HELP PLZ!. THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT TO ME AND IM REALLY CONFUSED. A bunch of people plz respond <3 help/advice?

There is this guy name vince that im like in love with=/, and he said he likes me. well the reason why were not going out is because i got held back so we go to diff schools, and he always has baskeball. But me and vince never really hung out but we talk on myspace like everyday. But now im kinda sad because he dint reply to my message and he stopped talking to me because I told him how my friend Juan is telling me that he said stuff and i dnt know wat to believe and vince had told me that he dosent know anymore about anything. But anyways the problem is..





That I'm trying to figure out if Vince is just having fun right now flirting/hooking up with other girls while he can and that next year he is gonna ask me out or if hes just messing with me and is a player. because it seemed like vince likes me because he compliments, flirts, and had even told me before that he was jealous of me telling this one guy awhile ago that i love him... and he even reads my comments and everything on myspace. But vince had even told me a few times that he would of already asked me out if we were at the same school, but in the beginning of the school year i heard he made out with some girl, and now he is talking to some other girl and he was telling her how she should come to one of his games in trabuco hills.. because i guess he dosen't really see her but he told her how he would want to kiss her on the lips and he was totally flirting with her and she even asked him if he is doing this to impress his basketball friends or cause he wants to? and he said because i like you%26lt;3





And i did thought it was a little messed up because vince got kinda upset because i told a guy that i love him a while ago but look wat he is doing to me? and he dosen't even know i saw the comments because he has them hidden %26amp; and he had even deleted the ones now where she mentioned about him kissing her.


Oh and i forgot to mention that I even asked vince 2 times if he honestly likes me and he said ';i already told you, yes%26lt;3 and when i asked him if he is just saying that he said he wouldn't say it if he dint mean it'; And my friend juan aked vince if he likes me %26amp; he said he dosen't know if he likes me and that vince had said that he would have to wait til i go there first and when he sees me. And Juan had even asked me if i was gonna stay single and wait for vince for next year. But what do u think? is he messing with me or just having fun while he can because of next year? and is there maybe something i can say to him? but it would prbably be better though if i back off dont u think? :/HELP PLZ!. THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT TO ME AND IM REALLY CONFUSED. A bunch of people plz respond %26lt;3 help/advice?
well, i think you should just back off for a while. If you keep questioning him and pressuring him, its kind of like you're a jealous girlfriend. Jealous, maybe.. girlfriend, not yet right?


He sounds like the kind of guy who likes to go after anything he can get and is probably happy to make out or hook up any chance he gets. And if he's telling this other girl he likes her, and he tells you the same thing... is there anyone else he might be saying these things too other than on myspace? msn? email? therese more than one way to communicate.


I say cool off him for a bit. try not being the first one to say something next time, and wait for him to talk to you.. maybe, sadly to say, you may have been just one of his fun flings... or maybe not.


if he keeps telling you he likes you, then telling others he doesnt know, he may just be telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Cool off. Dont question him. And have fun on your own too. Dont make your life revolve around him, its not healthy and he'll just get annoyd and leave for good.





I know it may suck, but consider it. Its your choice in the end.


Good Luck :)HELP PLZ!. THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT TO ME AND IM REALLY CONFUSED. A bunch of people plz respond %26lt;3 help/advice?
he sounds young and immature; just live your life and dont let anything pass you by because of this guy, your not married so dont act like it!
well maybe he does like you but hes those type of guys that like to have fun with more than one...[[jerks...no offense]]


or maybe hes finding someone else...[[that might b why hes not responding]]


but i really think [[cuz he sounds like it]] that he likes to have fun with lots of girls....i mean with what you have said...sounds like too much of a flirter...
My advice is to stop taking things so seriously. Is he a player or not? Everyone is a player at this age. I know young people hate being told how immature they are, and that's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that between the ages of 14-24 is the time of life when everyone is still figuring out who they are, what they like and what they want. It's a time when feelings are strong, and yet fickle. Jealousy, confusion, love, hate, anger, sadness, all change more often than the weather. It's not a good time to look for serious relationships, or to expect a serious relationship. Take life as it comes and spend time with the people you enjoy, spend time doing what you enjoy, don't waste time agonizing over all the unknowns.
go to one of his basket ball games and surprise him by being there


find out who that other girl is and ask her personally if she knows if hes joking around or if he seriously is doing what he says


next year you'll be able to know for sure but for now surprise him and hang out with him


try and talk to him more get to know him better


ask him why would he say those things to the other girl if he says its because he likes you then ask him how is that showing he likes you


sooner or later he'll have to tell you the truth

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