Serious friend help? Teenagers? People with good advice?

Thank you so much for reading this, I WILL award BA, I just need someone to help me. So here's the deal...





I'm 16, and junior in HS. There's this girl (we will call her Kaity) and she's a sophomore. She's REALLy clingy and I mean like EXTREMELY! She's ALWAYS texting me and being rly annoying and hounding me about hanging out when I DON'T HAVE TIME and I don't WANT to hang out with her. I don't know what to do! Everyone is telling me to just basically ignore her texts. But I don't want to be mean or seem like a b!tch.





What do I do? What would YOU do?Serious friend help? Teenagers? People with good advice?
The only way to really do this is to gently tell her that you don't want to talk to her. Sounds harsh, but it's true.


Should be something like this...


';I like talking to you sometimes and all, but I don't want to be friends with you. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but you and I just aren't made to be friends. We just don't click, ok? So please find someone else to hang out with.';


Her feelings might be hurt, but after a while she will get over it. If you don't do this, there is no other way to get rid of her without looking like a total @$$.Serious friend help? Teenagers? People with good advice?
don't ignore her. just tell her in a nice way that your busy and you can't hang out. tell her that your trying to get yourself together in school and her texting you is getting in the way. tell her you don't mind hanging out with her but you've got to things to do and you will get in touch with her when you have time. then if that's doesn't work just tell her you don't have time for friends right now
Well there is a lot more in this situation that matters than what you shared.


Does this girl have a lot of other friends?


Does she seem insecure about herself?


Does she tend to want to do things in the same manner as you?


Most likely, she subconsciously admires you. Now although it should be flattering, I know it is probably extremely annoying.


Do you know anyone (guys or girls) that seem like they would get along well with her. If so why not arrange for them to do something together?


If not, don't completely ignore her texts. Maybe try to hint to her that she isn't your kind of girl without ever saying that.





I hope I helped, I know this is a tough situation.


Good luck!