Help me people i need some advice quickly?

I have been hanging out with my co worker for about 3 months now, he is so fine and only 21 yrs old. im 34 and i have 3 kids. he is a good person very responsible, hard working and i know he enjoys my company but we are only friends. he comes to my house everyday, he is single but his ex girl is pregnant, be he don't want her, and we both went though rough relationships and i know he is a player. The thing is im starting to like him and i wanna kiss him so bad, but he keeps telling me since we are friends he only like skinny females not thick females like myself, i don't know what to do, I joke with him all the time about sexually things and he plays back, and she showed me a pic of his private part too. he sleeps in my bed all the time but don't try nothing. iam very attracted to him and i just told him my feeling yesterday, cause he asked me would i have sex with him and i responded, yes.i told him,that i want him and he told me it can never happen, we are like family and that we have both diffcult situations, now i dont know what to do im so lost he is my coworker and best friend and im going to see him in 10 minutes, im so nervous because we were on the phone until 2am texting each other about the situation, what and how should i react when he comes into my office. ill add more details if needed just ask


Help me people i need some advice quickly?
just act like normal. He made it pretty clear that he doesn't like you in that way. Don't ruin the good friendship. Find a different man.Help me people i need some advice quickly?
Don't sweat it, keep flirting with him he'll come around...

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Don't do it. You will loose a good friend if you do.
This isn't a problem who has not put their foot in their mouths, my breath smells like ';Air1 Nike'; right now. You gambled on a emotion, when the odds was stacked against you's. (Hey) Don't beat yourself up about it, he seems like a good understanding friend %26amp; when you add GOD to that friendship I can see it making a Lovely relationship, %26amp; that's probably why you took the chance on asking(with tha push from people of Yahoo! Answers, self included). Just don't change the way you feel about him %26amp; don't start treating him different, mean, standoff, short etc. Because then you might have a ';class action'; %26amp; then you'll see who's really your friend(Lol.......4real DON'T). Pray, take a breath %26amp; start your day, you'll be fine. Oh yeah never use the ';I was drunk'; line EVER!