he wants to put his P in your V and maybe B his L all over your T'sPLEASE PEOPLE I NEED YOUR ADVICE ON THIS GUY ASAP?
I went thru something similar...its a booty call and nothing more. Whatever else he had going on obviously didn't pan out which is why you're hearing from him now. You are probably one of the few people that will sleep with him at this point, he's really hard up, and thinks if he says the right things, he'll get laid again. Don't fall for it, you are no one's booty call and you deserve way better.
ok well TEST THE GUY to see if he actually means it when he says he isnt your booty call. hang out with him lots just watch a movie or somethin and if he tries to get in ur pants and you turn him down sayin thats not ';who you are'; and he gets pissed then you know that he only thinks of you as a piece of meat-- but if he ACTUALLY does not try to make a move on you, then maybe he DOES like you..
You can't be really sure of what he wants because you've already had sex with him.Tell him you'll go out with him on the condition that you both won't have sex again untill you're sure of what he really wants from you.If tries to pressurise you into having sex after a few days or weeks,dump him.
He wants to spend time with you, it is obvious from that interaction. You should start calling him, if he wants to hook up go for it! The best way to get him is to do whatever he wants you to, even if it seems strange you just go for it and do it all. I bet you end up marring this guy, he seems like a winner!
It all depends on what he is saying. He probably just wants to get laid, but its hard to tell. Just tell him straight up that you want to know why he is calling you. Go hang out with him, see if all he trys to do is get you in the sack. If it is, then all he wants is sex.
It could be a booty call thing, or it may not be. Next time he texts you go out with him, or w/e but make it clear you're not doing anything sexual unless you're in a relationship.
If after that he continues to text you, then little by little maybe you'll date, if not let it be.
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hm.. well you'll know soon. at this point he knows you want more than a booty call so if he keeps trying to hang out then he must like you. If he just lets it go and doesnt try then forget him, he's not worth it.
know what i meannnn? good luck with that though.
U r just a booty call to him. Sex is great and everything, but it is soo much better if u care about them too. Wait awhile before meeting someone and having sex with them otherwise thats all u will be is a booty call or friend w/ or nsl deal. good luck
WEL PERSONALLY I DONT THINK YOU SHOULD OF HAD SEX WITH HIM FIRST CUS THEN YOU DONT KNOW IF HE JUST WANTED YOU FOR SEX OR CUS HE REALLY LIKED YOU..%26amp; YOU DID GOOD FOR TELLING HIM YOU WONT BE THE BOOTY CALL...BUT IF HE DOSENT REPLY BAK THEN FORGET ABOUT HIM HES NOT WOTH IT!!
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IF HE DOES REPLY THEN ASK HIM WHAT HE REALLY WANTS U FOR?
If you like the guy, then be easy. You have told him you are not a BOOTY CALL- so that is understood. If he text, text back. Keep the lines of communications open. One day at a time. If he likes you nothing will keep him away.
No matter what he says he doesn't really like just booty call.
You brought this situation on yourself. Of course he thinks you guys will have sex again. Girls give it up and then twll guys that they aren't getting any. Why are you gals so confusing?
Sounds like he wants you as a booty call and he's obviously not going to admit it if he is. Find out if he would see you during the day in a public place. If not, he only wants you because you put out.
baby girl, he sounds just like most of the men in my life. it's nothing more than a BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL BOOTY CALL .
He wants to screw you. I've been there, and so have my friends. If he really cares about you, he would as you out on a date or something non-sexual. He definitely likes you, but not enough to talk to you; just screw.
I think he likes you and wants to see you exclusively.But make sure hes not just telling you that he don't want just a booty call.He might be tricking you as well.Just be careful.**
totall booty call. do not respond or hook up.
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This is a definite booty call, if he really liked you, he would talk to you in person instead of texting you.
I dont know the guy lol.. I gusse wait and see if he texts more if he does then he likes you if he dont he wanted a booty call
no no no. he wants to get laid. no no no. don't answer, don/t hook up, no no no.
don't hook up with him, it's obvius he just wants you for the sex.
He just wants sex....it's so obvious...he seems slightly desperate also..
i think it'a booty call but if you think otherwise just ask him.
keep your legs closed for 3 dates and u will know.he will try somethin in the first 2 if he wants booty call
He only likes you for the sex !! And I don't care what he says -- he's out to have you again !! I know ! - I'm a guy !
If you have to ask this question, your not old enough to have SEX!!!
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It sounds like this guy is only interested in using you, unfortunately. Since he didn't contact you after you first hooked up, it means he probably wasn't planning on it. Now that he seems like he just can't wait to hang out, to me it just sounds like he can't wait to get some. You were right in telling him that you wouldn't be his booty call. I think it sounds like the main reason he is texting you is to see if he can hook up with you again, not because he genuinely likes you. Unfortunately, he sounds like someone you shouldn't be wasting your time on. Sorry!
Wait until he texts / calls you again and if he asks to see you... find out ';WHERE'; does he want to go. If he says you tell me or I don't know then forget about it. Only agree to go out with him if and ONLY if he takes you out to a movie, dinner, anywhere but his/your house. Make him take you out on an official date. Whatever you do, DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM otherwise, you'll be a booty call.
First off, (not trying to be rude) please use periods, that was a mess to read. But regarding your question...you must be vary young, why waste your time on a guy that you don't know about? If you have any doubts...move on, we all want to be loved. Some of us fill the void by having sex and hoping that somehow creates the magic for him so that he'll love us forever...but it doesn't. We've all made that mistake, just learn from it.
Guys like to work for things, they love the thrill of the hunt! If you give guys what their hunting, they'll have filled their desires with you and leave. Why? Because your discovered territory now, guys want thrill and excitement. MAKE HIM WAIT! Don't tease, then you'll be just that, a tease. Don't be to nice or coy, be sultry and powerful. If a guy wanted thrills and a trophy, he wouldn't get it from defeating a mouse. But capturing a lioness, now that's something to be proud of! DON'T be his mouse.
The way someone is going to see you as special, is through your self respect and esteem. If you treat yourself like he's better than you, he'll use you for his needs and trash you. But if you stick to your resolve, and show him he was YOUR FLING instead, that boy will follow you till the end. And if he doesn't...you lasted for 2 weeks without him, so you already know that life goes on. Ever notice how good guys are sometimes ruled by ';bitches';? I'll bet at one point in time they were actually the bad boys, they just found a girl to make them deserve.
I'm not sure how old you are, but there's a book called, ';Why Men Love Bitches';. Read that if you ever find yourself at Barnes %26amp; Nobles. It's a great self esteem booster, and I'll bet you'll start to be noticed as more than a piece of meat.
Good luck hon ;p
Hang out with him, and make sure you don't have sex with him. Tell him you want to get to know him and hang out. Its that simple.. just stay away from the sex part for a while. And if he doesn't like it, then find someone who will want to get to know you instead of being a booty call.
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