Advice please i need mature people to read no clowns?

im 16 years old and i have a daughter shes gonna be one next month and im in a relationship with a guy that i love and even tho i was on birth-control (Fem-con fe chewable tablets) i got pregnant by him i love him but i don't wanna be with him and i cant leave him because my dad is kicking me out because he wont support me and 2 kids he said one was ok but 2 is too many the only reason im still with him now is cus im gettin kicked out ( by the way my first daughter is not his ) sometimes i feel like moving away and just putting the baby up for adoption ( i dont believe in abortion ) the state of NJ doesnt want to help me cus im 16 and im sooooo lost i need advice...





READ CAREFULLY AND DONT ANSWER TALKING CRAP I NEED SINCERE ADVICEAdvice please i need mature people to read no clowns?
I hate hearing this .will your boyfriend be able to support you and 2 kids? My cousin %26amp; his wife have adopted 3 children those children have made their lives .Adoption is a great alternative ,their are a lot of people that cant have kids but can provide them with good homes.Their are agencies that have web sites that you can actually pick out you childs family.Their first childs family gave them a baby shower when they took him home.No one can tell you what you should do youve got to deside whats best yourself .Good Luck and God Bless You!Advice please i need mature people to read no clowns?
I'm really sorry that this happened to you. But its life, things happen. But let me ask you, is this guy someone you truly love? or do you only love him because you feel like there is no one else? Is he abusive at all to you? Does he truly care about the child or not?


If you dont want to be with him then dont, instead contact a family member or a close friend and ask if you can move in. try to find a job and start making some money.


People have survived your sitatuion before, dont give up or lose hope. keep working really, really hard, don't get into situations that will put you or your children in jeopardy.


If you are in school, try to keep going to school, maybe talk to your guidance counselor for advice, keep looking for opportunities and people to support you.


Never ever give up. But if things get too rough, you might want to consider adoption, if it would be the best thing for your kids.





Good luck with everything : )
i am 48 and have raised 3 boys .if i may ask were is your mother. and what is the states reason for not helping
I know it's hard, but you have to do what's best for the baby. You can't use the guy like that, it's not fair for him or the child you guys made together. The baby can't grow up with parents like that. I did, my parents are like that, I resent both of them for the way they act. If you don't believe in abortions, don't get one. Talk to your father. Adaption may be your only option.
Find a family member or someone that's willing to support you and your baby. You need to keep going to school, too by whatever means possible. You're education is very important, and you'll need it in order to support your kids. It'll be very, very hard, but you have to go through with it. I hope you can find someone that will help you get back up on your feet! I think your dad needs to be more supportive like the loving father I'm sure he is.
It looks like you might be stuck living with the father of your child for a while. If you aren't in love with him, let him know you're unsure of your feelings. It's the truth - no use living a lie.
wow you sound like me i got pregnant at 15 then 17 and ppl talk **** about me too but idc i love my children ask your dad to either babysit or hire one or maybe the father of the baby...and get a job do whatever it takes please dont give them up please youll regret it later in life or take the dad to court for child support what about your mom? can she help you?maybe live with a family member??
damm
omg girl y did u get ureself into dis situation...anyways ...dnt u have any other family dat u cud go to apart from ure boyfriend or arent der no young people homes u can go to....also try calling some helplines...believe dey'll b helpfull..
So are you saying you have an (almost) one year old and that you're pregnant again? Oh, yes, I see that you are. Ok well my advice to you would be stick with the guy until you can get yourself on your feet. You don't want to have two kids and take care of them by yourself. I do feel bad saying that if you don't want to be with the guy, but what else can you do? Your first priority is your children. They need to be taken care of and be healthy.
ahh that must suck


but yea mature answer..got it


well if u love him..then why dont you want to be with him??


is it because he isnt a good supporter or somthing..but


umm i know when my mom had my brother at 16..


she let my grandma and papa take care of him..


but i dont know if you would be able to go to


social services for help..cause when my mom was out


of a job..we got food stamps and they helped alot..so


maybe you can check with that..


i hope this helps..and if it doesnt..im sorry