautiful place, our differences and the ability to make our own minds up
There are many that would say you are the loser idiot for thinking you know it all at 29 because age does not a wise person make
Good luck with your anger management classes
no offesnse dude, but that forcing stuff makes you sound like a rapist. if you're just in it for the sex, than yeah, that's bad advice, but if you're looking for love tis good advice.
well that's how u feel and how u want to be, but not everyone is like you, i have been aggressive and up front with women and got turned down because of it, everyone is different and wants different things
no idea, i usually suggest getting ice cream and walking on the beach at night
Being too aggressive like that doesn't always work either! It blew up in my face a few times.
cause they wanna seem all ';good advicey'; even though their really not..its just corny.i think.
Really artistic, creative people.. i need some advice on my redecorating ideas!?
alright, so im 17, but i dont want anything steriotypical of a ';teen room';.
i already have a nice wall color (a soft blue) but i really want to decorate my room more.
im very good at art, so im planning on doing murals and cool paintings in my room. i have a lot of ideas already, but im still looking for more!
my style is pretty much this:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/cat鈥?/a>
kind of sophisticated, but interesting and unique.
so far im thinking of painting a black and white city on one side of my wall, and i think that will look pretty cool up against the blue.
i was also thinking of maybe having black birch tree designs incorperated into my room.. like on my book shelf, or having a birch tree in the corner of my wall then from that paint vines and flowers flowing across the walls in both directions.
alright, so there are some of my quick thoughts on what to do with the walls, i also need ideas for accessories for the room.. like maybe things to hang on the walls.
keep in mind that i dont really have money, so it would be best if i could make things on my own or find them cheap at yard sales and flee markets.
i also like music, so i was thinking of having a music staff that contorts into waves of weaving flowers.. sorry, i know thats hard to picture, but if you have any ideas that would fit into the ';music theme'; that would be great.
alright, so let me know what you think of these ideas and please help me think up more!!Really artistic, creative people.. i need some advice on my redecorating ideas!?
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鈾his is pretty bedding that would match the soft blue:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=1%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=15768633%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_BEDDING%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=156%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_BEDDING%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_FURNISH%26amp;prepushId=
鈾f you put some pretty black and white pictures of family and friends on here to match with the city mural you were wanting to paint:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=1%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=12663563%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_WALL%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=30%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_WALL%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_FURNISH%26amp;prepushId=
鈾his is a really cute clock that is sophisticated but still fun:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=1%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=16500274%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_NEWFURNDECOR%26amp;sortProperties=%26amp;navCount=21%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_NEWFURNDECOR%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_FURNISH%26amp;prepushId=
鈾his is a little chandelier:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=1%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=15578503%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=9%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_SALE%26amp;prepushId=
鈾f you could paint this on your wall that would be really cool. But if you think that would be difficult you could get this decal:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=121%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=13911789%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=195%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_SALE%26amp;prepushId=
鈾his could go along with the rusty looking idea:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=241%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=15754468%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=129%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_SALE%26amp;prepushId=
I hope that i helped you out(:
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i already have a nice wall color (a soft blue) but i really want to decorate my room more.
im very good at art, so im planning on doing murals and cool paintings in my room. i have a lot of ideas already, but im still looking for more!
my style is pretty much this:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/cat鈥?/a>
kind of sophisticated, but interesting and unique.
so far im thinking of painting a black and white city on one side of my wall, and i think that will look pretty cool up against the blue.
i was also thinking of maybe having black birch tree designs incorperated into my room.. like on my book shelf, or having a birch tree in the corner of my wall then from that paint vines and flowers flowing across the walls in both directions.
alright, so there are some of my quick thoughts on what to do with the walls, i also need ideas for accessories for the room.. like maybe things to hang on the walls.
keep in mind that i dont really have money, so it would be best if i could make things on my own or find them cheap at yard sales and flee markets.
i also like music, so i was thinking of having a music staff that contorts into waves of weaving flowers.. sorry, i know thats hard to picture, but if you have any ideas that would fit into the ';music theme'; that would be great.
alright, so let me know what you think of these ideas and please help me think up more!!Really artistic, creative people.. i need some advice on my redecorating ideas!?
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鈾his is pretty bedding that would match the soft blue:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=1%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=15768633%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_BEDDING%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=156%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_BEDDING%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_FURNISH%26amp;prepushId=
鈾f you put some pretty black and white pictures of family and friends on here to match with the city mural you were wanting to paint:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=1%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=12663563%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_WALL%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=30%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_WALL%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_FURNISH%26amp;prepushId=
鈾his is a really cute clock that is sophisticated but still fun:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=1%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=16500274%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_NEWFURNDECOR%26amp;sortProperties=%26amp;navCount=21%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_NEWFURNDECOR%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_FURNISH%26amp;prepushId=
鈾his is a little chandelier:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=1%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=15578503%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=9%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_SALE%26amp;prepushId=
鈾f you could paint this on your wall that would be really cool. But if you think that would be difficult you could get this decal:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=121%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=13911789%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=195%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_SALE%26amp;prepushId=
鈾his could go along with the rusty looking idea:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true%26amp;itemCount=60%26amp;startValue=241%26amp;selectedProductColor=%26amp;sortby=%26amp;id=15754468%26amp;parentid=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate%26amp;navCount=129%26amp;navAction=poppushpush%26amp;color=%26amp;pushId=A_FURN_SALE%26amp;popId=APARTMENT_SALE%26amp;prepushId=
I hope that i helped you out(:
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Advice on quiting smoking, I don't smoke because I don't. Just for those people who do smoke, you know advice
Details, details.Advice on quiting smoking, I don't smoke because I don't. Just for those people who do smoke, you know advice
depends on what your smoking, weed is not addictive but you may grow dependant on it, but ciggarettes are addictive. i quit smoking the next day because i have will power, and i also realized that i could be spending that money on other things.
depends on what your smoking, weed is not addictive but you may grow dependant on it, but ciggarettes are addictive. i quit smoking the next day because i have will power, and i also realized that i could be spending that money on other things.
Please Help me People give me good advice!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Okaii soo there is this guy and i hooked up with him and i had feelings for him after we hooked up and the problem is that he is the only player he doesnt go out with girls he jst hooks up with them n leaves them n even when he has girlfriend he is a cheater and a flirt but as a friend he is great like u could talk to him n everything okaii soo i had feelings for him for about a month n we onlii hooked up once n he was like all w.e about it but i reeaally like him. OKaii soo last night we were together n he wanted to hook upo with me again but we didnt but still now im startin to get feelings for him should i go for it next time or should i go for this guy that i think he is sooo cute but idk if he likes me or not?? lol sry it was soo long i jst reeally want goo advicePlease Help me People give me good advice!!!!!!!!!!!!?
why would you want too hook up with smeone who is known too cheat and flirt? if hes a good friend keep him that way..go for the other guy unless hes a player too? goodluckPlease Help me People give me good advice!!!!!!!!!!!!?
hz a player he jus hooks up wit gals n lvz em he cheats!!and u had sex wit him(if hookin up is the term)!
girls def want dem bad bwoys!if thaats d kind of man u want then mo power to u!!
Do you have anything in common with either of these guys? I would hang around the one who isn't just for hookin' with, but who will also be interesting in the long run.
Lorena:
Have as much FUN as you can~
while you are still young!
Date as many dudes as you can handle!
why would you want too hook up with smeone who is known too cheat and flirt? if hes a good friend keep him that way..go for the other guy unless hes a player too? goodluckPlease Help me People give me good advice!!!!!!!!!!!!?
hz a player he jus hooks up wit gals n lvz em he cheats!!and u had sex wit him(if hookin up is the term)!
girls def want dem bad bwoys!if thaats d kind of man u want then mo power to u!!
Do you have anything in common with either of these guys? I would hang around the one who isn't just for hookin' with, but who will also be interesting in the long run.
Lorena:
Have as much FUN as you can~
while you are still young!
Date as many dudes as you can handle!
I always got good answers or advice from here. But how can I send a ';thank you'; note to these people
click their pic it takes you to their profile and some have it set so you can email them others don't so you'll just be able to thank the ones you can contactI always got good answers or advice from here. But how can I send a ';thank you'; note to these people
Your question itself says';THANK YOU';
Your question itself says';THANK YOU';
Why do uneducated people try to give advice on drug abuse?
I have seen so many irrational responses in regards to drug-related problems:
- Cannabis causes cancer
- Cannabis puts holes in your throat
- Cannabis makes you dumb
- All drugs are equally dangerous
- Your misspelled words are due to you drug usage
- You will never get ahead in life if you use drugs
- Tobacco is safer than marijuana
- Alcohol is better for you than marijuana
These statements I've read on here are completely irrational. I realize that drugs aren't for everyone, and some people claim that they will never try drugs. This attitude is fine, but if you look at the studies, you will learn that a cup of coffee a day is much worse than smoking a bowl. There are legal poisons.
Why are diet pills legal, and marijuana not?
How is it that meth and marijuana are both classified under the same term, ';drug';, when the two are the complete opposite entities?
Why do uneducated people try to give advice on drug abuse?
The government tells them these things through bogus media campaigns and public education and so they eat it up and then call themselves educated. It doesn't matter that medical fact says differently it's the ';band-wagon'; phenomenon, media has more influence then people think (probably because the media claims they don't) and it's human nature to go with the heard. Exactly why hypocritical and ignorant people continue to deny that prescription and even over the counter drugs are way more harmful then marijuana. Those who know the truth, however, are considered ';counter culture'; and already seen as discredited by the law so therefore we dont know anything.Why do uneducated people try to give advice on drug abuse?
people who do the harmful drugs and they KNOW its dangerous, they are clearly stupid and uneducated
I'll smoke to that. Cheers.
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- Cannabis causes cancer
- Cannabis puts holes in your throat
- Cannabis makes you dumb
- All drugs are equally dangerous
- Your misspelled words are due to you drug usage
- You will never get ahead in life if you use drugs
- Tobacco is safer than marijuana
- Alcohol is better for you than marijuana
These statements I've read on here are completely irrational. I realize that drugs aren't for everyone, and some people claim that they will never try drugs. This attitude is fine, but if you look at the studies, you will learn that a cup of coffee a day is much worse than smoking a bowl. There are legal poisons.
Why are diet pills legal, and marijuana not?
How is it that meth and marijuana are both classified under the same term, ';drug';, when the two are the complete opposite entities?
Why do uneducated people try to give advice on drug abuse?
The government tells them these things through bogus media campaigns and public education and so they eat it up and then call themselves educated. It doesn't matter that medical fact says differently it's the ';band-wagon'; phenomenon, media has more influence then people think (probably because the media claims they don't) and it's human nature to go with the heard. Exactly why hypocritical and ignorant people continue to deny that prescription and even over the counter drugs are way more harmful then marijuana. Those who know the truth, however, are considered ';counter culture'; and already seen as discredited by the law so therefore we dont know anything.Why do uneducated people try to give advice on drug abuse?
people who do the harmful drugs and they KNOW its dangerous, they are clearly stupid and uneducated
I'll smoke to that. Cheers.
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Advice on lashing out on annoying people??
see i try sooo hard to accept and be nice to everyone, but when i'm in a situation surrounded by nothing but immature and annoying people i get very frustrated. ill either go crazy on them or ill just not speak. both of which are not working for me. how can i deal with them?Advice on lashing out on annoying people??
If you really can麓t get on with people then stay away from them but I think that you should also examine your own attitude to see if there is anything there causing the problem. Good luck.Advice on lashing out on annoying people??
Self restraint is a skill that is learned as you mature yourself. Being intolerant of others probably shows you haven't exposed yourself to other kinds of people, but of course, intolerance can also come from misunderstanding and impatience.
If you can't handle them, why hang around them? Sometimes its better to just smile and nod, and pop a question that'll leave them to ponder for a bit. Passive aggresiveness works wonders.
Just glare at them or raise one eyebrow at them.
If you really can麓t get on with people then stay away from them but I think that you should also examine your own attitude to see if there is anything there causing the problem. Good luck.Advice on lashing out on annoying people??
Self restraint is a skill that is learned as you mature yourself. Being intolerant of others probably shows you haven't exposed yourself to other kinds of people, but of course, intolerance can also come from misunderstanding and impatience.
If you can't handle them, why hang around them? Sometimes its better to just smile and nod, and pop a question that'll leave them to ponder for a bit. Passive aggresiveness works wonders.
Just glare at them or raise one eyebrow at them.
Need some nice people to give honest advice on house?
Hello :) I ask that everyone who answers to be as kind as possible, with that said, on to my question , I have a home, a sided ranch on a crawl space that needs a large amount or repairs, roof,windows,bathroom and kitchen remodeling,back deck,garage,and porch replacement! these things would cost thousands of dollars that we just can not afford! all of our money goes to bills and there is just no money left for repairs! what are our options? are there any?Need some nice people to give honest advice on house?
It all depends on how much you would want to sell your home for. Lots of people buy fixer-uppers. But if you want to get the full value of your home, you need to replace the things to make it safe. Now you can do this one of many ways.
1. you can look for a handy type person, and pay them a fair amount to do the work if you can't do it yourself. Lots of people are looking to make a few extra dollars these days. And what I would recommend is that, you make a list of supplies you need and go to home Depot and price the items. You will need to make sure that the underpinning of your home is safe to lay a sub floor. Once you have the sub flooring down, buy some Laminated flooring at Lumber liquidator they have sales all the time, and it is pretty easy to install, or you could put carpet down, to make it look clean and fresh.
As far as the deck, if it is not fixable then remove it all together, and put some steps, if you need them if you have to put something there and can not install steps, use cinder blocks, works great, have them myself.
Depending on your area, most handy men will work for $25.00 per hour.
Your other option is to look up Habitat for humanity in your area, sometimes they have funds to help people in need of work on there homes.
Also contact your local Salvation Army store, they too can point you in the direction for help. We have a place called Lesions that help low income people with fixing there homes, or help with heating bills.
Sometimes you can find materials at a redemption center, or in the add part of your local news paper
Good Luck I hope this has been of some helpNeed some nice people to give honest advice on house?
I know its hard, but try to cut your spending on other things so that you can afford to do some upkeep on the house. Examples... go without cable or dish TV, reduce electricity usage, reduce your cell phone bills by not having texting and such, shop at discount or outlet stores, don't buy new vehicles, don't go shopping for things you don't absolutely need, instead of running errands to the store or wherever just stop on the way to or from work to save gas, don't go out to eat, and a million more things I don't have time to type here.
Maybe you could downsize a bit. Sell that house and buy another house that doesnt need the repairs.
Maybe you could start learning how to do the repairs yourself and save some money that way.
Maybe trade for whatever you do best. Maybe the church can help. Maybe the kids can help. Maybe a part time job just to get a couple extra dollars from somewhere. Maybe you can cut some expences somewhere. Maybe you could rent the garage out.
Lot of posibilities. Get friends to help. Do a gargage sale. Divide and concour your projects. Do the cheapest ones first, it will make you feel better.
Good Luck.
Talk to a real estate agent. They deal with problems like this all the time. They can tell you where to get the best deals or you can sell it ';as is.';
Also Home Depot is very helpful with home projects. They can advise you on how to make repairs and do them properly. Take it one step at a time.
Don't bother with praying, it does nothing to help you. :P The only advice I can give you is find a better job or find a second job that gives decent pay and doesn't require long hours. Try and not to buy things that you don't need(unnecessary food,etc) and just save up the money you have.
im only 13, but all i can say is pray to God. Or try to save up and not buy little things 4 ur children (ur name) like at the grocery store if they ask 4 candy dont buy it.
1. its unhealthy
2.every penny counts
if u have a husband, u guys can both try to get 2 jobs?? part tine? gud luk! i pray 4 u
just put money away till u have enuff...like come up with a budget with ur repairs in mind...mayb get a second job jus for the time being till u can get ur repairs done OR u can get a loan for the repairs and pay that off in time
Pick your priority's. do the ones that you can't do with out. at this time you will be there a while. so you will have time to slowly go through the list. everyone has a budget.
Rent another house and put yours up for sale?
Yes, I buy ugly houses.
I feel for you, my house needs repairs also, I know what having no money is like. Are you married? That is a very important question. And the answer is relevant. If you are, you and your husband can fix things together. A little at a time. The first thing I would try to get done is the roof. Sometimes when you are driving look around, someone may have some roofing material laying around that may be good and they would be willing to sell at a cheap price or maybe even give you. See, it doesn't bother me to ask someone things like that because I have to survive. You just never know about anything unless you ask. If you can get some roofing material, and if you live around family or good friends even kind and caring neighbors, you can have a get together, you can find something to cook for a outdoor lunch, like you do at reunions, and get some people to come over and help do the roof and eat and visit. You know things like that do happen. It is worth a shot. At least your roof would be fixed. And work on one thing at a time. If there is a will there is a way. I am fixing mine just one baby step at a time and happy with that. I hope I was helpful. If I was around you I would help you. Good Luck! I saw you added more. Actually people do buy fixer uppers. But, they don't pay a whole lot. But try that get together. See what you can come up with.eye shadow
It all depends on how much you would want to sell your home for. Lots of people buy fixer-uppers. But if you want to get the full value of your home, you need to replace the things to make it safe. Now you can do this one of many ways.
1. you can look for a handy type person, and pay them a fair amount to do the work if you can't do it yourself. Lots of people are looking to make a few extra dollars these days. And what I would recommend is that, you make a list of supplies you need and go to home Depot and price the items. You will need to make sure that the underpinning of your home is safe to lay a sub floor. Once you have the sub flooring down, buy some Laminated flooring at Lumber liquidator they have sales all the time, and it is pretty easy to install, or you could put carpet down, to make it look clean and fresh.
As far as the deck, if it is not fixable then remove it all together, and put some steps, if you need them if you have to put something there and can not install steps, use cinder blocks, works great, have them myself.
Depending on your area, most handy men will work for $25.00 per hour.
Your other option is to look up Habitat for humanity in your area, sometimes they have funds to help people in need of work on there homes.
Also contact your local Salvation Army store, they too can point you in the direction for help. We have a place called Lesions that help low income people with fixing there homes, or help with heating bills.
Sometimes you can find materials at a redemption center, or in the add part of your local news paper
Good Luck I hope this has been of some helpNeed some nice people to give honest advice on house?
I know its hard, but try to cut your spending on other things so that you can afford to do some upkeep on the house. Examples... go without cable or dish TV, reduce electricity usage, reduce your cell phone bills by not having texting and such, shop at discount or outlet stores, don't buy new vehicles, don't go shopping for things you don't absolutely need, instead of running errands to the store or wherever just stop on the way to or from work to save gas, don't go out to eat, and a million more things I don't have time to type here.
Maybe you could downsize a bit. Sell that house and buy another house that doesnt need the repairs.
Maybe you could start learning how to do the repairs yourself and save some money that way.
Maybe trade for whatever you do best. Maybe the church can help. Maybe the kids can help. Maybe a part time job just to get a couple extra dollars from somewhere. Maybe you can cut some expences somewhere. Maybe you could rent the garage out.
Lot of posibilities. Get friends to help. Do a gargage sale. Divide and concour your projects. Do the cheapest ones first, it will make you feel better.
Good Luck.
Talk to a real estate agent. They deal with problems like this all the time. They can tell you where to get the best deals or you can sell it ';as is.';
Also Home Depot is very helpful with home projects. They can advise you on how to make repairs and do them properly. Take it one step at a time.
Don't bother with praying, it does nothing to help you. :P The only advice I can give you is find a better job or find a second job that gives decent pay and doesn't require long hours. Try and not to buy things that you don't need(unnecessary food,etc) and just save up the money you have.
im only 13, but all i can say is pray to God. Or try to save up and not buy little things 4 ur children (ur name) like at the grocery store if they ask 4 candy dont buy it.
1. its unhealthy
2.every penny counts
if u have a husband, u guys can both try to get 2 jobs?? part tine? gud luk! i pray 4 u
just put money away till u have enuff...like come up with a budget with ur repairs in mind...mayb get a second job jus for the time being till u can get ur repairs done OR u can get a loan for the repairs and pay that off in time
Pick your priority's. do the ones that you can't do with out. at this time you will be there a while. so you will have time to slowly go through the list. everyone has a budget.
Rent another house and put yours up for sale?
Yes, I buy ugly houses.
I feel for you, my house needs repairs also, I know what having no money is like. Are you married? That is a very important question. And the answer is relevant. If you are, you and your husband can fix things together. A little at a time. The first thing I would try to get done is the roof. Sometimes when you are driving look around, someone may have some roofing material laying around that may be good and they would be willing to sell at a cheap price or maybe even give you. See, it doesn't bother me to ask someone things like that because I have to survive. You just never know about anything unless you ask. If you can get some roofing material, and if you live around family or good friends even kind and caring neighbors, you can have a get together, you can find something to cook for a outdoor lunch, like you do at reunions, and get some people to come over and help do the roof and eat and visit. You know things like that do happen. It is worth a shot. At least your roof would be fixed. And work on one thing at a time. If there is a will there is a way. I am fixing mine just one baby step at a time and happy with that. I hope I was helpful. If I was around you I would help you. Good Luck! I saw you added more. Actually people do buy fixer uppers. But, they don't pay a whole lot. But try that get together. See what you can come up with.
Who are these people that write these advice books for teachers?
And who are the teachers that actually think these methods work?
I was reading another question from a guy that started substitute teaching. He said he read a book by Harry Wong and thought he was all set to go, only to find out he was wrong. He said he basically had to teach himself the basics, and was still struggling. I hear a lot of fruity advice from people, such as ';Don't yell, it's a weakness,'; ';have work ready for the kids to do all hour,'; ';treat them fairly.';
Have these people ever been in a classroom, especially a ghetto one? They don't even listen! They're animals! No disrespect, they are, and they don't want to be there! Their parents don't want to accept the fact their kids are hooligans!
I remember where I came from as a kid. We got beaten by our teachers. I didn't like it, but our classes were always quiet and well-behaved. It helped that the older kids were prefects that reported on the younger kids for the teachers. It's very effective, believe it or not.Who are these people that write these advice books for teachers?
why don't you write a book on how to teach since you seem to know so much.
I was reading another question from a guy that started substitute teaching. He said he read a book by Harry Wong and thought he was all set to go, only to find out he was wrong. He said he basically had to teach himself the basics, and was still struggling. I hear a lot of fruity advice from people, such as ';Don't yell, it's a weakness,'; ';have work ready for the kids to do all hour,'; ';treat them fairly.';
Have these people ever been in a classroom, especially a ghetto one? They don't even listen! They're animals! No disrespect, they are, and they don't want to be there! Their parents don't want to accept the fact their kids are hooligans!
I remember where I came from as a kid. We got beaten by our teachers. I didn't like it, but our classes were always quiet and well-behaved. It helped that the older kids were prefects that reported on the younger kids for the teachers. It's very effective, believe it or not.Who are these people that write these advice books for teachers?
why don't you write a book on how to teach since you seem to know so much.
Can some older people give me some advice on this situation please and maybe their perspective of me right now?
I'm so hurt. This person I tried looking up to constantly acts like I don't exist. So I deleted all of the comments I put on their wall...they never responded anyway. And then I deactivated my facebook account. I would ask him how he was, about his family, comment on his status, wished him well on getting better, congratulated him on his retirement, etc. And he only partially responded to one comment and ignored the rest. His wife hasn't confirmed me as a friend. I've sent letters of apologies, asked how she was doing, etc. I'm not really sure what I did to either one of them but maybe being a little overly friendly. I really wanted to be friends with them...why not me? The only thing is he was online before I could delete my account because I annoy them and didn't want them to be reminded of me. Do you think he's madder than he was before? I'm not going back to facebook. It sucks! This man is a reverend and his wife. He won't be my rev anymore since he retired. But I still have to see them at church. How can I handle it? I've already cried my heart out. Why do they treat me like this? I really looked up to them=(Can some older people give me some advice on this situation please and maybe their perspective of me right now?
from what I get..... you are too needy.... and you overdo it.
As a pastor.... people can only spend so much time with each individual in their parish.... or parishes.
I have over 1,100 families that I take care of...... I can't respond to every little thing that people send my way...... so I have to pick and chose what are important... and what are not.
sometimes.... I even have to tell people... that I don't have time for them right now..... because otherwise... they would be calling me 10 times a day.... for small things that really don't matter much.Can some older people give me some advice on this situation please and maybe their perspective of me right now?
Its just facebook I wouldn't think to much of it. Sometimes people have all intent on responding just time passes and you forget. I would just ignore it and pretend nothing is wrong.
Are you having an affair with the pastor?
Anyyway hes married so stay away
The wife probably oent trust you with her husband. Cant you get the hint... Just leave him alone the man is a Reverend for crying out loud
Wow. You are that weird, creepy, stalker person. Seek professional therapy.
Find another church to attend.
I'm creeped out by you, so chances are they are too.
You sound like a stalker. You really need help.
I think you need to back away from them...you do sound creepy.
hi
it is better to ask them
dont afraid or shy to ask
They don't want to be your friend but I am not sure why, sounds like you mad them mad somehow.
weirdo u are like a stalker
That's a tough one! I know what it's like to really respect someone and want them to listen to you and give you advice. A mentor/mentee type relationship definitely must be a mutual one. Some people see mentoring someone as a burden and try to discourage anyone who tries to look up to them. The other issue is... if there is a large age difference, sometimes people feel like they can't communicate with someone who is much older or much younger than them. They're afraid that they're going to say the wrong thing or steer you in the wrong direction. I actually think you did the right thing by removing the comments that you put on their wall. It seems that they were trying to send you a message by not responding.
I believe you can definitely form a healthier relationship if you find someone who really wants to support, help and listen to you.
I understand why you are hurt. I get it, that you went out of your way to be kind and friendly to them, and felt they ignored your efforts toward friendship. If I were you, I would just forget this and move on. It could be the pastor is too busy, it could be neither one checks their account often, or it could be that they are annoyed by all the messages. I use myspace just to communicate with my family, but my husband's sister tends to send me pictures all the time of men without shirts, which I ignore and don't respond to (I don't want to see all those half naked men, but also don't want to insult her attempts to interact with me). I wouldn't stress so much over this. It really is not so important. You need to focus on interacting in person with people more than through facebook and other sources. You have social needs that are obvioulsy not being met. If you still wish to try to interact with these two, then do so at church functions until they feel more close to you, rather than through facebook.
I think you're overreacting. You actually sound like you might be somewhat chemically unbalanced since you practically stalked him and his wife and completely deleted your Facebook account since they didn't respond! If you're like this in every aspect of your life, this could be extremely irritating to other people and that might be why they didn't respond. Also, priests and reverends are very busy on a daily basis and they have a lot of commitments, and they might not have time to respond to each comment they get. He probably didn't see it as a big deal that he didn't respond to your comments, and his wife might not check her account often enough to have seen your friend request. I think you're slightly overbearing, dramatic and too emotionally attached to these people and it's good that this happened so that there is some distance between you.
from what I get..... you are too needy.... and you overdo it.
As a pastor.... people can only spend so much time with each individual in their parish.... or parishes.
I have over 1,100 families that I take care of...... I can't respond to every little thing that people send my way...... so I have to pick and chose what are important... and what are not.
sometimes.... I even have to tell people... that I don't have time for them right now..... because otherwise... they would be calling me 10 times a day.... for small things that really don't matter much.Can some older people give me some advice on this situation please and maybe their perspective of me right now?
Its just facebook I wouldn't think to much of it. Sometimes people have all intent on responding just time passes and you forget. I would just ignore it and pretend nothing is wrong.
Are you having an affair with the pastor?
Anyyway hes married so stay away
The wife probably oent trust you with her husband. Cant you get the hint... Just leave him alone the man is a Reverend for crying out loud
Wow. You are that weird, creepy, stalker person. Seek professional therapy.
Find another church to attend.
I'm creeped out by you, so chances are they are too.
You sound like a stalker. You really need help.
I think you need to back away from them...you do sound creepy.
hi
it is better to ask them
dont afraid or shy to ask
They don't want to be your friend but I am not sure why, sounds like you mad them mad somehow.
weirdo u are like a stalker
That's a tough one! I know what it's like to really respect someone and want them to listen to you and give you advice. A mentor/mentee type relationship definitely must be a mutual one. Some people see mentoring someone as a burden and try to discourage anyone who tries to look up to them. The other issue is... if there is a large age difference, sometimes people feel like they can't communicate with someone who is much older or much younger than them. They're afraid that they're going to say the wrong thing or steer you in the wrong direction. I actually think you did the right thing by removing the comments that you put on their wall. It seems that they were trying to send you a message by not responding.
I believe you can definitely form a healthier relationship if you find someone who really wants to support, help and listen to you.
I understand why you are hurt. I get it, that you went out of your way to be kind and friendly to them, and felt they ignored your efforts toward friendship. If I were you, I would just forget this and move on. It could be the pastor is too busy, it could be neither one checks their account often, or it could be that they are annoyed by all the messages. I use myspace just to communicate with my family, but my husband's sister tends to send me pictures all the time of men without shirts, which I ignore and don't respond to (I don't want to see all those half naked men, but also don't want to insult her attempts to interact with me). I wouldn't stress so much over this. It really is not so important. You need to focus on interacting in person with people more than through facebook and other sources. You have social needs that are obvioulsy not being met. If you still wish to try to interact with these two, then do so at church functions until they feel more close to you, rather than through facebook.
I think you're overreacting. You actually sound like you might be somewhat chemically unbalanced since you practically stalked him and his wife and completely deleted your Facebook account since they didn't respond! If you're like this in every aspect of your life, this could be extremely irritating to other people and that might be why they didn't respond. Also, priests and reverends are very busy on a daily basis and they have a lot of commitments, and they might not have time to respond to each comment they get. He probably didn't see it as a big deal that he didn't respond to your comments, and his wife might not check her account often enough to have seen your friend request. I think you're slightly overbearing, dramatic and too emotionally attached to these people and it's good that this happened so that there is some distance between you.
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