think about it....you see it al the time on those talk shows, such as tyra banks.
i used to hear it from people struggling to keep a relationship all the time or have a good/safe sex life.....and although i know about these subjects, i find it somewhat bizzarre to see people like that give advice.
oh well. we all have a$ses, so that means we all have an opinion.
AaronDoesnt it seem like people who try to give advice about sex/relationships have trouble with it the most?
they are the best one's to give advice so they can tell you what not do do maybe me and you should hook up i'm sure your singleDoesnt it seem like people who try to give advice about sex/relationships have trouble with it the most?
i only take advice from people in loving and successful relationships.
You's a Cracka
Yes. I'm the one who gives the advice to my friends on boyfriend/girfriend probs but I've never been in a relationship. My advice is good though. It usually works.
Well the one who teaches you....have those kind of issues...but not necessarily...someone from their good experience give you tips how to be happy.
Its probably true.
yeah.. so at least they can give advice on what NOT to do lol
yeah that's tru?
why give advice if your struggling to maintain your own relationship?
I think some people who give advice about sex or relations are experienced people who know how to solve the problems but are not able to use that in the right way for themselves ...
maybe
I agree completely. people with poor sex lives are the ones researching the topic with upmost attention. Their explanations sound great, but don't neccessarily work out in the real world. thats why experience is always superior!
Friday, April 30, 2010
GUY problems Please help (people I need lots of advice dont be afraid to answer more th en 1nce i dont mind )?
Ok i like this guy named josh he is like my best friend though and i like him alot i sont know how to tell him or how to show him i need to know should I go for it and ask him out of should i not risk it and never know ?GUY problems Please help (people I need lots of advice dont be afraid to answer more th en 1nce i dont mind )?
You can still reap the benefits of a relationship with out the possessiveness label of boyfriend / girlfriend.
Don't take a chance on ruining what is already constructed, simply add to it.
If it turns out to be real love neither of you will be able to stop it.GUY problems Please help (people I need lots of advice dont be afraid to answer more th en 1nce i dont mind )?
If you are good friends you should really just be honest with him and he will understand one way or the other. Just be truthful and tell him you like him. If he doesn't like you back, he will understand that you are human and as such inherantly have an attraction which you cannot control. If he doesn't like you, you guys can go from there with your firendship and if he does, then you can take it from there with your more than friendship. I understand it is difficult, but the best thing to do is just to tell him.
ttly ask him out!
he will most likely say yes,
so i would ask him out!
believe me i know these things!
if he likes u back he will say yes!]
if he doesnt then dont be sad!
you should just risk it
RISK IT!! live life to the fullest, you could be together forever or you could mess things up..........do it! im telling you there is no point of living life if you dont take a chance %26lt;3 goodluck
**hugs**refill
You can still reap the benefits of a relationship with out the possessiveness label of boyfriend / girlfriend.
Don't take a chance on ruining what is already constructed, simply add to it.
If it turns out to be real love neither of you will be able to stop it.GUY problems Please help (people I need lots of advice dont be afraid to answer more th en 1nce i dont mind )?
If you are good friends you should really just be honest with him and he will understand one way or the other. Just be truthful and tell him you like him. If he doesn't like you back, he will understand that you are human and as such inherantly have an attraction which you cannot control. If he doesn't like you, you guys can go from there with your firendship and if he does, then you can take it from there with your more than friendship. I understand it is difficult, but the best thing to do is just to tell him.
ttly ask him out!
he will most likely say yes,
so i would ask him out!
believe me i know these things!
if he likes u back he will say yes!]
if he doesnt then dont be sad!
you should just risk it
RISK IT!! live life to the fullest, you could be together forever or you could mess things up..........do it! im telling you there is no point of living life if you dont take a chance %26lt;3 goodluck
**hugs**
Need advice for my married life...? serious people please?
i m living a 4 years old married life now a days my wife quarrel so much on financial issues, yesterday we had a very harsh argument just because i spent 1000 bucks last month without telling her.Need advice for my married life...? serious people please?
You spent a thousand dollars without talking it over with her???? She should have been mad at you then! That is a BIG NO-NO!Need advice for my married life...? serious people please?
If you guys are trying to save money for some reason than you should have consulted with her 1st before you spent it.
$1000 and you didn't tell her? You and I would have had MORE than a harsh argument. I'd have kicked your ***. I'm definitely with her on that one.
it would depend on what my husband bought or did, we don't really argue about finances, but no, I would be ticked off about $1000.
Is that a lot of money for you two? If so, then it's something you should consult her with before spending. It's a courtesy that will keep the quarrels to a minimum. What did you spend the cash on?
Everyone quarrels over money. It is true! Sit down and try to have a calm conversation and make out a budget on what needs to be paid and the money you have to play with for luxury. Split the luxury money down the middle and that will be your share. That way there is no complaint on what you spent YOUR amount on. It would be you choice. If things are out of hand take a breather from life. You both go away to a remote place..separate and sort out your thoughts. Good luck.
I think you need to apologize. Marriage is sharing everything. Try to talk %26amp; tell her that you dont like her late behaviour of arguing on everything try to solve this %26amp; do your best to save your couple.
Wish you all the best
If you keep going the way your going I see divorce in your future. What would you spend a grand on? If you thought you were doing the right thing you would have told your wife. Better start comunicating or you won't have a wife. The 2 biggest things that break up any marrage is #1 sex and #2 money.
JUST 1k....well considering i dont know what you are raking in as a monthly income, and dont know if you have a lot of bills, or kids, i dont know whether you have that kind of money to blow. If you do have money to blow, then maybe she is a control freak and you need to sit down and discuss that with her. If you have other obligations and responsibilities such as kids, or a lot of bills, then you should not be recklessly splurging on things you dont need. I noticed you didnt mentino what you baught. That has a lot to do with it too. Did you buy a washer and dryer bc yours was broken?? Or a play station with 12 games. Women like responsible and reliable men. I guarentee you she is trying to build stability, a safty net with the money she is trying to save, just bc it is in there doesnt mean you need to spend it. also, is your wife a spender??? I believe (being married myself) that you should set some boundaries, that way the line is never crossed. You should decide on an ammount to discuss with your spouse that is an ';asking ammount'; like anything over 100$ we ask eachother, that way the other one isnt spending the same ammount if that is all you have in the account andyou go under. It is about boundaries, respect, and the fact that you include her in what you decide on, a lot of that fight i guarentee you had nothing to do with the money, it was that you didnt ask her, she wants to be included. A women will use a topic to argue about something that really means something to her, with hidden messages inside, for some reason women expect men to read between the lines and catch on, but they dont, so women need to work on that. But back to the point.....you were wrong, ask before you spend large ammounts!!
GL
Dunkaroo
Look if you don't really have a extra $1ooo.oo to spend then she has a good reason to be mad. And if your and her agreement is that you discuss your financial with each other and you didn't she has right to be mad too. So own up to it. You need to read proper care of marriage by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger and both of you need to read it.
I just have one question. How would you respond if she went to the mall, and came home with $1000 worth the merchandise, and didn't say a word to you about it?
I think it's fair when you're married for you BOTH to discuss money, especially if you're going to spend that amount of money.
Whatever is hers is yours,whatever is yours is hers.SO i would tell her next time you go spending your guys's Money. WHAT did you BUy??
';Just because you have spent 1000 bucks';? I am not quite sure I understand your question. How much money are you making that makes a 1000 bucks worth hardly anything to you? For most people that does represent something and doing your own business on your own may not be the best way to share life with your wife. Does she spend the same amounts freely without you knowing? Would you mind her doing that and would your finances cope with this?
Guess you forgot the question part but if your going to spend money why not tell her. And tell her your going to spend it anyway but your just letting her know about it. You and her need to talk and both of you'll need to agree on letting the other know when your going to spend a set amount of money and why? Also need to set up a budget and make sure it's done first before spending extra money. But without communication you and her will always agrue. So both of you'll sit down and discuss the situation together, without yelling or fighting because it isn't helping anything.
What did you spend the money on and why didn't you tell her?
I'm not sure I believe this is a serious question. I find it hard to believe that anyone would be surprised that their spouse was upset that they spend $1000 - Unless you're rich or something.
I'd have a freakin coronary if my husband spent that much on himself without telling me. If you consistently spend your money like this, I'm not at all surprised that you argue about it a lot. Your wife has a lot to be pissed at you about.
well everyone argues over issues weather married or not.But you should have told her that because the marriage and everything that comes with it is part of both of you,You can't do anything with out asking your partner especially about money.
You spent $1000 without telling your wife, and you wonder why your having problems?? For starters, spend less money..(unless you spent it on bills or some payment). And tell your wife if your going to spend an amount like that! That is a lot of money...if I was her I'd be pretty mad too. Try marraige counseling. good luck
Why on God's green earth would you spend that much money without discussing it with our partner. I think that you do not have any respect for her, and she will be better off without you.
Well your first mistake was spending that kind of money without her knowledge. You should know by now that you have no mine money everything is shared so when you spend money like this and do not tell her she feels you are stealing from the financial structure of the household.
Really you need to stop keeping secrets from your wife everything must be communicated together as a couple
especially finances. When you marry having seperate accounts is just not right you have a joint account and everything that is spent is discussed first. If I were her I would take your head off too a grand is no small amount of cash.
Dude never spend money without telling. Because if you have finacial issues than you can be spending money like that. Im 12 and i know this....you should toooooo!
Your wife doesn't want collectors knocking at her door repossessing her life because you overspend. It is quite obvious YOU should not have gotten married. You have no sense of responsiblity.
Open up the communication and you wont have this problem. By the way I would love to be able to say that I spent 1000 dollars without telling anyone, making it seem like it wasnt a big deal.
The point is that you did something she obviously has a control issue with, which usually women are the ones that have that problem. They just want to be notified so that if something happens and needs immediate attention, she knows she has the money available.
you both need to agree on what money is being spent over 20 bucks. there's probably been some well she does this and so I'm going to do that. Don't do it. provide an example and you both will stop.
you should never spend money until consulting your other half. of course that would lead to an argument. what if she did that, you would be pissed. put your tail between your legs and apologize. and talk it out before spending money like that again.
The crunch is getting to us all . Don't worry be happy.
So what would you like us to tell you? Spend less money? Make more money? What do you need help with?
You spent a thousand dollars without talking it over with her???? She should have been mad at you then! That is a BIG NO-NO!Need advice for my married life...? serious people please?
If you guys are trying to save money for some reason than you should have consulted with her 1st before you spent it.
$1000 and you didn't tell her? You and I would have had MORE than a harsh argument. I'd have kicked your ***. I'm definitely with her on that one.
it would depend on what my husband bought or did, we don't really argue about finances, but no, I would be ticked off about $1000.
Is that a lot of money for you two? If so, then it's something you should consult her with before spending. It's a courtesy that will keep the quarrels to a minimum. What did you spend the cash on?
Everyone quarrels over money. It is true! Sit down and try to have a calm conversation and make out a budget on what needs to be paid and the money you have to play with for luxury. Split the luxury money down the middle and that will be your share. That way there is no complaint on what you spent YOUR amount on. It would be you choice. If things are out of hand take a breather from life. You both go away to a remote place..separate and sort out your thoughts. Good luck.
I think you need to apologize. Marriage is sharing everything. Try to talk %26amp; tell her that you dont like her late behaviour of arguing on everything try to solve this %26amp; do your best to save your couple.
Wish you all the best
If you keep going the way your going I see divorce in your future. What would you spend a grand on? If you thought you were doing the right thing you would have told your wife. Better start comunicating or you won't have a wife. The 2 biggest things that break up any marrage is #1 sex and #2 money.
JUST 1k....well considering i dont know what you are raking in as a monthly income, and dont know if you have a lot of bills, or kids, i dont know whether you have that kind of money to blow. If you do have money to blow, then maybe she is a control freak and you need to sit down and discuss that with her. If you have other obligations and responsibilities such as kids, or a lot of bills, then you should not be recklessly splurging on things you dont need. I noticed you didnt mentino what you baught. That has a lot to do with it too. Did you buy a washer and dryer bc yours was broken?? Or a play station with 12 games. Women like responsible and reliable men. I guarentee you she is trying to build stability, a safty net with the money she is trying to save, just bc it is in there doesnt mean you need to spend it. also, is your wife a spender??? I believe (being married myself) that you should set some boundaries, that way the line is never crossed. You should decide on an ammount to discuss with your spouse that is an ';asking ammount'; like anything over 100$ we ask eachother, that way the other one isnt spending the same ammount if that is all you have in the account andyou go under. It is about boundaries, respect, and the fact that you include her in what you decide on, a lot of that fight i guarentee you had nothing to do with the money, it was that you didnt ask her, she wants to be included. A women will use a topic to argue about something that really means something to her, with hidden messages inside, for some reason women expect men to read between the lines and catch on, but they dont, so women need to work on that. But back to the point.....you were wrong, ask before you spend large ammounts!!
GL
Dunkaroo
Look if you don't really have a extra $1ooo.oo to spend then she has a good reason to be mad. And if your and her agreement is that you discuss your financial with each other and you didn't she has right to be mad too. So own up to it. You need to read proper care of marriage by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger and both of you need to read it.
I just have one question. How would you respond if she went to the mall, and came home with $1000 worth the merchandise, and didn't say a word to you about it?
I think it's fair when you're married for you BOTH to discuss money, especially if you're going to spend that amount of money.
Whatever is hers is yours,whatever is yours is hers.SO i would tell her next time you go spending your guys's Money. WHAT did you BUy??
';Just because you have spent 1000 bucks';? I am not quite sure I understand your question. How much money are you making that makes a 1000 bucks worth hardly anything to you? For most people that does represent something and doing your own business on your own may not be the best way to share life with your wife. Does she spend the same amounts freely without you knowing? Would you mind her doing that and would your finances cope with this?
Guess you forgot the question part but if your going to spend money why not tell her. And tell her your going to spend it anyway but your just letting her know about it. You and her need to talk and both of you'll need to agree on letting the other know when your going to spend a set amount of money and why? Also need to set up a budget and make sure it's done first before spending extra money. But without communication you and her will always agrue. So both of you'll sit down and discuss the situation together, without yelling or fighting because it isn't helping anything.
What did you spend the money on and why didn't you tell her?
I'm not sure I believe this is a serious question. I find it hard to believe that anyone would be surprised that their spouse was upset that they spend $1000 - Unless you're rich or something.
I'd have a freakin coronary if my husband spent that much on himself without telling me. If you consistently spend your money like this, I'm not at all surprised that you argue about it a lot. Your wife has a lot to be pissed at you about.
well everyone argues over issues weather married or not.But you should have told her that because the marriage and everything that comes with it is part of both of you,You can't do anything with out asking your partner especially about money.
You spent $1000 without telling your wife, and you wonder why your having problems?? For starters, spend less money..(unless you spent it on bills or some payment). And tell your wife if your going to spend an amount like that! That is a lot of money...if I was her I'd be pretty mad too. Try marraige counseling. good luck
Why on God's green earth would you spend that much money without discussing it with our partner. I think that you do not have any respect for her, and she will be better off without you.
Well your first mistake was spending that kind of money without her knowledge. You should know by now that you have no mine money everything is shared so when you spend money like this and do not tell her she feels you are stealing from the financial structure of the household.
Really you need to stop keeping secrets from your wife everything must be communicated together as a couple
especially finances. When you marry having seperate accounts is just not right you have a joint account and everything that is spent is discussed first. If I were her I would take your head off too a grand is no small amount of cash.
Dude never spend money without telling. Because if you have finacial issues than you can be spending money like that. Im 12 and i know this....you should toooooo!
Your wife doesn't want collectors knocking at her door repossessing her life because you overspend. It is quite obvious YOU should not have gotten married. You have no sense of responsiblity.
Open up the communication and you wont have this problem. By the way I would love to be able to say that I spent 1000 dollars without telling anyone, making it seem like it wasnt a big deal.
The point is that you did something she obviously has a control issue with, which usually women are the ones that have that problem. They just want to be notified so that if something happens and needs immediate attention, she knows she has the money available.
you both need to agree on what money is being spent over 20 bucks. there's probably been some well she does this and so I'm going to do that. Don't do it. provide an example and you both will stop.
you should never spend money until consulting your other half. of course that would lead to an argument. what if she did that, you would be pissed. put your tail between your legs and apologize. and talk it out before spending money like that again.
The crunch is getting to us all . Don't worry be happy.
So what would you like us to tell you? Spend less money? Make more money? What do you need help with?
Im in a bit of a fix her people i really need some advice!?
this is really confuseing a friend is really sad because he got dumped but i found out from her he was cheating and then he said she was cheating and who should i belive ther both my friends and i dont know whos side to go on plz help =(Im in a bit of a fix her people i really need some advice!?
Tell them both you don't want to be in the middle of things and you really don't feel comfortable taking sides... You don't want to jeopardize your friendships...Im in a bit of a fix her people i really need some advice!?
do not get involved you will lose both friends. let them work it out.
Tell them both you don't want to be in the middle of things and you really don't feel comfortable taking sides... You don't want to jeopardize your friendships...Im in a bit of a fix her people i really need some advice!?
do not get involved you will lose both friends. let them work it out.
Going camping in the snow for a night or two. need advice please. there will be 3 or 4 people?
If you are all novices and haven't camped before in a tent.....
Make a fire away from all your tents. The fire pit will warm the ground, melt all the snow, and make everything around the fire pit turn into mud. You don't need that crap by where you sleep. Make the fire 25 feet away from your tent at least.
Stay dry, put a tarp under and over your tent. If it starts sleeting and you don't have water protection, you are going to be miserable. Also, you body heat will warm up the ground where you sleep, melting the snow. If you don't have a tarp on the ground, you may wake up miserable.
Extra socks and shoes. Keeping you feet dry is the key.
If you get cold, go for a walk. Moving around will heat you up.
Don't go camping to impress. Don't go out there with a nice pair of jeans, some stylish boots, and a nice jacket that won't do **** to keep you warm. Dress to stay warm. Your in the woods, who the hell cares what kind of clothes your wearing, at least your warm.
Bring some wood of your own. All the wood out there will be wet or close to it. Bring some starter wood, and enough to last for a few hours. Then start throwing on some wet wood you find and it will burn nice on a good fire with lots of coals. If you don't bring some wood of your own, you will be cold and fireless.
Make sure at least one person knows what the hell they are doing. Going camping in winter is nice, but if you get in trouble - keep a cool head, and think logically.Going camping in the snow for a night or two. need advice please. there will be 3 or 4 people?
dress warm wear clothes in layers bring warm boots with lots of dry socks bring food that wont freeze a good solid mountain tent is best and if you dont have winter sleeping bags put one inside the other and bring lots of blankets make sure all your cook stuff ie stoves work in the cold before you leave. the most important thing is to stay warm and DRY have funGoing camping in the snow for a night or two. need advice please. there will be 3 or 4 people?
Cool! This is one of the very few times where a campfire will be worth it! Bring lots of sleeping bags, blankets, candles, matches. Soap too. Bottled water and canned food! Have fun!
Make a fire away from all your tents. The fire pit will warm the ground, melt all the snow, and make everything around the fire pit turn into mud. You don't need that crap by where you sleep. Make the fire 25 feet away from your tent at least.
Stay dry, put a tarp under and over your tent. If it starts sleeting and you don't have water protection, you are going to be miserable. Also, you body heat will warm up the ground where you sleep, melting the snow. If you don't have a tarp on the ground, you may wake up miserable.
Extra socks and shoes. Keeping you feet dry is the key.
If you get cold, go for a walk. Moving around will heat you up.
Don't go camping to impress. Don't go out there with a nice pair of jeans, some stylish boots, and a nice jacket that won't do **** to keep you warm. Dress to stay warm. Your in the woods, who the hell cares what kind of clothes your wearing, at least your warm.
Bring some wood of your own. All the wood out there will be wet or close to it. Bring some starter wood, and enough to last for a few hours. Then start throwing on some wet wood you find and it will burn nice on a good fire with lots of coals. If you don't bring some wood of your own, you will be cold and fireless.
Make sure at least one person knows what the hell they are doing. Going camping in winter is nice, but if you get in trouble - keep a cool head, and think logically.Going camping in the snow for a night or two. need advice please. there will be 3 or 4 people?
dress warm wear clothes in layers bring warm boots with lots of dry socks bring food that wont freeze a good solid mountain tent is best and if you dont have winter sleeping bags put one inside the other and bring lots of blankets make sure all your cook stuff ie stoves work in the cold before you leave. the most important thing is to stay warm and DRY have funGoing camping in the snow for a night or two. need advice please. there will be 3 or 4 people?
Cool! This is one of the very few times where a campfire will be worth it! Bring lots of sleeping bags, blankets, candles, matches. Soap too. Bottled water and canned food! Have fun!
My job laid off a lot of people including me, tell me your advice?
I'm a little ticked off, wait.. I'm really really angry! The first lay off I was kept here for my exceeding production goal! Yeah, I'm a great worker, I know that nobody here know's my job as well as I do at this point. They need me! But only until I teach everything to someone else. We were told there would NOT be another lay off. But soon enough... with the economy so bad, they laid off practically the whole company except 48 people. The people that got laid off and asked to leave that day, they are lucky! They get paid until April! Me.. well I'm unfortunate. I was asked to stay until May but after May, I don't get any sort of severance pay or whatever you would like to call it. So I'm basically STUCK here until they kick me out. I'm so angry, and I really just want to get up and leave, tell them I QUIT. I'm only here till May, and I have everything thrown at me because most of the girls that did my job are gone. I'm over welmed and ready to leave. What is your advice, should I ride it out and stay here, or should I just leave, and collect unemployment till I find a job?My job laid off a lot of people including me, tell me your advice?
If you quit you cannot collect unemployment. Looking for employment
is very difficult considering everyone is laying off or about too. If I were you I would be looking in the medical field. People are always sick and with this economy people are getting sicker. Consider getting an
associate degree in nursing. You can be an RN making big money with job security. If that's out of the question try working on your own,
even if it's mowing lawns and a morning paper route. GOOD LUCK.My job laid off a lot of people including me, tell me your advice?
if you quit, you don't get unemployment.
What you need to do is ask for a ';retention bonus';. These are typically given to people who are asked to stay in cases like yours - the good employees who are needed to either help save the company or close the doors. What you ask for should be at least as much as the severance the other people received or more. If mgmt accepts to pay you this bonus, you guarantee that you will stay until May.
If you offer this and it's not accepted, you are free to start looking for another job. You can look for another job while you have this position.
No you don't want to quit. But if you get fired for taking time off work for interviews etc, I would think that you could be eligible for unemployment.
Unemployment is at 7.6% nationwide and in some places 10%+. There are still jobs out there you just have to be patient to find them (the stat is for every $15K you expect to earn will need to should spend 6 weeks looking for a job - $30K would be 12 weeks, etc). The best way to find a new job is through networking with professional and personal contacts.
If you quit, you do not qualify for unemployment. Consider yourself lucky to still have a job.
I was laid off last year, we had 3 teams in my department, CS, Data Entry, and Design. I worked with the design team, they laid off the CS team, paid them an extra month of work (which was when the company would shut down), plus another 2 weeks of severance pay. I got stuck having to work the other month that was left, because I was the only one that knew how to fix all the problems, and do the work of 6 different people myself. IF THEY ARE NOT GOING TO GIVE YOU A SEVERANCE PAY, then QUIT. They have no consideration for you, why would you have any for them. I did not quit mine because I did needed the money, it was little, but being a single mom I needed all the money I could take. But if I was you and knew they are not going to give me anything I would have left the same day, just get up and leave. Period. I did not get any unemployment benefits either so I know what you are talking about.
Your story sounds just like mine, same same. Talk to HR again and double check to make sure they are NOT going to give any pay before you quit thou. You know my company was only supposed to pay me 2 weeks severance pay, and after I left I got the paperwork with the great news that I got actually 4, which I think it was a way for the company to thank me for staying and helping, so think about, then make a decision and stick to it. I cried when I got laid off, because I loved my job, but life goes on, and eventually you will find something else. Staying the extra month there made me really depressed and there was not even one day that I wanted to get up and leave, maybe it would have been a good idea, but I would never know. I can tell you that once everything was done and I was gone, I felt a lot better from not being there anymore.
you can't collect unemployment if you quit , you will have to wait until you are officially layed off
If you quit you cannot collect unemployment. Looking for employment
is very difficult considering everyone is laying off or about too. If I were you I would be looking in the medical field. People are always sick and with this economy people are getting sicker. Consider getting an
associate degree in nursing. You can be an RN making big money with job security. If that's out of the question try working on your own,
even if it's mowing lawns and a morning paper route. GOOD LUCK.My job laid off a lot of people including me, tell me your advice?
if you quit, you don't get unemployment.
What you need to do is ask for a ';retention bonus';. These are typically given to people who are asked to stay in cases like yours - the good employees who are needed to either help save the company or close the doors. What you ask for should be at least as much as the severance the other people received or more. If mgmt accepts to pay you this bonus, you guarantee that you will stay until May.
If you offer this and it's not accepted, you are free to start looking for another job. You can look for another job while you have this position.
No you don't want to quit. But if you get fired for taking time off work for interviews etc, I would think that you could be eligible for unemployment.
Unemployment is at 7.6% nationwide and in some places 10%+. There are still jobs out there you just have to be patient to find them (the stat is for every $15K you expect to earn will need to should spend 6 weeks looking for a job - $30K would be 12 weeks, etc). The best way to find a new job is through networking with professional and personal contacts.
If you quit, you do not qualify for unemployment. Consider yourself lucky to still have a job.
I was laid off last year, we had 3 teams in my department, CS, Data Entry, and Design. I worked with the design team, they laid off the CS team, paid them an extra month of work (which was when the company would shut down), plus another 2 weeks of severance pay. I got stuck having to work the other month that was left, because I was the only one that knew how to fix all the problems, and do the work of 6 different people myself. IF THEY ARE NOT GOING TO GIVE YOU A SEVERANCE PAY, then QUIT. They have no consideration for you, why would you have any for them. I did not quit mine because I did needed the money, it was little, but being a single mom I needed all the money I could take. But if I was you and knew they are not going to give me anything I would have left the same day, just get up and leave. Period. I did not get any unemployment benefits either so I know what you are talking about.
Your story sounds just like mine, same same. Talk to HR again and double check to make sure they are NOT going to give any pay before you quit thou. You know my company was only supposed to pay me 2 weeks severance pay, and after I left I got the paperwork with the great news that I got actually 4, which I think it was a way for the company to thank me for staying and helping, so think about, then make a decision and stick to it. I cried when I got laid off, because I loved my job, but life goes on, and eventually you will find something else. Staying the extra month there made me really depressed and there was not even one day that I wanted to get up and leave, maybe it would have been a good idea, but I would never know. I can tell you that once everything was done and I was gone, I felt a lot better from not being there anymore.
you can't collect unemployment if you quit , you will have to wait until you are officially layed off
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I'm 27wks and 1 day pregnant...When I did My First Ultrasound, the Lady Said I'm Due In July 21, 2007...I Won't Have Another One Until I'm 8 Months....But What I'm Tryin To Figure Out Is That....
I'm Going To Turn 7 Months On April 28, 2007...And 8 Month On May 26, 2007...And 9 Month On June 23, 2007...But My Due Date Is On July 21, 2007...So I'll Be 10 Months....Is That Right, Or I'm I Going To Be Due In June 23, 2007????????/
My Last Period Was On October 14, 2006....I Had Intercouse On November 4, 2006....Is that right???????????
But Before That I Had Sex On September 1, 3, 9 14, 2006...But I Had My Period On September 18, 2006....But I Also Had My Period On October 14, 2006....I Didnt Have Sex In October...
So October Was My Last Period, And Thats When I Had Sex On November 4, 2006......
Martin= September
Tony= November
So When I'm I Due, And Who Can Be The Father????...Please Help
If You Going To Give Me Negative Respond Then Please Don't Respond..Thank YouFor Mature People ONLY, Please Read All...And What's Yall Advice...Thank You?
Tony is the father and yes pregnancy actually lasts 10 months. You are due in JulyFor Mature People ONLY, Please Read All...And What's Yall Advice...Thank You?
Hi there! Well, according to a due date calculator, you are due July 20th 2007, and conceived on or around october 27th 2006. (could also be early November, Indicating November 4th is pretty accurate ) So, I can tell you by what I see, Tony is definately the father. So I hope I helped. These due date calculators are very accurate too, so good luck and congratulations! You can email me if youd like to talk more. mandiliz06@yahoo.com
The best thing for you to do would be to go by the ultrasound date. Your due date is calculated by predicting that your pregnancy will be 40 weeks-10, 4 week months or 9 calender months. Count back roughly 38 weeks from your due date and that would be the APPROXIMATE time of your conception. Try this due date calender.
www.justmommies.com
From what you say, you should be due in the middle of August. Sorry if I am wrong.
we are actually pregnant for 10 months, so that should b right but if u dont feel like it is then maybe u should call ur doctors office tomorrow and make sure.Ive always heard that, its so miss leading that ppl only say that were only pregnant for 9 months when really its 10 months, 40 weeks is 10 months, right?....
your due date is correct, you're pregnant for a full 9 months. when you enter your 10th month is when you have the baby. martin is likely to be the father, according to the due date you were already pregnant when you were with tony, but i would get a dna test to be sure later.
Pregnancy is typically 40 weeks, which is 10 lunar months (10 x 4 weeks), but is 9 calendar months. Remember that calendar months are not 28 days, which is why this gets confusing. Therefore, you are due 7/21.
For the most part, doctors just say the number of weeks you are, to avoid the confusion.
When I was pregnant last year I just went by the lunar months version (10 months)... which meant that for the last month I got to say ';I'm 9 months pregnant!'; which solicited lots of sympathy and help. :)
It's possible to have your period and still be pregnant, especially early on. So if you are due in June (your due date is figured from when your last period should have been, not from when you got pregnant, so it is 10 months. You actually carry the baby for 9), it looks like Martin is the lucky guy. But the only way to be sure is a paternity test. I would guess you don't want to ask him to take a test, but it is best to know so you have a full medical history for your child - like if some kinds of cancer run in his family, or diabetes, or something like that. Plus the financial support would help - babies are expensive.
A pregnancy is approx. 40 wks =10 months but the 1st 4 weeks dont count. They go by lmp(last period) not ovulation day. understand? not trying to sound rude if thats how it comes across. I would have to guess Tony is probably the dad since that is the month you conceived. GOOD LUCK
it's my assumption that your due date is july 21st and that martin is the father, my first child had the same due date and remembering the time frame, it sounds to me like you got pregnant in sept. june 23rd would be the start of your 9th month,
strangely enough, pregnancy is actually 10 months long! I'm not sure exactly how it works, but pregnancy does last for 10 full months.
LMP October 14:
Your baby will be born on or around Saturday, July 21, 2007.
You are 27 weeks pregnant.
you should be due in 9 months give or take a few days to a week
IF you are due on July 23rd you definitely got pregnant in October.That's my sons birthday. you have to go to the end of nine months which really is ten . There are normally 4 weeks in a month,you are pregnant for approx 40w. but you baby is consider full term at 37w.
we actually carry the baby 10 months..they only say 9 months cause by the time you discover you're pregnant,u're probably atleast 1 month pregnant already..so its like minus 1 month...
If you go by the date of your last period, you are due July 21st, which is also what the ultrasound showed. (Take the date of your period, subtract 3 months, and add a week.) So I'd think that your due date is pretty accurate.
If you got your period in September, I doubt that the daddy is the guy you slept with that month. It's probably the guy from November. The only exception would be if you got a period your first month of pregnancy, and actually conceived in September. However, since the ultrasound showed that your dates were accurate, that's probably not the case.
I think your 7th month will BEGIN on April 28th - so you will be 6 full months pregnant then, and starting into your 7th month. So in May you'll be 7 months, June you'll be 8, and July will be 9 months. It gets kind of confusing because if you calculate 4 weeks in a month, yes, pregnancy is 10 months. It's easier just to think in terms of weeks.
If you get too confused, you can always ask your OB at your next appointment. They should be more than happy to explain anything to you. Good luck with your little one!
You are due in July. My sisters last pd was in October and she is due July 25th. There are 40 weeks in a pregnancy thats 10 months! You ovulate about 14 days after your period.(if your regular) Thats October 28th thru November 3rd ...ish!
Congratulations TONY!
Sonogram measurements are pretty accurate!
If you had a period in October you were probley NOT pregnant yet! I guess I don't agree with the others but good luck anyway.
I'm Going To Turn 7 Months On April 28, 2007...And 8 Month On May 26, 2007...And 9 Month On June 23, 2007...But My Due Date Is On July 21, 2007...So I'll Be 10 Months....Is That Right, Or I'm I Going To Be Due In June 23, 2007????????/
My Last Period Was On October 14, 2006....I Had Intercouse On November 4, 2006....Is that right???????????
But Before That I Had Sex On September 1, 3, 9 14, 2006...But I Had My Period On September 18, 2006....But I Also Had My Period On October 14, 2006....I Didnt Have Sex In October...
So October Was My Last Period, And Thats When I Had Sex On November 4, 2006......
Martin= September
Tony= November
So When I'm I Due, And Who Can Be The Father????...Please Help
If You Going To Give Me Negative Respond Then Please Don't Respond..Thank YouFor Mature People ONLY, Please Read All...And What's Yall Advice...Thank You?
Tony is the father and yes pregnancy actually lasts 10 months. You are due in JulyFor Mature People ONLY, Please Read All...And What's Yall Advice...Thank You?
Hi there! Well, according to a due date calculator, you are due July 20th 2007, and conceived on or around october 27th 2006. (could also be early November, Indicating November 4th is pretty accurate ) So, I can tell you by what I see, Tony is definately the father. So I hope I helped. These due date calculators are very accurate too, so good luck and congratulations! You can email me if youd like to talk more. mandiliz06@yahoo.com
The best thing for you to do would be to go by the ultrasound date. Your due date is calculated by predicting that your pregnancy will be 40 weeks-10, 4 week months or 9 calender months. Count back roughly 38 weeks from your due date and that would be the APPROXIMATE time of your conception. Try this due date calender.
www.justmommies.com
From what you say, you should be due in the middle of August. Sorry if I am wrong.
we are actually pregnant for 10 months, so that should b right but if u dont feel like it is then maybe u should call ur doctors office tomorrow and make sure.Ive always heard that, its so miss leading that ppl only say that were only pregnant for 9 months when really its 10 months, 40 weeks is 10 months, right?....
your due date is correct, you're pregnant for a full 9 months. when you enter your 10th month is when you have the baby. martin is likely to be the father, according to the due date you were already pregnant when you were with tony, but i would get a dna test to be sure later.
Pregnancy is typically 40 weeks, which is 10 lunar months (10 x 4 weeks), but is 9 calendar months. Remember that calendar months are not 28 days, which is why this gets confusing. Therefore, you are due 7/21.
For the most part, doctors just say the number of weeks you are, to avoid the confusion.
When I was pregnant last year I just went by the lunar months version (10 months)... which meant that for the last month I got to say ';I'm 9 months pregnant!'; which solicited lots of sympathy and help. :)
It's possible to have your period and still be pregnant, especially early on. So if you are due in June (your due date is figured from when your last period should have been, not from when you got pregnant, so it is 10 months. You actually carry the baby for 9), it looks like Martin is the lucky guy. But the only way to be sure is a paternity test. I would guess you don't want to ask him to take a test, but it is best to know so you have a full medical history for your child - like if some kinds of cancer run in his family, or diabetes, or something like that. Plus the financial support would help - babies are expensive.
A pregnancy is approx. 40 wks =10 months but the 1st 4 weeks dont count. They go by lmp(last period) not ovulation day. understand? not trying to sound rude if thats how it comes across. I would have to guess Tony is probably the dad since that is the month you conceived. GOOD LUCK
it's my assumption that your due date is july 21st and that martin is the father, my first child had the same due date and remembering the time frame, it sounds to me like you got pregnant in sept. june 23rd would be the start of your 9th month,
strangely enough, pregnancy is actually 10 months long! I'm not sure exactly how it works, but pregnancy does last for 10 full months.
LMP October 14:
Your baby will be born on or around Saturday, July 21, 2007.
You are 27 weeks pregnant.
you should be due in 9 months give or take a few days to a week
IF you are due on July 23rd you definitely got pregnant in October.That's my sons birthday. you have to go to the end of nine months which really is ten . There are normally 4 weeks in a month,you are pregnant for approx 40w. but you baby is consider full term at 37w.
we actually carry the baby 10 months..they only say 9 months cause by the time you discover you're pregnant,u're probably atleast 1 month pregnant already..so its like minus 1 month...
If you go by the date of your last period, you are due July 21st, which is also what the ultrasound showed. (Take the date of your period, subtract 3 months, and add a week.) So I'd think that your due date is pretty accurate.
If you got your period in September, I doubt that the daddy is the guy you slept with that month. It's probably the guy from November. The only exception would be if you got a period your first month of pregnancy, and actually conceived in September. However, since the ultrasound showed that your dates were accurate, that's probably not the case.
I think your 7th month will BEGIN on April 28th - so you will be 6 full months pregnant then, and starting into your 7th month. So in May you'll be 7 months, June you'll be 8, and July will be 9 months. It gets kind of confusing because if you calculate 4 weeks in a month, yes, pregnancy is 10 months. It's easier just to think in terms of weeks.
If you get too confused, you can always ask your OB at your next appointment. They should be more than happy to explain anything to you. Good luck with your little one!
You are due in July. My sisters last pd was in October and she is due July 25th. There are 40 weeks in a pregnancy thats 10 months! You ovulate about 14 days after your period.(if your regular) Thats October 28th thru November 3rd ...ish!
Congratulations TONY!
Sonogram measurements are pretty accurate!
If you had a period in October you were probley NOT pregnant yet! I guess I don't agree with the others but good luck anyway.
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