What do you think about people who ask for advice - but then can't handle it when you tell them the truth?

I mean ......they even ask what you think they should do - and when you tell them - just because its not the answer they were looking for eg ''ditch the loser'' they choose you as beat answer with a low rating and say ''whatever''....or ''OK'' as in not like what you said to them!





In future should I say ''OK stay with the loser and be miserable'' :-) ?





At least I get 10 points I suppose - but I do get fed up of it!!What do you think about people who ask for advice - but then can't handle it when you tell them the truth?
They cant handle the truth - Jack Nicholson - A Few Good MenWhat do you think about people who ask for advice - but then can't handle it when you tell them the truth?
This is what i say every time a girl like that asks me advice: ';Do whatever you think is best'; or ';pray';. I can be sarcastic at times, but they keep asking you the same question on the same looser dude.
I think they shouldn't ask a question that they don't really want to know the answer to.
Just say, ';hey, your real friends care about you and your guy doesn't so why are you getting angry with me?';
They're *******.
they suck
I think people ask for advice as a result of their ';inner'; being aware yet perhaps not wanting to acknowledge who they are being. A bit deep but try on that we seek advice usually when we can't predict what will be an outcome resulting from choice. Example: Unhappy relationship. Shoud I stay or go? Well if you stay you can pretty much predict the outcome. Unhappy relationship right? But we seek advice because we know we should go, but going is frightening and we can't possibly know what the outcome of going would look like right? And we can't handle it! The action of asking for advice is simply a way to ';gather evidence'; if you will or possible scenerios of what the fearful outcome might ';look like.';


A bit deep yes, but I think we should honor the person who seeks advice as being fearless to even inquire and because of that I think it only fair we respond truthfully and let go of the outcome of our input.





On another note,I'd love your honest input to my question if you can relate. You sound like a person with integrity and compassion. Pyschology %26gt; dealing with jealousy.