Should i just ask this guy straight out if hes told people about us? need advice please?

ive been dating a guy in work,weve only kissed, but today everytime i walked past a group of guys in work they were looking at me and grinning and talking amongst themselves. So now im paranoid this guy has told them we've slept together or something, i could be wrong but should i be straight and just ask the guy if he told anyone? i havent told anyone in work that were dating. He's 30 too, isnt he a little old to be telling stories?


i dont know any other reason why they were looking at me ...Should i just ask this guy straight out if hes told people about us? need advice please?
yes, asking him straight up is a great idea. can save a lot of BS games to be straight up to one another.Should i just ask this guy straight out if hes told people about us? need advice please?
Ask him. If you can't even ask him a simple question like that, there are some serious problems. He could have told them that you guys were seeing eachother, and they took it to another level. You know how stories go.
HHMMMM... Maybe your cute. Maybe you had some broccoli stuck in your teeth. No wait maybe he's immature and still feels the need to be a man and brag about who he is messing with. Ask him and make it clear it's not him, you, and everybody else. He needs to choose between you and others.
I think you were all ready paranoid to start with once the relationship started.. so your just woundering what there laughing about or w/e, they could be talking about a million diffrent things.. dont assume its about you.. but if you think he might have told them.. then of course ask him.. but dont accuse him of it.. just simple ask.. and dont give reason why your asking until he answers yes or no.. cause if you say why your asking he can lie about it.. at this point he doesnt know who you talked to and who has talked to you.. so its more reliable that he would say yes if he did.. but if you say the only reason yoru asking is some guys looked at you.. he might try and hide it longer and say no.. does that make since? well hopefully he didnt and you guys can continue your relationship.. but i hope the best for ya.. good luck
ask him. chances are he told his friends the truth though, and not that u two slept together. hopefully





if he lied then dump his ***
Yep, ask him. We gossip too, but we don't call it gossip. Just ask him if he mentioned what happened with you guys to anyone. Maybe he told one person and it spread like wildfire.
something like that happened to me at work too I'd ask him but he'd probably deny it that's guys for ya I guess they never grow up :)