Mature people, can i get ur advice on my situation? Re-post- i would just liek a few more answers THANKS?

Ok so I鈥檓 20 and please take this seriously. My ex dumped me about 10 months ago and she got a new b/f not even 2 weeks after but if was talking to her Wednesday and she said that he was just a rebound and she needed something to get over me, and that its been this long and she still can鈥檛. She dumped her b/f and asked me out Thursday. She wanted to come over, or for me to go to her house Thursday. She said that she figured that if we dated for a few months then everything in time would go back to how it was. Now I鈥檓 not going to lie to you guys and say that I don鈥檛 miss her but pretty much I鈥檝e been past the worst part of dealing with a break up. She also said that her dumping me was the biggest mistake she ever made. I told her a few days ago ( when this first came up) that she need time for her self and to figure out what she wants in life. I dated this girl for 4 years, from 15 to 19. What do u think of all this? Should we just date at first or do u suggest I just move on? The reason y we broke up ( this is what she said when we first broke up) it was b/c I wasn鈥檛 giving her enough of my time and that I hang around her brother to much. And now she鈥檚 telling me that the reason y we broke up is b/c she didn鈥檛 think I wanted anything serious with her (marriage in the future etc. but in fact I did). So now her reasons have changed. Any advice/comments would be greatly appreciated. THANK YOUMature people, can i get ur advice on my situation? Re-post- i would just liek a few more answers THANKS?
well i think that if you really want to be with her and if she really wants to be with you then you shouldn't stress the issues on why you broke up so much but just concentrate on making things better. if you think you would be better off moving on without then consider that as well. just do what is going to make you happy life is to short to stress the small stuff if u love this girl and were thinking about marriage then obviously it was really serious and those type of feelings dont just go away so if you were really want her then both of you should do whatever it takes to make things work.Mature people, can i get ur advice on my situation? Re-post- i would just liek a few more answers THANKS?
it sounds like she does not know what she wants. i would move on and find someone else you are only 20 and have lots of time to find the right girl and get married.
my gran was a wise old bird she would answer you with this ; if you love something set it free if it comes back its your if it doesn't then it never was, so i would say to you date your ex don't go straight for the kill and move back in together, get to know each other a knew make it like you've just met, send her little cards buy he flowers a lady needs to know she is wanted, really listen when she speaks to you , make new plans together for your future but most of all have fun together and laugh alot that's the secret to a long relationship best wishes love
She's confused like most of us are at this age. She does need time for herself and to figure out who she is. My suggestion would be to tell her to take sometime out for herself. You can set it up this way- set a timeframe (several months 6-10) for her to think over her life and what she wants (you do the same), discuss the terms of the separation such as will you or won't you keep in contact and can you or can't you see other people (she can not, she needs to think on her own). After that time has past get together in a semi-public area (you do NOT want to be alone because it could only lead to sexually pint up sex that will only make things worse) and discuss what conclusion the two of you have come to. If you still want to be together then congratualations if not be glad you figured it out before trying to restart a futile relationship