Need advice from older Married People...?

I am a 32 year old guy. Never married. 3 years ago I started a technology company. Everything is going wonderfully, but because of the rapid growth it requires a huge commitment making any serious relationship completely impossible. The focus just can not be there right now. Probably 5 to 7 years left in this rat race...





My question is this. At 37 to 39 will I still be OK in finding a good younger woman interested in a lasting marriage and kids? Is there an age that I probably need to set as a cut off to changing my focus?Need advice from older Married People...?
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An age? You have to decide what's important to you and put your regrets to one side. A serious relationship is never completely impossible, it just gets increasingly improbable. In short, if you are in that bad of a rat race you are probably overestimating your personal importance to the project and/or are unable to manage your resources effectively. 32 is plenty long to wait. It's time to reorganize and make a life for yourself.
you will be fine...especialy if you have a lot of money from your business.
why not? you will never know whom you'll meet next week/month/year won't you?.
I have been married for 27 years as of today in fact! WEll...a man 37 to 39 I think will have a hard time finding anyone. My opinion is that a younger woman won't want someone that old and if you find someone that age she will not be interested in starting a family . Just my opinion. Also I had two girlfriends who married men 15 to 20 years older than themselves. My girlfriends were not interested in children, they wanted to look nice and have nice things and the men they married were able to give these things to them. I don't think that is a marriage. It takes a lot to stay married now a days and kids are all consuming and it seems to me the older they get the worse it is. Now that I probably have scared you I wish you luck and hope you find someone worthy of you and will work at happiness with you. I am 54, my husband is 53 and we have two daughters in college 20 and 21.
You'll be fine into your 40's. Have no fear. Go ahead and get yourself and your company where you want to be. Just remember that there might not BE later. If this is what you are happy doing and it is working for you, then great. I respect you a lot for knowing where your priorities are. When you are ready to start your family, you should have no problem finding a young woman to partner up with. There are like 2 women to every man. A woman who waits for a good man may wait forever. You, on the other hand, should have no problem. Best of luck.
ouch... I think a better question is would you want your kids to just be moving out of your house while your in your 60's?
There are plenty of ladies in their early to mid thirties still looking for MR. Right. And late thirties is not too old for kids. Just remember that we can not take anything of this world with us. We must live each day as if it were our last. Who is to say that you have 5 to 7 years left on this earth. When you meet the right one you need to make time. Good luck.
Relax - you are not out of the equation yet. Hell my dad got remarried at age 58 to a 28 year old woman that really loved him and took him very seriously. And he was a pure grunt head SOB, but a loving and caring person. Not to forget he had some cash also. So you will be alright!
If having your own children is a priority then I would say you can't wait that long unless you plan on a much younger woman. The older a woman gets it's harder to get pregnant, plus there's more risk for the baby.


Doesn't matter how much you work if you find the right lady. Someone with the same goals or is driven will be by your side to see your success.
The ugliest, stupidest man in the world never has a problem if he has money. But then again, you may want a woman because she loves you and not your money. I am a 50 year old woman. I have known several men who did what you are doing and regret ed not having a relationship and children younger. The problem is that I don't see where you have an option. This may just be where your life is headed...one may have to be sacrificed for the other. You are on the road....I can't see where you can change your road now. Take it as it comes. Do what you have to do. You may meet that special younger woman later on and things will fall into place. Alternatively, if it doesn't happen like that, be sure in your mind that you made that decision and will be content to live with whatever that outcome is. Ultimately, we all do this in one way or another. Life's too short to dwell on regret.
Sorry, not older and married. Of course there's someone for everyone regardless of age. You're definitely going to attract younger women because your're educated with a business and have money. Sorry had to mention money. Calculate how old you're going to be when you have children and as they age. A woman at age 35 becomes highrisk for birth. I'm not saying women can't still birth healthy. Maybe when you find the right woman your priorities might change. The two of you can grow together and grow the business. Don't miss out because you never know what tomorrow brings.