ok so im going to call her for the first time today. what time should i call her. what should i talk about? im real nervous cos i like stutter and stuff so im really not too sure as to how shell perceive me. gimme good advise please. weve been texting for like three weeks now, but no speaking. met on the net, but we went to college, never spokeYO people!!!, gimme some good time advice here, like right now!!!!?
first u dont need 2 b nervous.she's just as human as u r.calm urself and b as natural as u can b.say some nice things too.YO people!!!, gimme some good time advice here, like right now!!!!?
First slow down and think about what your going to say before you say it, it should help with the stuttering.Be confident and relax everyone gets nervous it's just normal. As for conversion topics start with the normal how are you, what have you been upto and see were it goes from there.
And depending on there age good english might help but if they talk like that then its ok otherwise dont say yo and gimme stuff like that.
Hope that helps GOOD LUCK.
The best time to call her is before she goes to bed,so far i guess she is aware that u are interested in her.....start by inviting her out for lunch or something.
Just be yourself.. Have a casual conversation.. Talk about stuff like how is she.. What is she up to... Talk about things that just recently happened that you know she's interested in (for example, if she likes basketball and you know she watches WNBA a lot then talk about that).... Talk about school.. If you want, you can add small talk like what's her favourite color, sport, hobby, hang-out.. and stuff like that.. From there, the conversation is surely gonna flow..
Just remember to calm down and not to stutter, mumble, or freak on the spot... Just chill about it.. If you do it well, it will come naturally.. Make a good impression and be confident! But whatever you do be respectful and sweet and nice.. This will make it special..
Also, before you talk think about what you say so you dont end up saying things that dont make sense..
P.S
If it went well she is sure to call you the next time or text u like ';it was nice talking to you.'; If this happens take a leap of faith and ask her out!
Good luck, dude! I have my fingers crossed..
just be nice.
make you you do the...
you hang up.
no, you hang up.
no, you hang up first.
okay, in 1 2 3.
did you hang up?
no, you hang up.
didnt you ask this earlier?
cut the crap...ask something new.
Take a valium before calling her.
online dating is bad! personal experience sucks! don't do it!
don't use ';yo, gimme, etc';. speak English, and say hi.
Learn how to spell better first. College girls usually can articulate, or explain, themselves well.
If this is making you nervous out of you head then just text her, only get a little more personal. If you want to ask her for a date then text her that.
If the answer is yes then you go from there. You could either meet her some where or pick her up. What every you to decide to do.
If you phone her say, 6:00-7:00 PM and she isn't home, just leave a message. Then it's up to her to call you back. However if she is home just hi I'm (so and so) and I thought I'd give you a call since we've been texting for so long.
That's about all I can give you. The talking will become less stressful as you go along. If you are thinking about asking her to go out with you, the opportunity will present it self. You'll know when it's right during your conversation.
I know it's a nervous time, but like I said both of you will get more comfortable as you talk for awhile.
Have a good conversation ... have a good time.
What did you text about? Maybe remenice (spelling?) about college if you think it was a good experience for both of you. And other things you have in common.
Sorry if that sounds dumb and obvious.
Just be yourself....
first of all you can control the stuttering by talking slowly i did call her about 6p. ask her what she's up to, then that should open up a conversation but if your stuttering is as bad as mine was practice makes perfect slow down speaking
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