Why do people insist on giving me crappy marital advice?

All I asked for in my last question was simple advice on getting married in two weeks. I love my soon to be wife and I want her next to me until the day she lowers me into my grave. Why do people think that because I ask for advice that I am doubting my intentions of marriage? All I want are simple answers, so maybe it's my fault and I wasn't clear enough. I will rephrase. PLEASE OFFER ME SOME TIPS ON BEING MARRIED. I KNOW IT ISN'T EASY AND I WANT TO GET AS MANY IDEAS AS I CAN TO BE THE BEST PERSON I CAN BE FOR MY WIFE. Now if you want to be a freaking Freud about it, screw. If you have something from your personal experience irregardless of spiritual or social backgroung that you would like to share please answer. And from all the fellas...I already know the smart *** answers, but keep them coming it eases my nerves a little. ';Hello Wisconsin!!!';Why do people insist on giving me crappy marital advice?
Congrats, first of all!





#1: GIve the same consideration (or better) to your wife than you would your friend/coworker/stranger. So many times we are quick to jump on our spouses for something small that we'd say ';no problem'; to someone else.





#2: If they do something wrong, remember something they do right...very right.





#3: There might be an adjustment period after the wedding. Kind of like the day after your birthday...you partied, got presents and were the center of attention and the then next day it's business as usual. LOL.





#4: When other guy friends are talking trash about their wives, don't chime in just to keep up. Expect the same from your wife.





#5: Even when life gets busy, don't forget to look her in the eyes when you talk. Sometimes a whole day can go by and you realize you haven't even looked into each other's eyes.





#5: When she impresses you, tell her. I can't tell you what it means for my husband to just pop up with ';I can't believe you can just do that...I never could and you amaze me';. I was high on that comment forever.





Remember, life is a journey and so is marriage. You can make it harder than it has to be...but there's no reason. Laugh, love and enjoy.Why do people insist on giving me crappy marital advice?
the one thing i think is important is,,,,,,,treat you spouse with the same respect and dignity that you want from them.......
You are asking a big question in a small space. That is, marriage is not something you can give advice on within the confines of such a forum as Yahoo! Answers. My advice is to get to a library and find a book on marriage, a good one that offers real advice to someone who honestly wants advice, not a popular how-to book and what to do and not do your first night together--although that's not bad information to have. Other than that, all I can say is if you have the attitude you show in your current question about how you feel about your soon-to-be bride, you'll not go wrong in the end.
Cuz you ask for it?
Give her space and take some for yourself


trust in her and expect trust from her


work toward mutual goals and make sure you dont take each other for granted. Keep working at it and talk a lot.





Good Luck and God Bless!!
Be honest with each other, talk things out when you get into a fight, give her your everything to show her you're dedicated to the marriage, be yourself, compliment your upcoming wife if she looks good or hot, help around the house like doing the laundry and dishes, do things with her that she likes, and love her!
Don't get into a routine always give one another compliments..don't let yourself go and always take time to go out with each other at least once a month.
always keep communication open and be honest and open with everything with her. Be a good listner and surprise her with something once a week like a bunch of flowers one day or taking her to dinner the other or doing cleaning around the house just little things that will make her happy.
You dont need any tips on being married cause it will be no different to the relationship you are now... Just be yourself cause thats who she fell in love with and who she will stay in love with. Good luck with it all to both of you.