to sum it up im fifteen years old and before(he got with his finace and had a kid) me and my brother were close and now he rarley calls or anything and i know it sounds stupid but it hurts my feelings.and hes changed alot
anyway i tell (he dosent call) and he says hes busy because he has a ';life'; now and a ';family'; and hes talking about her family.
i just think its wrong that he forgot about me and dosent care about me anymore.
hes in his early 20's and shes about 10 years older then him.
she gets jealous very easily.
she gets jealous when he hangs out with me!
i said he dosent hang out with meor my family anymore ever since he left and i meant with her and she heard and she said'; i dont provide for him';.
im like wtf im just his sister what the heck are you talking about??
-ex of how we dont see each other i seen him the other day at the store and he seen me we didnt even recognize each other!!
i recognized him after like 5 min!! my own brother!! :(
- this is really personal for me so please no rude comments
-any suggestions?PEOPLE please read need advice ANYONE?
how long have they been together? he might just be trying to make her happy and do what he thinks is best so he can keep his family together. everyone looses touch with their family in a new realtionship, because all they want to do is spend time with that person. but maybe he is intimitated by her since she is alot older and he doesnt want to make her upset. hopefully things get better. just give him time. he will realize the important things in life. just dont take it to personal. he loves you he just needs to find a way that makes everyone happy!!PEOPLE please read need advice ANYONE?
I kinda understand what you're going through...I went through the same situation before...
Me and my sister are 3 years a apart and she had her first child about 3 years ago and now she has 2 and shes engaged..but you have to understand that he does have other responsiblities to take care of now that hes the man of the house BUT that doesnt mean you should be neglected..why dont you call and talk to him about it..set up a day once a week that you guys can hang out together...so you dont drift apart..
I hope it all works out...
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