Thursday, December 31, 2009

Okay I really need answers please! People who are good at relationship advice...read!!!!?

How do I get this girl to like me? Also, how do I flirt around with her? Finally, how should I act around this girl that I like? Last crush, I got too nervous and ignored her and I definately know that that is not the way to go. So please help me!Okay I really need answers please! People who are good at relationship advice...read!!!!?
have Faith in yourself, take a look at yourself in the mirror find three things that are great about you. then believe them.then go for it nerves will always be there ,but look what happened last time.you will miss out on all the girls you like all your life and that is a waste of life..dude you could be dead tomorrow so live it..plez just live it.flirting is in your heart and soul, it will come naturally to you as you feel more comfortable.if som,eon was to tell you how to flirt you will more than likely come off looking g like a dingbat, so be true to yourself and go with the flow, it will come back to you.good luckOkay I really need answers please! People who are good at relationship advice...read!!!!?
I don't know the girl or her likes/dislikes. But for me, when a guy seems shy and looks my way and maybe says ';hi'; to me in a shy way and likes to hang around me, I get the impression he likes me. If she likes music, talk to her about music. Same with movies, sports or video games. Try to find out what she likes. If she has a favorite music, you could give her a CD. If she is ionto manga, get her latest magazine or such. You could offer to go to a movie with her.You seem sweet. This is good. I know sweet guys are much better than macho guys who act so superior.


Best of luck with her. I hope she likes you too!
first and foremost talk to her, find out what she likes, let her know that you are interested in her by talking to her just simple stuff at first ask her for help with something... ectra. as for how to act around her be your self other wise she might like who your pretending to be more then who you really are. finally its OK to be nervous, most girls have a need to be supportive if she likes you too she will respond if she does not then you can at least know that you tried. women are complicated you have to adapt to what type of person they are... but that's another class all together...
you do not need to act like a dip shi.t or something your not just go up and ask her out ans when your out tell her alittle about yourself and let her tell alittle about herself to if she wants to but do not talk her leg off. remember there is no one better to help you then you. your the only one that can make thing happen for you on this one. half the battle is being yourself in front of the girl you want to be with or ask out. A fool is a person that lets something slip through his/her fingers and that person sits back and doess nothing


but a winner is one that trys and if he fails he still is a winner but who knows she might say yes too
Pray for that!
I was always attracted to boys who were interested in the same things as me. If you see her carrying (for instance) a book, check out the same book, read a little of it, and you will have a great conversation starter. Show her you are interested or she will never have the oportunity to see if she likes you too.
Just be yourself. talk to her. Don't be afraid the worst that could happen is she says she only wants to be friends. everyone could use more friends. Being shy is a turn off to most girls. But so is being a macho *** like some of the people who answered your question. So be yourself and go talk to her. Good luck.
Start a conversation with her. Just be yourself. You should also be nice to her, and compliment her. Offer to help her whenever you can. Once you become friends, talk about yourself more; just don't brag about yourself. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then she's not the right girl for you.
Put a smile on your face and be a gentleman and that will definitely make her notice. Offer some help when you see a lot of books with her. A friendly nod or a little hi when you see her goes a long way, my friend! It all starts with a simple simple gesture!
The only thing that will make a girl not notice you is to not let her know that you like her. Flirt with her just as you would flirt with anyone else but don't be annoying. You shouldn't act like anything either cuz girls hate acts. If she likes you then lucky you if not then look for someone who does. The best thing is to make her your friend first and then you can build on it cuz if you can't get along as friends you'll never get along as lovers.
the best way to make a person like you is to be just yourself.


no matter what the situation is, you'll be able to handle it well when you're being yourself.


be confident with yourself and don't try to act like you're someone else...


it would do the trick... Goodluck!
Don't ignore her. I had the same problem except with my boyfriend. I would see him in the hallway and he would try to kiss me but I'd move away or pretend i didn't see him. It didn't turn out good but what you should do is this.





-Become her bestfriend, talk with her if possible sit at a table near her at lunch. Ask her to borrow her notes in school. If you see her in the mall and your comfortable with her and are basically best friends when you see her around give her a hug.





-Flirt with her:: smile at her in class, tickle her, complement her shirt,hair %26amp; whatever
get to know her better and plan your moves also try to find out if she has someone else in mind.Follow your heart
Just be URself, If ur Gonna act a Different person Something will Go wrong.. Just to be On the safe side.. be uself, Respect her feelings,watch wat ur words %26amp; gesture... Give her, her space... Act like an gentlemen.. Girls Like guys who respect Them for who they r.. When u see her Give a casual comment on How sweet she Looks N stuffs.. DOn't over do it or she might think ur a Jerk Just trying to get to her..
you should try and talk to her and see if there's signs of her liking you. if not, you can't make her like you. she either does or she doesn't. and if you pretend to be someone else just so that she likes you she'll discover the truth soon and dump you. so just be yourself and talk to her :).
Just be yourself. Don't try to show off, to impress. We can spot a phoney. Just give sincere compliments, but be consistent. Mixed signals are a turn off for anybody.
1. Does she know you're alive?


if she doesnt, make sure she DOES! and show her some signs tht you like her like smiling whenever you see her, or eye contact..


2. Ask her about her favorite bands, what she likes to do, and if she likes the funny type, which most girls like me do, tell her jokes tht'll make her laugh! I love guys tht can make me laugh! to me, the definition of flirting is just talking to someone you like.. lol idk


3. ACT NORMAL!!! if you get all nervous and wierd, ppl dont feel comfortable! and dont ask if shes ';ok'; every 5 seconds because tht just makes it look like YOU are insecure about something.. you just have to be confident and thts all you'll need!


4. if you dont think you can make it through a date without completely falling apart, make it a group date!!! those gaurantee fun, and friends tht will help you during the date...


5. GOOD LUCK!!!! and i hope you get the GF of your dreams!
be honest with her. Honesty will make u feel better. you are throwing your cards on the table and are not ignoring her.
What a panzy! Grow up, or r u really a homo?
when u pass by her , give her a smile , do everything above ppl told u to but remember not to make her fun . usually a boy who like a girl ends up making her fun , which goes wromg . dont dare irritate her.
girls like a guy that can be cool calm and collected. you have to be yourself. if a guy is too shy, then it turns a girl away. it can be hard to work up the nerve, but it is better if you ask her yourself, don't send a friend to do it or a note. start by asking if she would like to hang out or catch a movie or even do homework together. go from there. don't be rude like some guys. and if she accepts, then find out if she has a boyfriend, if not then ask her if she would like to date you. tell her she is pretty or that she lloks nice, smells good, she is smart, those kinds of things. don't tell her she has a cute butt or stare at her chest, girls hate that kind of thing.
first be friends with her


find out what she likes to do..mmm blah blah


be there for her anytime


show her respect ';ALWAYS';


just be coo wit her....
Just be yourself, don't change who you are or how you act for anyone, it won't be worth it. You should try to get to know her, and what might make her happy. ALWAYS treat her with respect, be nice to her, it goes a long way.
stop flirting .and approach her 4 d marriage if u r really serious 4 her,other wise 4get it
you just need to be nice and talk to her. Compliment her sometimes, how she looks. ';you have beautiful eyes';, ';you changed your hair, I love it';, ';That piece of clothing looks great on you'; somethings girls love to hear. Also be yourself, its better to be hated for who you are then loved for who you are not.
well, just be yourself. show your girl that you care %26amp; respect her. try having friendly conversations (first) and then ask her out: go to a movie, picnic at the park, walk on the beach, etc. don't try to flirt around her but rather compliment her (clothings/smile/purse/shoes/etc).. be honest that means don't lie to her, cuz a small lies can hurt her feeling. just be yourself %26amp; have some confident in winning her love. good luck!!
Ok, here is the sure-fire way to handle this type of situation.





From this day forward forget sex, intimacy and love in connection with her. Erase it from your mind. When you slip up erase it again.





From this day forward she is a new aquaintance and you are building a friendship--just like with a dude. Treat every meeting just like that.





Be her friend. Be her friend. Be her friend.





Then one day she is going to have this realization that she can have the best of both worlds freindship and sex. You winner you.





Later the whole thing is going to hell, but don't think about that right now.





Just be her friend. No sex thoughts at all.





This works everytime. So, please make sure you want it. It is based on the mechanics of energy flows, dispersals, and ridges.


Thank me later.
Just calm down. This girl is human to you know. You can flirt around with her by saying ';You look nice today '; or '; Whats that lovely smell is it you';. Don't ignore her but you can play hard to get as well. Pls don't trie to be a show of girls don't like that! Just be yourself. Then you would know that if she likes you back she really likes you for you and not the person you are tried to be.





Good luck!!
DO NOt flirt with her it will just turn her off.!!! just tell her normally im sure it will work !!
You sound like a nice guy . . . so, just be yourself. Talk to her and find out what you have in common (music, books, movies, whatever). Become friends first, then let the relationship progress naturally. You'll feel less nervous when you're around her and you certainly won't ignore her because she'll be your friend. Good luck!
just be yourself. if your not comfortable around the person then they are not right for you. just talk to her, pay attention to her, spend extra time with her, its the little things that will let her know you like her.

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