I would like some advice or your thoughts because of idiot evil people?

firstly, your not the only woman who hates the fact they are gaining or have gained weight, i have put on loads lately, i am probably now the right weight for my size but as i have always had a flat stomache and was able to wear short tops and hipster jeans and suddenly i have developed love handles and extra skin on my tummy (i gave birth 2 years ago and can't get rid of it)


I went through a stage of not wanting to go out as i felt ugly and frumpy, all my jeans were too tight etc, but do you know what... i thought sod it, i can sit here worrying how i look or just accept my body as it is, i have a healthy baby girl so every damn stretch mark and the mummy tummy's worth it!


You have to love yourself before you will even believe anyone could love you or find you attractive.


I don't think i know 1 woman who wouldn't like to loose a few pounds try to be happy, theres no point being upset, like i said i know how your feeling, i have my fat days as i call them where i feel horrid, but i have more better days.I would like some advice or your thoughts because of idiot evil people?
You sound like your upset about people being mean to you, yet you are calling someone ugly and dumb and fat?? Maybe you yourself should learn to be nice to others and they may be nice back. Whatever you do in life try to imagine how it affects others, not just yourself.I would like some advice or your thoughts because of idiot evil people?
If you don't wanna hear a range of different answers then don't ask a range of different people.
If someone upsets you, don't share contact information with him. Just take the advice you like and leave the rest.
I would ignore idiot evil people! I believe in Karma, What goes around comes around! :)
People have opinions. If you don't like what they say why post the question in the first place?
Zzz......oh sorry just woken up after reading your essay! look you will not get any sense from people on here .If your feeling down about yourself do something positive about it .7 lbs is nothing and you can easily loose it if you try.Just walk abit more and eat a bit less or eat the good stuff and no bad!Drink loads of water and relax about it.I am sure your very nice but don't let someone you have never met upset you.


Don't try insulting people on here either or you are simply asking for negative comments! Switch of your PC and go have a long soak and pamper yourself.....its far more constructive.
Couldya BE any more vague?
If you were not prepared for responses you should not have made the posting.


Your comments are rather unkind, which suggests you do not object to cruel comments unless they are made at you.


Value yourself, and stop worrying about others' views.
Perhaps report these 'idiots' on here and stop them from doing it and teach them a bit of a lesson because theres no reason why u shouldnt. Also, if u have put on a bit of weight, ignore these negative comments and see them as even more of a reason to overcome this negativity and prove them wrong. Ur better than them!
Just ignore the evil people, I'm sure you are very nice and how can people say you are not if they don't know you.
Dont hand out your 360 address or any other email address to anyone until you feel comfortable doing so and certainly don't let other people know that you have been riled by their comments. It will only make them more antagonistic.
first eat the veggies and second ignore idiotic evil people