Just take a deep breath and start a conversation. It doesn't matter that you have no ';girlfreinds,'; it just means you haven't felt ready to take that extra step. I 've felt the same way. I've never been accepted into social groups, but the few friends I have are great! But I know I have to make an effort ig I want to meet new people, and so should you! Just this year I got the courage (I'm 15 also) to start talking to a guy, and now he's my best friend. So no matter how nervous you feel, just do it! Talk to somebody! Be someone! The worst is behind you, and if it doesn't work out, don't get discouraged, keep trying!!I'm generally crap with people (especially girls)...advice plz?
its like your my twin because I had the same problem. basically I hanged with my male friends that hanged with their female friends. that way I know someone and still meet more people. try it out it worked for me . grow some balls and try starting conversation.
if you like her get a mate to ask her out or something then just tell her how nice you think she is dont have any chat up lines like your cuter than my pet dog or anything like that MAKE SURE YOU MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!! (kissing) girls HATE it if you dont ok hoped this helped by the way im 13 years old
The thing girls are attracted to in boys are a) the ability to flatter us (well...i do anyway ;P) and b) self confidence. And if you can fake both of them your in my friend! lol!
get out more and try to meet new people
if you know people tend to like you than find one girl that you like somewhere. find ways to see her
make her feel special and also try to get girls as friends
-good luck
Look you're still young and you don't know the things that you will learn 4 years from now. So don't judge yourself because you don't have the experience and the knowledge to execute perfect conversation and relationship. What I tell people is that if you can have real conversation with your parents and family members, you can pretty much do well talking to others. So right now, start discovering yourself and your hobbies. You have to know why you exist and what is your purpose in life. What do you want to do when you are 20 years old.
So basically now it is not the time you should scold yourself. Have fun and choose good friends who encourage you; not those who make fun of you and push you too much.
You sound like me, and I'm a girl! Maybe try asking your friends if they can set you up. And if they decide to help you, before you meet her, think of things you could say to break the silence. It sounds dumb, but practice conversations in your head before it happens. Even if you think you sound stupid, laugh it off. Girls like it when you can laugh at yourself instead of getting embarrassed, cause that's a turn off. If you need to, write down some things you could say like ';What kind of music do you like?'; or ';So what do you do in your spare time?'; If it feels weird, think about it.. Won't it be more weird if you were sharing an awkward silence? Try to make her feel comfortable too, cause she could be just as shy as you.
being at an all boy's school didn't help connection with girls to become natural and maybe you have no sister either? cousins? if you can do some activities where there are some girls, that would help (part time job? art class? nature activity? dancing!! yoga!!painting!! all these last ones have much more girls than guys. ) try a theatre class. this will help your shyness. ask questions about the person you're talking to and listen with real interest and make eyecontact. don't be too fidgetty. don't talk about yourself all the time, nor brag. joking in a simple way is nice and being polite is always good, offering to help someone carry something, to get someone something, to give someone an address, to help with something
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