Help me people please, I nees some advice.?

I know that you do not know me personally or anything. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 4 months now. He is 18, I am 19. Everything was great until about 8 or so months ago. Now we just wind each other up all the time. In a way it gives me kicks to wind him up. We're either really great or really crap, there is no middle ground. I just want to go out and have fun without having him watching over me, like my Dad being there or something. On the other hand he is one of the nicest people I have ever met, he is my best friend and would do anything for me. 98% of my life consists of him. But I just feel like the spark has gone. Also he has slept with other people and I havent, and in a twisted way I think I resent him for it. I just feel like running away and starting a new life with a new bunch of people. I have just qualified in beauty and am at a crossroads in life. any advice? Please no nasty or sarcastic comments.Help me people please, I nees some advice.?
Maybe yall two need to sit down and have a serious talk. You need to tell him all that you are feeling or else it will be ruined. If you are not honest, how can you expect him to be honest with you?





You are still getting older though. You will continue to go through a lot of stages and change. Sometimes people just grow apart for various reasons.





You may just be getting tired of him. Maybe a trial break-up? Also, you said 98% of your life revolves around him. Not good. I always say that in order to have a solid, good relationship, both of you have to have lives separate from the other. You can still be together a lot of the time. However, space is a must. Respect involves separate time with friends. Do you have friends that you used to hang out with but don't so much anymore? Talk to them. You need to have friends apart from him. If you don't, you will just feel suffocated.





If you really do want this to work though, talk to him. Be honest how you are feeling but be sure to tell him that you want to stay together. He might feel attacked, so try to phrase things in a way that says ';I want to fix us, this is my fault too';. Ask him what you could do to make things better. Remember, it's a two-way street. Oh and try not and get defensive. It's so easy to do.Help me people please, I nees some advice.?
I think is over, look, you should tell him that you need time for your self, that you love him and blah blah blah but you need time for your self and that you want a break or something so you can see things from a different point of view.


Have you talked to him?, because you can start by doing it.


Good luck with your problem and just listen to your brain it will tell ypu what you need to hear because your heart will only tell you what you want to hear.


The answer is in you and you know it, just find it out by your self. Ciooooo
if i get u right how u like him and want to leave him if i understand u right


any way if u want leave him u can keep him as friend


so bake up ur mind u want him or not maybe because u older than him ur mind will grow faster and after him


so its ur life if u wont to have a new people but think of what u will lose


also u can talk to him tell him how u feel let him think with u before u desied


good luck
He is only going to get more possesive and things will get worse, you're young and attractive, move on, find somebody who will love you..
It won't get better.....it just gets worse. Sounds pessimistic but true. You are so young. I say take a break and see what's out there.
It sounds like hes really into you and you think hes really nice guy. It might be nice to have someone love you like that but, if you don't love them equally you will never be happy or satisfied. You need to find someone who you feel that kind of love for that feels the same about you.