maybe shes not like real into talkin on the phone....personally im a get to the point and get off the phone kinda girl,and people who wanna gaga on the phone irritate me and i end up avoiding them....seems too needyGirls, people that are good with advice. please help!?
No, all relationships don't go like this. I think she cares for you, but is trying to figure herself out right now. And, I think she needs eye-to-eye contact with you, meaning dates, or watching videos or going to the park. She's tired of just talking. She wants to do something. Or, there is the chance that she wants to break up with you but is having a hard time doing it. Good luck. You sound like a nice guy.
maybe just tell her that you miss talking to her for long periods of time. Instead of talking to her 2-3 times a day (that seems a bit excessive anyway) talk to her once a day for a longer time. It will be more meaningful conversation, and you'll get to talk to her for longer without her feeling crowded.
you shouldnt be offended by this...all relationships start off like this: youre up until 5 in the morning talking on the phone and all you do is think about each other all day. at one point that gets in the way of real life and you have to move away from it. you still seem to spend a decent amount of time on the phone and you should be satisfied with that...but i understand that you want more than that.
yu should give her space dont overwhelm her and if yu really feel like yu wanna talk to her more just tell her and be completely honest!!she will feel better because yu were completely honest with her and yu will feel better 2 because yu will get it off your chest and be able 2 talk 2 her more!!!please answer mine!!!!!
i think this is how relationships go. Give it some time, and when she feels better i bet she will be more free to talk to you more. Try not to be to pushy if shes going through alot no matter how much you want to talk to her alot more.
You may not realize it, but she's slowly pushing you away.
you guys need to talk and you should tell her you miss the things you used to do and the times you used to talk.
ask her if she wants some space but also tell her that although you know things change, you miss talking to her for long periods at a time. tell her you love talking to her and miss it.
Yeh tell her you miss her just tell her how you feel and that should get her to lighten up.:] Goodluck
Sounds to me like you should try and give her a little space.
You should probably drown her. Its for the best.
wow thats the same thing that happened with me and my bf..except we've been together for 3 years lol. idk its wierd cuz at first we talked so much and now its like we have nothing to talk about. but that doesnt neceserily mean that we dont care about eachother..and i understand ur gf cuz i went through depression myself..when i was depressed i didnt wana talk to anyone but i was thankful to have my bf there for me..idk maybe her depression has helped her realize what is really important in life and she doesnt wana waste time just talking to u on the fone. and u say u guys still hang out so maybe the time that she used to spend talking 2 u on the fone she now spends it doing something else that helps her feel better about herself. but if she still wants to hang out with u it means that she still cares about u. i understand that u miss her and maybe u should try talking to her about that, u kno tell hre u miss how u guys use to talk all the time and stuff...and if she doesnt want to talk on the fone so much maybe u can spend more time with her. believe me depression stinks and sometimes u dont even wana talk u just need someone to be there for you and give u a hug...i really hope i helped a bit and hopefully u and ur gf sort stuff out..but no matter what happens remember that during this time u have to be there for her more then ever..best of luck!
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