Relationship dilemma and need advice on how to present it to other people.?

Me %26amp; my ex broke up a 1 1/2 ago. We dated for 10 yrs. It was a bad breakup and his family %26amp; friends were happy for him that we weren't together because we fought so much. We recently just started talking to each other again for about a month as friends. Then we realized that we still have romantic feelings for each other. We have both matured a lot and we have seen therapists and worked out our feelings and of the sort. We want to get back together. However, his problem is how he is going to tell his parents and friends of his new status. Since I don't have a lot of family nor friends, this is no problem for me. He is very tight with his family and he has a lot of friends. He fears that his family will reject our relationship and he will lose friends. We spoke to the therapist about it %26amp; he told my ex he has to stand up for himself.





My question is what exactly should he say or do to his family and his friends? What should I do in the meantime?Relationship dilemma and need advice on how to present it to other people.?
You shouldn't do anything. If he is close to his family, he probably knows best how to talk to them. If you both really have worked things out, they will see that in time, but don't confuse romantic feelings w/true compatability. But, to answer your ??, he might say something like, '; I know we had our fair share of problems, but Anna and I have talked about all of it and have decided to give it another try. It would mean a lot to us if you could keep an open mind about this.'; Other than that, I don't think he/you should discuss any details w/anybody; better to keep that between the two of you. good luck.Relationship dilemma and need advice on how to present it to other people.?
It depends.





Real friends and family who really care about him, might see this as a match made in hell and tell him the truth rather than sit idly by and watch you both ruin your lives.