Having 4 kids makes me know that a lot of other people think are simply not true...Why is it that people that don't have kids have the most parenting advice?
Sometimes when you don't have something, it is easier to cope with it than when you have it. Non-parents sometimes deal with children better. This is the same as a person not going through death in the family have better advises for dealing with the issue than someone who is going to death in the family. It guess it is because non-parents are not burden with the responsibility so they are more free and relax to visualize the situation and thing more freely.Why is it that people that don't have kids have the most parenting advice?
It is totally annoying when they give advice to people when they don't have a true - hands on - experience. It happened to me when I already have two children and I was pregnant at that time with my third and this girl who was dating my friend kept giving me advice of what I needed to do, oh boY! Didn't she sound so professional. But the truth to the matter is - I almost laugh at her - when she was doing that because I have more experience than her.
Don't get me wrong but I think they (those who do not have children) needs to lighten up a little to those who has a kid or more.
Because they don't have kids. They think children actually listen to and do everything we say. Wrong! Even many parents get it wrong sometimes. Most people without kids just don't understand that every child is different and no one can guess what they're thinking.
Because we all grow up with certain ideals that we think would be very easy to achieve if we simply put our minds to it. Plus, it is very easy to see whats wrong with a picture when you are on the outside looking in. When you are in the midst of something - like in my house where I have an energetic two year old and an infant who likes to be held all the time - it is sometimes harder to see the most logical way to solve a problem. Plus, other people's kids are sometimes very difficult to handle and I think we must tell ourselves that we would be better parents because if we didn't, the human race would probably cease to exist. Even now, I can't stand being around screaming crazy kids.
Kids have more tech. They base things on their opinion, kids may be getting more wiser these ages...
Just because people may not have kids of their own does not meant they don't have experience in raising or guiding them. I have no children of my own but have raised children of various ages through 3 marriages and also there are many people in careers or vocations that deal with children as well. To think that just having a birth child gives one experience over someone who does not or cannot have children of their own is very narrowminded in my opinion.
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