Wednesday, December 23, 2009

People in UK more advice needed...?

further to my last question.if you do not know what im going on about please refer to my asked questions.





so i have done some research on the whole CSA thing.





once they contact my boyfriend he will have to pay mainetenance until he proves he is not the father, which he wud have to pay for a DNA test to be done, but it does not say anythin about refused DNAs by the mother. if he proves to not be the dad he will be refunded on all costs.





what chance does he stand????





they will also make him pay if his name is on the birth certificate if the DNA i refused by her, or if they have reason to believe he is the father through using the courts.





i also did research on the birth certificate and it states that if she attends to register the baby without him she mum have a declaration form off him that he has signed before puttin his name on the certificate i this right as i got it off the government website.





it also states that if mother or father cannot attend to register and someone else goes do they need to take declaration forms from both parents then????People in UK more advice needed...?
you are obsessed with all this (MONEY MONEY MONEY)





He will not pay anything until the DNA test results are back and he will only pay for the DNA if he is the father,he have 2 options:


1 pay up-front - it will be cheaper and if he is not the father he will be refunded


2 - pay after the dna results - the DNA test will cost a bit more





If the mother refuses the test they will assume he is not the father,the same for the father,if he refuse they will assume he is the father...





Dont know what you going on about the Birth Certificate,what really matters here is whether he is or not the father,it doesnt really matter if his name is on the birth certificate,so and i presume he is not, that will not change ANYTHING.





Both parents need to register the baby,or have a declaration form








All I can say about you is WOW, this is none of your business and you are obsessed and maybe jealous of his ex,remember one day maybe its gonna be you...


and i say once again,if he his the father he HAVE TO pay and its more than obvious that you are not happy with it....





EDIT:I was exactly waiting for the suicide chapter,it always comes at some point...so tell me whats so bad about it?


if he is the dad he will pay like every parent SHOULD do,if he isnt then thats it...he shouldnt have sex if he dont want kids and if you are not happy with the idea that your bf maybe have a kid then you either accept it or you leave him but dont moan or try to make your bf avoid his responsibilitiesPeople in UK more advice needed...?
Hahaha





masive failure





check where u asked the question

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