Please, alll you wise people give me advice on what i should do.?

am a fourteen year old black girl: slim, tall and okayish figure. I am clever but not WOW clever as I am still in the middle class but I am like An A*/A student. I am generally well behaved, get good reports and try my best but sometimes I get told of for talking (rarley nowardays) bvut recently I have been accued of things I havent done by teachers and a few detentions. I have had one letter home when I had a';fight'; with a girl when i was in year 8. But when I see girls who I feel are perfect I feel so intimidated. Like there are theese girl, who rarley gets in trouble with the teachers and is always well behaved and a bit of a goody goody and havent ever or rarley like once a year I feel like annoyed like I am portrayed as a baddie. Just because If a teacher shouts or accuses me for something I havent done I will make sure I get my way by talking back to her, not being rude or shouting or swearing but saying all my points very clearly and saying how I feel strongly. I wouldnt chang


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how I am as I wouldnt want to be one of those who are goody goodys and are to scared to get rude to the teachers if the teacher gets rude to them or too scared to say a single word in class but I wouldnt want to be a baddy who has a bad reputation and Is always in trouble, gets letters sent home continuously and notes in their journals etc. I am just in the middle, is this good? And how do you feel about those who i am talking about? How should I act upon it?Please, alll you wise people give me advice on what i should do.?
I think you are just fine! The only thing I would be careful about is when you feel you are being falsely accused, don't talk back. Wait until the teacher is completely finished with whatever he/she is saying. Then just VERY CALMLY state that you feel they are mistaken. And then wait and let the teacher ask you why. The calmer you are, the more in control you are. When the other person is asking you to explain, that puts you in a power, instead of powerless, position.


And sometimes, that is the best way to prove your point, by being in control of yourself.





Don't feel so intimidated by anyone you think is ';perfect.'; Some people do have more advantages than others. But everyone has their problems, some you just can't see. Value yourself and who you are. By the way, you have EXCELLENT writing skills and you are very articulate! Good job for a 15 yr old!


:) :) :) :)Please, alll you wise people give me advice on what i should do.?
you are what you are and you shouldnt try to change that .


its not that you are bad or good just do what you feel is right and dont back down to a teacher be polite about it but if you disagree make that point clear.


you should feel good about yourself no matter what people say
Try spell check that would help I could barely understand what you were saying because of your spelling mistakes.





Now the answer to your question just behave and you won't get in trouble it is common sense wake up!
ur a goody goody two nerds im surprised u dont have glasses in ur avatar :(
Well, if a teacher is telling you something and you continue just talking to prove a point, you're being belligerent and disrespectful. Though I don't condone anyone yelling at you, the fact is that you are not your teacher's ';equal'; -- they are still in authority.





If you are being accused of things, your best course is to remain calm and address only the facts -- no matter how anyone else in the discussion is behaving.





And as for the girls that you think ';are perfect,'; they are not perfect. No one is perfect, so stop comparing yourself to them or to ANYONE. It's probably that they have qualities or skills that you currently lack and wish you had -- if so, you are free to try developing some of them for yourself. Nothing in your life will change simply because you want it to or wish it would happen -- you need to be proactive and actually do the work to better yourself. History is full of people who did just that.
Just chill out! Try not to hang around the people that ';get you in trouble'; and youll be fine.





*note* to yahoo answer user ';Jesus';


SHUT YOUR FACE!


who are you to tell anyone that they are this and they are that! F***** idiots!





Dont worry about it. Youll be fine. People are always going to accuse you, its just how you deal with it that determines who you are and how people view you as a person.
well i ent cool or geeky im blonde with blue eyes people at school always say im thick becuz of that but i cant change my eye colour and i dont wanna dye my hair


i will give u advice


if ur happy the way u r then stay the way u r!


if u wanna change then no one is gonna stop u from doing that








if u wanna be a goody goody then thats great if u wanna be in the middle then thats great if u wanna be a baddy baddy thats great just as long as your happy with yourself





i hope ive give u good advice if i have plz put me as best answer





thanks girl and remember BE HAPPY!!!
You're fine, but the way you react to a problem will have a huge impact on how people treat you. Stay calm when people accuse you. Tell them you didn't do it ONCE and if they still insist just nod and say, ';okay.'; But don't let them see your anger, they don't deserve it. You'll be out of school soon enough, and you know what you've done. But if you react with anger, they'll always accuse you and will not respect you.