In this case age does not matter as I've seen some answers post. It depends on the maturity of both persons. It also depends o how you both feel about each other. Is always good to have a good communication and talk about how you guys feel. Listen to each others opinion. I';ve been with a person for quite sometime and we have many months without seen each other and everything has worked out fine. When you do leave try and do things that can keep the relationship alive phone calls, messages daily so that your partner can see you think about them, letter's, ';I love you's'; anything that interest you guys the more connected you guys feel the better the relationship will be and after a while it will be exciting for both of you guys to see each other and do things together after sometime been separated. Is all about both wanting to be together at any cost. when you want something you fight for it.Need some good advice please from grown up mature people...?
Your not overreacting, however, when you get back it wont be exactly the same.. aka, might be a bit more shy, like starting the relationship over.. If he finds someone else then obviously he wasn't so madly inlove with you in the first place... but for the most part your only gone for four months, just dont get crazy on him and you should be fine... guys love independant woman who are not afraid of a measly four month because you are confident enough to know that he will be just as in love with you before you left and when you get back... sit back and enjoy the ride.. dont stress to much about it.. it's just life
I feel the same about my boyfriend...
He goes to my opposite school (I'm in all girls, he's in all boys)
I'm on holiday a lot of time and/or out with friends, so I'm always worried about him trying to find affection with someone else to make up for me not being there.
But then you've got to remember the strongest glue in a relationship is trust, so just trust him. :)
i would say your worrying is normal. i would look at it like a test to see if you really want to be together or not. after 4 months you could come to realize some things such as....
1.) wen you get back and your feelings are the same ule know for sure that ur gonna give it ur all and try to make it work
2.) bein on ur own for a while wanst so bad maybe i should date around some before i commit
ur definetly not overreacting, a lot could happen in four months. how strong is your relationship? if its strong on both ends it might work, he will probably change but you will also change. you might realize hes not the person for you or you might realize you want to spend the rest of your life with him...
Your not over reacting, it could be a valid fear. But if you trust him and your love is true, he will come back to you =] I promise!
Depends on how old he is. Under 21, he's going to change, over 30 he's not going to change.
Believe me..........Absence does ';NOT'; make the heart grow stronger.
if hes a good man u over reacting
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