Advice about tolerating annoying and judgmental people.. ?

This little problem is driving me crazy...please read this and leave your opinion about it.





I used to be a social person, but now I have become a solitude loving person. I am happy being alone and sometimes interacting with my close circle of friends.I am not comfortable in crowded places, so I avoid parties and gatherings.





But my Sister does not understand this and frequently makes mean and sarcastic comments about my anti-social tendencies. To make maters worse, she is one of those thick headed Christians (who you cannot reason with..), she keeps poking her head into what I'm reading, what I'm listening to ...etc. Now she thinks I'm satanic because I read stuff about other religions.





I try very hard to ignore her comments, but I am always holding myself back, preventing myself from saying something mean.....but I know one of these days I will lose my patience and will say it.....and will hurt her.





How do I make her understand that I am not like her and make her understand that religion/spirituality is a personal thing?





Thank YouAdvice about tolerating annoying and judgmental people.. ?
I know it is hard not to say anything to her, but try to agree with her. What I mean by this is if she says anything about what you are reading or doing and comments on it Like, you know that isn't good for you to do. You say, of course you are right and then do as you like. End of conversation. I'm sure she isn't with you every minute and if she persists on adding more, Just say I told you I agree and change the subject. Or if it comes to you saying something. Just say, I'm a big person now and can make my own decisions of how I feel. Then say, lets change the subject. Try to keep it light. However, if you live in the same house, plan on a argument. try not to be too cruel to her, sibling rivalry can be the pits. and we often say thing we don't really mean, but to outcome can be brutal. God bless you.Advice about tolerating annoying and judgmental people.. ?
The reason is most likely that you are introvert by nature and not extrovert, those who are introverts like to have periods of quiet and solitude which they need to recharge their batteries, there is nothing wrong or abnormal about this and some of the greatest thinkers and authors etc were introverts too.


Perhaps you could try and explain this to your sister or ask her to go online and check both the terms `Introvert and Extrovert` for herself,you know ignorance in social matters can be cleared up with a little knowledge.


God bless.
if you can talk to her, tell her that the way she is acting annoys you, tell her that her behaviour is not what you feel is kind or loving. Some times you need to tell people like that they are being hurtful or they will keep doing it, you sound like your being very kind to her, considering she says she is a Christian, you certainly sound like you are acting for Christ like.
Tell her exactly what you have told us in quite a firm tone. After all, she IS your sister. Plus, by the way you describe her, she has it coming. I can't stand those kind of people. They think that if everyone else isn't living life exactly as they are, its an abomination. Tell her that diversity and free thinking is a good thing.
well act like a lawyer.....be calm nice and convincing, agree with something she says then spin it slightly, just keep doin that.....ican't really help much because i don't know her personally but that usually works with me.....ive personally turned many thick headed christians into open minded athiests and many thick headed athiests into open minded christians.....hate close mindedness
It is hard for me to answer this question. You haven't described what denomination her Christianity is. And, in calling her thick-headed, your own view of her is stereotypical.
Give her the old, Christians are kind and loving, and sarcasm isn't kind or loving speech. If that doesn't stop the sarcasm then just be the bigger person and tell her how you feel before you do something stupid.
Establish your boundaries in no uncertain terms and if she refuses to respect that then treat her like the nut case that she is.
What a mature question : )


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Sorry i have no answear.


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Good luck : )
Tell her the truth or you can smile put on the mute volume and pretend to listen for a very long time.
Don't hold back.
Smile and wave.
there is still a fight with ego here- you are not accepting her for who she is- once you realize that you cannot change her and accept her and remember that she bears a cross for you to see- it is not your cross to bear it is a reminder to you to not be like that- you cannot take on her responsibility to change to be a better person- again just accept it and dont react to it to try to ';change'; or control her into what you think is best for her. She cannot hurt you if you know not to react to her. it is your choice to react to her that will hurt you not her in herself
First of all there are two seperate issues here.





1) You're not socializing as much as you used to. You could be an introvert, but check to see if you have any other symptoms of depression. (I suggest this because it sounds like it's a sudden and new thing)





2) Point out to your sister it's not satanic unless you're studying the church of satan. Most religions practice tolerance, patience, and kindness to family. Being mean in return will only set you back on your spiritual journey. Disengage from the conversation. Tell her ';This topic is no longer open for discussion.';
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NOTE THIS you can use any thing for Good or Bad so, whenever possible If you ask the god for the good reason to give you the ability perfection, because of your obedience, then the God will give you, if the god is good %26amp; Almighty.





If you are humble, Please, Pray to know the truth from true God by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit with great faith.


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Did you make the commitment to find joy in every moment by using your empowering meanings %26amp; conscious focus for the needs of your five senses?


Did you make this promise; I will never going to settle less than I can be?


Do you have the must realistic measurable rules, goals %26amp; best clear image of what you really want in all aspects of your life?


Breaking down your vision into mini-goals %26amp; give must time for it.


Write it down the answers to be more real


The Power is focus, choose wisely


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