Thursday, December 31, 2009

Do you ever just want to yell at people when they give you advice?

Did you know that I'm depressed. I was told that one today.


Duh!!!!!


My mother pasted away a month ago today. I didn't


sleep again last night. Wouldn't you be a little bit depressed when this is the first you have ever been on your own.


Duh!!!!!!!!!!!


Sorry, need to vent a little. Having another rough day.


Weekends are the worst. Too much time to think.Do you ever just want to yell at people when they give you advice?
It's been 3 years since Mom passed away. And it still hurts. And yes, weekends are the worst, we always talked on Sunday...always.





It will ease with time, but it will never go away. If you ever want to vent...feel free.





Thank you Gem for leading me here. Nymph..we don't know each other..but I am here if you need a friendly ear.Do you ever just want to yell at people when they give you advice?
I'm blushing. That's not easy to do. And I mean every word.


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I am sorry to hear of your loss. I know it sounds lame, but hang in there. It will get better with time. I know from experience. And yell all you want to. Amazingly, it does help.
hi i no how u feel and feel free to vent at me any time some people just don't understand Hugs
Sweetie....You know you can vent to me any time you choose to do so.....I really know what you are going through....and you will make it to the other side....My Gramma died a year ago this month...and it hurts....like crazy....and about this time last year a ';friend'; called me and told me I needed to snap out of it...She was better off now......I screamed at her....and yelled and told her off in a big way...and guess what I felt better getting that out of my system....Mind you she and I are not as close as we once were.....but that is okay with me....


Peace.
I know how you feel. I lost my dad about 12 years ago. I was five. It is really annoying, and sadly it never ends. I still hear it. I'll meet someone new, after awhile they'll hear about it somehow, and they'll say their sorry. I can't stand that. Why are they sorry after 12 years, it's not like it's their fault. (okay that was my vent there) Even though you don't want to hear it, you've probably heard it about 100000 times, it does get better. It'll always be hard, but you'll come to peace with it after awhile.
I've felt that way at times but I know they were only trying to help me in their way and I didn't want to drive my friends away I needed them around me for support or advice.


My best friend didn't know what to say to me and stood back a bit for a while and I missed her so much I had to go around and tell her how I felt and she was a great help to me when I needed her..most

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