NEED ADVICE FROM VERY EXPERIENCE BI/GAY PEOPLE? (VERY LONG)?

well basically my question is would a guy whom i barely even know, who i just seen once, and on that same day we met wanted to make out and have sex, be a guy who just wants sex, and pleasure? or could it be a guy who just had in impulse and could be a guy who i can be with?





well heres the story if you dont bother reading the whole thing...





well i just recently found myself being bi-curious, bout few months ago, between those months, this guy who added me on myspace(he was cute! lol) sent me a friend request, so yeah i added him blah blah, we talked and you know, i thought he was straight and was just trying to be my friend, but a couple weeks later we chatted, then finally he came out sayin he was bi-curious, and i said so was i, so he gave me his phone number and stuff so we could text(he barely texted me by the way, lol). we talked abour relationships and stuff and about like if we were ever going to be a THING, he said i dont know yet i have to get to know you first and stuff, i asked him if he was a virgin he said no, he dont it with boys and girls, i said dont matter to me,blah blah yeah we would text every now and then, i said i wanted to see him, he said sure, we was picking places and stuff then i said wait man i cant leave the house im grounded, wont you come to my house then?he said ok, he lived 40 minutes away from me, which was surprsing cause i thought he wouldnt, so when he got to my house, i ddidnt know what the hell to do so i brought him to the living room, watched tv for 1 minute(seriously) then i said well what do you want to do, he said i dont know, so i was like well do you want to go to my room? he said ok, then we went to my room then we just sat there, then he said ';have you ever kissed a guy before?'; i said no, so he came at me and just kissed me, then suddenly we just started making out and stuff, couple minutes of making out then he was trying to get in my pants, i was like doode wait im not ready yet, he said its ok its ok, im like no doode, i was like pulling him up and stuff, he said its ok, but then i pulled him up and i jusst started kissing him again, then he forced his way back down my pants again and pulled it down and started giving me a *******, im like doode man, so blah blah blah, my parents came then i had to kick him out, he gave me a good bye kiss... the end





HELP?








p.s. good things about him: (the things he said and done)


- i dont need sex in a relationship but i know ill have to do it with him along the way.


- dont worry i will take care of you(we was talking about if we were going to be a thing in the future)


- he was going to drive 40 minutes just to see me....


- he has a future infront of him, he knows hhis goals and his really good in school and very outgoing and does alot of activities(maybe to busy for me)





BAD THINGS ABOUT HIM:


- never replies to my text


- doesnt like to talk on phone


- ignored me through text and myspace after that day....


blah lbha this is too long alaready,.. lmaoNEED ADVICE FROM VERY EXPERIENCE BI/GAY PEOPLE? (VERY LONG)?
He has a conflict between his desire for sexual experience with a guy (he craves this very badly), and his self-image or reputation. He is in denial, but really he does want sex with you.





I doubt if it would go into a long-term relationship. But he does think you are hot and if you suggested being naked together he'd be back.





I think he's not ready to be out, and not ready for a boyfriend, but he does want the sexy stuff.NEED ADVICE FROM VERY EXPERIENCE BI/GAY PEOPLE? (VERY LONG)?
You should be free to do what other consider not to be normal. Do it. You sound confused. Dont be.
It's pretty clear that he wanted quick and easy non-committal sex with you, and lost interest with you when he didn't get it. He's told you that he is completely unavailable, and analyzing the situation is a waste of your time. Start looking elsewhere.





What did you expect, though? The vast majority of guys seeking to meet other guys on the internet are interested specifically in quick and easy casual sex.





If you're interested in more, you're basically wasting your time looking on the internet.





See my answer to this question for meeting tons of cool eligible guys that are better candidates for a steady relationship:





http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>





Hope this helps.





Good luck!
i was kind of in a similiar spot before.. my guess would just be to listen to him. if he says nothing can go on then i'm sure nothing will. but at least try to maintain a friendship with him and see where things can go later on.. just relax, and don't worry about it so much. try experimenting with other boys and see how it goes. good luck!
Well don't worry about it, maybe he just likes you for sex, you never know, or maybe he himself is new to being gay, just give him a chance or maybe dump him
He is just as confused as you are. He sought you out so that he could hide from his friends and try to have sex with a stranger to cover his tracks. He was happy to drive that 40 minutes to see you . In the long run you will be better off if you find you a more long term guy. This guy will be fine for sex but that is likely to be the extent of your relationship.