I was really good friends with this guy and we messed around. Friction started and he asked for time after i apologized. I waited two whole months and called to see how he was doin. He acted really cool and than i seen him again cuz we hang out at the same place and he acted distant but did say hi. I called him and asked him if he was still mad and he said no, im okay. I than asked him if we can be friends again or do i have to wait longer. He laughed and said he would call me next week. Why did he laugh and if he didn't want to be my friend again than what could he have said.Plz answer i need help from you smart people. you always give good advice.?
Get LostPlz answer i need help from you smart people. you always give good advice.?
He laughed because he figured out you still like him or possibily have feelings for him. He didn't turn you down because he's probably considerate and don't want to hurt your feelings.
If he didn't want to be your friends, he would've probably said something like.. i have a girl, and i dont know if she would mind... or maybe idk i'll have to think about it'; well yes those are the possible things he could've said to you.
maybe he laughed bc he was over the incident and meant ';of course we can be friends';. That is how I would take it. i think, i never had a guy laugh in my face though lol
im going to say either he is truelly a jerk at heart or you hurt him and now hes trying to keep from being hurt more by giving you the cold shoulder and trying to make you feel bad about yourself
Try not to over analyze. See how things go.
If he calls, he wants to stay friends. Yay!
If he doesn't, he couldn't be just freinds because you're stunningly attractive and you drive him wild with passion and pain. Yay!
Either way, it's all good. :)
Seems like whatever you did really turned him off to you. Just give it time, keep in touch with him, if he wants to continue your friendship it'l happen.
I wouldn't sweat it. If he laughed and says everyhtings ok then don't keep asking him it only pushes him away. Just call in a few days make plans for lunch or something and leave it at that. Don't keep talking about it it only makes thins really akward. If hes moved past it you should to. good luck.
Sounds like he's beating around the bush and doesn't want to tell you he doesn't want to be friends anymore.
women are so complicated
it sounds like it was one of those laughs that mean dont worry about it were cool. if he didnt want to be your friend then he wouldnt even bother with you
Honestly because he probabley doesnt think its as big a deal as your making it, We men can get over things pretty quickly....Invite him out, thats the real test.
dunno wasn't there. He probably was just laughing nervously because it is a tough subject... easier to laugh it off and say ';ill call you'; then to get all touchy feely you know. I am sure all is well my friend.
maybe he found someone else. don't know why he laughed, but if he didn't want to be friends again, he would have told you to back off and leave him alone. or maybe he laughed cuz he thought you knew that you would always be friends no matter what. (if you get what i mean...hopefully). hope this helps.
he may have laughed because, in his mind, it's your fault your not friends... so he thought it was weird that you asked ';or do i have to wait longer?';
but idk.
you can ask him why he was distant
you're trying too hard to pursue him and he's not into you, nor does he care to keep a friendship with you...sorry babe, just move on
he laughed because he probably thought the question and your anxiousness was cute.
trust me, if a guy didn't want to be your friend, he'd find a way out of it. you should read He's Just Not That Into You - it's short and funny and really helps you understand =)
therapists help pplz like you. Go to one
OK DONT WORRY
everything is fine
=) take a deep breath =)
ok so i have to remember im not teaching you cpr..=)lol
anyways just dont mind any attention to him because then guys get jerked off and they think they r all that
pretend u dont rly care ..and then hell start callin u ok?
he could have not laughed and would have asked for more time..yeah but just follow my advice and youll be fine..ok
good luck///////////////=)
just like any smart person would say ';E=MC^2';
He doesnt want to be your friend because he is thinking of being something more duh! You dont get it he likes you but he is too dum to admit it just wait and see what happens
hes only trying to get in ur pants just make him work for it and if hes hot....
i no some1 who was really good friends with this lad and they were like glue best of friends they got together and everything fell apart from there they never really talked after he though it was to weird but she said it was the worst thing she did cuz now they dont have a friendship or anything eles..... he is prob acting like this because he just doesnt wanna talk to you right now he might come around and then he might not .... i think your being a bit silly ringing him up asking can you be friends again you should no it usually works it self out...hes playing you if i had anything to say about it...
He is a joke. This guy doesn't want you he laughed bc he knew you wanted that. That's why he didn't call you or approach u the way you wanted him to.
He is playing games and probably isnt old enough to really value wht you have anyway. Move ON!
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